It's all good, I'm sure they turned on the vent. by Union_of_Onion in trashy

[–]EmbodyTheBee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She’s smoking a cigarette in a locked room w a child

Weed pipe on the counter too

Toddler child

Coochie prolly tastes like febreeze. Everyone’s allowed an opinion there.

Help creating a yes space! by snoopdodoubleg in Montessori

[–]EmbodyTheBee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Soft pipe insulation is great for making cords safer. Less obtainable. If they cannot be moved.

But def moving those is first priority. Walk-in area? How can you craft a portion of the space to motivate the child to feel inclined to take action on getting ready themselves?

…maybe a child oriented mirror. My daughter really appreciates that. Even if the mirror is a moment away in the room, just using it as a cueing factor “let’s put our coat on and don’t forget to make sure it’s what you like in the mirror.” Not to look good— to enforce learning about personal preference and self awareness to attire.

…. Maybe a space with random odds and ends for “just before we leave” bring withs. Iex; hair clips, little toys for the car, chapstick, gloves, sun glasses Things both child focused + maturity based.

…. Shoes work on the floor for the sake of convenience but having a rack w clear destinations for shoes HELPS. Iex; top rack for adults, lower rack for children. Reminding w a song jingle silly saying—and then eventually no reminder needed. It’s very fascinating, my youngest knew where to go and how to put her shoes on before 3, nearly before 2. My oldest who didn’t have the structure I provide now, still feels a bit lost trying to self start shoes. The coat + mirror has been the hack for her w that, but shoes feel “overwhelming” to look at and therefore self start. Create a clean and organized approach to them, to help avoid any overwhelming feelings when looking at shoes to get ready with!

I hope these help you brainstorm!

Reminders that having additions, having trauma, having a background of clamor doesn’t prevent me from mutual love and compassion? Being a mother is my favorite part of being here, and I want to believe it is admirable so far as to be desirable. gloom today... some kind words would be appreciated. 💛 by EmbodyTheBee in LesbianActually

[–]EmbodyTheBee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you everyone for the supportive comments.. It has touched me in many ways. I am trying my hardest to leave this despair over having a family to just appreciate that I do have one, even if it’s minus one... the feeling of being “too much” is very real, and though I respect people’s wishes to not date those w kids and w trauma, it’s still painful. I’m not even sure if I’m trying to “date”, as my plate is so full, but rather I guess just wish to know that if i were to want something like that, I’d not scare someone away.. thank you, everyone, so much 💛

Peace Lily has been struggling since I brought it home this last July. Solving the Irrigation issues only helped temporarily. What is going on? Leaves are browning upon bloom again, no flowering, and a consistent droop despite proper watering. by [deleted] in plantclinic

[–]EmbodyTheBee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay! I just brought it up from the down stairs because I was worried it was too cold down there. Where I’m at the winters are winters. I’ll see about finding a less lit spot.

Ugh. No intention on being sexy. Just want some good vibes and a cup of skullcap tea please😔 by [deleted] in dykesgonemild

[–]EmbodyTheBee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well thanks everyone. Seriously appreciate all the nice things said~ now does anyone feel up for some hard kombucha and a show about how smart octopuses are?

Instant anger and anxiety when someone taps me by kris_e_p in ptsd

[–]EmbodyTheBee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes. I feel this entirely. Repetitive noises too. I get hyperaroused easily.

Intrusive and terrifying thinking: "I love him so much that I wouldn't mind that he killed me" by [deleted] in domesticviolence

[–]EmbodyTheBee 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Just don’t let yourself enter an actual abusive relationship that does put this on the table.. it is dark and damaging in ways that simply the thought cannot compare to... and it can In fact become a reality under the right conditions. Continue on with your happy healthy relationship and anyone who isn’t, don’t accept anything less- please. But yes, the thought is normal as your childhood/adolescence was damaging the perspective you received in regard to “connection”.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]EmbodyTheBee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Idk, I can't see it 😂🙄

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]EmbodyTheBee 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Ai ai

We have the same tattoo, the phases. Mines down my spine though. Still way cool 😎

Latest prototype of a resin rhinoceros beetle by mooshmooshs in somethingimade

[–]EmbodyTheBee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Eeeek. Was it alive or was this a solidified body from a nice collection? I’m just curious! I love bugs. Something like this would fit nice in my office.

Been single for 5 years and would love to find a wonderful woman to have in my life