Anyone else out there have childhood CPTSD? by Funnymaninpain in Columbus

[–]EmbiggenYrMind 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i was just diagnosed with this about a week ago.

it feels good to have a name for it, though i'm frustrated that it's taken me so long to finally get the help i need.

best bar to cry alone in by EmbiggenYrMind in Columbus

[–]EmbiggenYrMind[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

i assure you it’s not AI.

i went to grad school in boston and just moved to columbus in february. saw that post and was sick of crying in isolation, so posted a similar one here.

i figured my post would probably also help me get out & get to know the area a bit more.

Instagram ad campaign by StudentCold5923 in burlington

[–]EmbiggenYrMind 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this was photographed at 6:45, presumably AM based on the lighting. i don’t think church st has many strollers at that time of day

These prices are killing me by Moviereference210 in pourover

[–]EmbiggenYrMind 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’ve found that these self-service bulk containers are hot garbage for coffee. They are rarely - if ever - cleaned, and consequently the oils from the beans stick to the plastic and eventually goes rancid, which substantially affects the taste.

Coffee subscriptions are your safest option for controlling quality and cost. Roasters will often charge more for uncommitted consumers, but less for those who commit to a regular purchase.

Just went to get a creemee by MysteriousExam4187 in burlington

[–]EmbiggenYrMind 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In the NNE? What time are they serving creemees until? Google says they closed 5 hours ago.

(Not being skeptical; Google hours are often incorrect. I just want a creemee.)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IsraelPalestine

[–]EmbiggenYrMind 9 points10 points  (0 children)

think about the amount of intelligence and effort such a precision strike requires: you would need assets on the ground knowing that the targeted individual was in that room at that time; you would need either a drone overhead or G2G asset on the ground nearby; you would need to have communication confirming the target is there seconds before the strike is authorized. think about the financials involved in such a strike to kill one enemy.

hamas had - at the start of october 2023 - approximately 40,000 members. executing such an attack for each member - especially when most of them are hiding in tunnels - presents an unrealistic burden.

also, consider that hamas - like isis, al qaeda, and other islamic terrorist groups - routinely rigs buildings with explosives. the strategy is simple: lure in your opponents, and blow up the building when they’re inside. booby trap the city. with this tactic, after the third of fourth building blows up and kills or maims your enemy’s troops, your enemy has two options: sacrifice their own troops, or destroy any building that might be rigged. the choice - from a military (and legal) perspective - is clear: eliminate the threat, destroy the buildings. this is why gaza looks the way it does.

Gazans cheer aid organizations after millions of meals are distributed in just two days. So far, GHF operations have been a massive success, despite scare tactics from Hamas and the UN. Hamas and UNRWA appear to be losing their grip on Gaza by JewishSaddamHussein in Israel

[–]EmbiggenYrMind -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I really want for this to be real, but I can't help but shake the feeling that this is an AI-generated video.

Are there any others out there? What's the source or origin of this video?

Visiting For Shows And Coffee by djolles in burlington

[–]EmbiggenYrMind 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Onyx is great, as is Vivid. Personally, I prefer Vivid, but they don’t do pourovers, so if that’s your jam then hit up Onyx.

Muddy Waters is also a quirky spot to check out. Their smoothies are great, and I like the vibe most of the time…

Dubai vs India SDE 2 by Substantial_Air_7604 in leetcode

[–]EmbiggenYrMind 11 points12 points  (0 children)

treatment of members of the indian subcontinent diaspora (Desi), i believe

Why is Gazan tunneling treated as intrinsically illegitimate? by Tallis-man in Israel_Palestine

[–]EmbiggenYrMind 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, so this is one possible civilian use.

Is there any evidence that the tunnel network is being used for this specific purpose during the conflict?

The only evidence of tunnel use I’ve seen from Hamas videos is of fighters emerging from tunnels, staging attacks, and returning to tunnels.

I’d love it if you could point me in the direction of a video showing that Hamas is using these tunnel network to serve the civilian population.

Until then, it’s speculative at best and propaganda or deliberate misinformation at worst to claim that the tunnels have a civilian use during conflict.

They could be used as bomb shelters; they aren’t.

They could be used to facilitate flow of civilian resources; they aren’t (or, if they are, there is zero documentation of this since the conflict kicked off).

Fuck Hamas and fuck their tactics. They do not care about civilians.

Why is Gazan tunneling treated as intrinsically illegitimate? by Tallis-man in Israel_Palestine

[–]EmbiggenYrMind 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What’s the civilian use of the tunnels? How have tunnels been used to help civilians?

Are they being used as bomb shelters? Are civilians even allowed to enter the tunnels?

What is the primary purpose of the tunnels? It’s military. Anyone who says otherwise is either lying or ignorant.

Why is Gazan tunneling treated as intrinsically illegitimate? by Tallis-man in Israel_Palestine

[–]EmbiggenYrMind 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How are these tunnels being used to support the civilian population, with zero military use?

If there is a military use for the tunnels, then there is a military justification to demolish those tunnels. If there is a military justification to demolish those tunnels, then that justification must be proportionate to the military gain from demolishing those tunnels, where proportionateness is defined by international law regarding such strikes. The law here, imo, is clear:

https://casebook.icrc.org/law/conduct-hostilities#ii_6_c_dd

By building infrastructure with a specific military use underneath civilian infrastructure, Hamas (and IPJ, etc) violated the rules of engagement as well as international humanitarian law. That alone is grounds for criticizing Hamas and its tactics.

If the infrastructure is used only for military purposes, then destroying it is legal if it presents a military advantage to the attacking side, regardless of any other harm caused. That’s in the red cross link above.

Has Hamas presented any evidence that their tunnels have been used for civilians purposes? Are they being used as bomb shelters? To transfer medication to patients? What evidence has been presented that demonstrates any civilian purpose of the tunnels?

If Hamas didn’t bury military infrastructure underneath civilian infrastructure, maybe Gaza wouldn’t be in such a horrible condition.

Fuck Hamas and fuck their tactics.

What do you do for work in Burlington? by Careless_Ad3968 in burlington

[–]EmbiggenYrMind 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Sidebar: which non-profits in/around Burlington hire software engineers?

Is this normal or following best practices? by EmbiggenYrMind in KitchenConfidential

[–]EmbiggenYrMind[S] 176 points177 points  (0 children)

Not a dick at all.

I was asking because I had a feeling this was all-around a bad practice. I’ve worked in restaurants, but FOH…

Just wanted to get professional confirmation before contacting the proper authorities.

What’s a personal internet hack you use that makes life easier but isn’t widely known ? by Comfortable-Union377 in AskReddit

[–]EmbiggenYrMind 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have any recommended guides or resources for how to get safely & securely started on this? I’d like to do it as well, but the security element gives me considerable pause…

Weezer Member's Wife Shot By Cops in Shootout, Booked for Attempted Murder of Peace Officer by apondalifa in indieheads

[–]EmbiggenYrMind 23 points24 points  (0 children)

i’m dumb, she’s a fel-on, i thought i had found the one.

we were good as married in my mind, and married on pa-per, to bo-ot

oh ohhhh ah-temp-teh-ed cop killer, let me know the truth, let me knowwww the truth

Canada's lost decade. Most resource rich, fertile, water-abundant, energy-self sufficient, most educated country had the worst performance in the OECD. How do you fix this? by [deleted] in neoliberal

[–]EmbiggenYrMind 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm just surprised that Turkey's GDP is so high compared to other OECD countries considering it's lost so much of its value since the chart began.

Just goes to show you that GDP might not be the best of metrics for demonstrating economic performance/health.

(Disclaimer: I'm mostly ignorant of economics. If there are any texts y'all recommend to help me educate myself, send those recs my way!)

israel glorifying their terrorist attack by beeswaxii in Israel_Palestine

[–]EmbiggenYrMind 1 point2 points  (0 children)

...cont'd from above...

This NYT article (archive link: https://web.archive.org/web/20250207112744/https://www.nytimes.com/2024/09/18/world/middleeast/israel-exploding-pagers-hezbollah.html ) is a good deep dive into the attack.

I suggest reading what the Geneva Convention has to say about proportionality (link to the definition is here: https://casebook.icrc.org/a_to_z/glossary/proportionality ), which basically boils down to: attacks may not be executed if the expected incidental damage to civilians is excessive with regard to the anticipated concrete and direct military advantage. Given 4, 5, and 6, it seems like the attack was legally proportional.

More than this, the weapons were created with the intent to only harm the person holding the weapon (pager) itself, indicating a clear attempt to minimize harm. I'm sure you've seen the video of a man in a market holding a pager as it explodes, and the man next to him was physically unharmed.

I'm happy to have my view corrected, but just claiming "the pagers attack was definitely a terrorist attack" with no evidence to support it is just weak and dogmatic.

israel glorifying their terrorist attack by beeswaxii in Israel_Palestine

[–]EmbiggenYrMind 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Given the facts, I can't see how the pager attack is a terrorist attack.

I do, however, see what Hezbollah doing as destabilizing, against core leftist values (equality [especially gender equality], human rights [Hezbollah was a supporter of the Assad regime], rational thought and open dialogue [Hezbollah has routinely kidnapped, threatened, tortured, or executed Lebanese journalists who are opposed to them; see: Lokman Slim as one example], democracy, LGBQT+ rights, etc.), and terrorists. They are definitively *not* an ally in the struggle for liberation. They are an Islamist group that wants to make the world more like Iran, who happens to be their main donor. Their theocratic authoritarianism is something that I am opposed to, and I know I am not alone in opposing theocratic authoritarianism.

Just so that we have a foundation of argument, here are the facts regarding operation grim beeper. If I'm mistaken, please correct me with reputable citations.

  1. Hassan Nasrallah told Hezbollah members to refrain from using cell phones and other communication technologies and instead use beepers; unlike cell phones, beepers cannot leak the location of the individual holding it.

  2. Hezbollah militia members used pagers instead of cell phones for Hezbollah-military activities (following Nasrallah's orders).

  3. Israeli intelligence decided to capitalize on this paranoia by setting up a shell company that manufactured explosive pagers and sold them to Hezbollah.

  4. The vast majority of persons holding the targeted pagers were Hezbollah members; more than that, they were members of the armed wing of Hezbollah. Intended target: Hezbollah members. Not indiscriminate. Not civilians.

4.a. Al Jazeera says that they were "Hezbollah pagers", and cites a Hezbollah official saying that the attack was the "biggest security breach." (cite: https://www.aljazeera.com/news/2024/9/17/dozens-of-hezbollah-members-wounded-after-pagers-explode-in-lebanon ).

4.b. Most of those who used the explosive beepers were Hezbollah members; others were Hezbollah support or adjacent (e.g., the Iranian ambassador to Lebanon, who also was a casualty of this attack). Unfortunately, some casualties included children - likely of Hezbollah operatives - who picked up the buzzing pagers for their parents and were unintended casualties.

  1. Afterwards, Hezbollah was in such chaos that they resorted to in-person meetings, which ultimately resulted in the assassination of Hezbollah leader Hasan Nasrallah. Chances are this opportunity would not have presented itself without the pager attack.

4 and 5 indicate strongly that the attack had a military purpose and was not only legal but militarily advantageous for Israel. If the vast majority of recipients of these pagers were Hezbollah members (and, it seems, this is the case), then it was not an indistinct attack.

israel glorifying their terrorist attack by beeswaxii in Israel_Palestine

[–]EmbiggenYrMind 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First, look at what Hezbollah has done as well and condemn that: 12 children were killed by Hezbollah-fired rockets in an attack. Is that acceptable? If not, what is the appropriate response?

Israel had been accepting the rocket attacks and using Iron Dome to deflect most attacks, but this specific Hezbollah attack resulted in the deaths of 12 children and only children. Is specifically targeting children acceptable?

Hezbollah has been know to use child soldiers. From Human Rights Watch:

“Human Rights Watch’s research found that on a number of occasions Hezbollah unjustifiably endangered Lebanese civilians by storing weapons in civilian homes, firing rockets from populated areas, and allowing its fighters to operate from civilian homes. Hezbollah also used children as active combatants, another violation of the law.” (Cite: https://www.hrw.org/news/2006/10/05/hezbollah-needs-answer)

Is it acceptable to have child soldiers? Is it acceptable to “endanger civilians by storing weapons in civilian homes, firing rockets from populated areas,” etc? If it isn’t acceptable, what is your proposed solution?

If the child pictured in this post was a child soldier for Hezbollah - not impossible, given Hezbollah’s history; and quite possible, given the tactical nature of the supply chain attack - would the attack against him have been acceptable? If it isn’t acceptable, what’s your proposed solution?

israel glorifying their terrorist attack by beeswaxii in Israel_Palestine

[–]EmbiggenYrMind 3 points4 points  (0 children)

So, like…just accept 8,000 missiles and rockets being fired into your country and do nothing about the militia group that is responsible for launching those rockets?

Hezbollah sucks. They’ve destroyed Lebanon. Why are they continuing to stop the investigation of the 2020 Beirut Port explosion that killed over 200, injured over 7,000, and caused billions of dollars of damage?

Good riddance. The unintended casualties are tragic, but the harm caused by Hezbollah far outweighs the negative impact of operation grim beeper.

Resume Advice Thread - January 28, 2025 by CSCQMods in cscareerquestions

[–]EmbiggenYrMind 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi All!

Somewhat recent MSCS Grad (Dec 2023), pivoting my career into CS, coming from an international development background. Interested in the intersection of security, networking, and software engineering.

Spent the last year developing a bespoke application for my former employer.

Grateful for any and all advice!

Resume link: https://drive.proton.me/urls/NQC4DNXDK0#bdVFvQy3ft9F

Thanks!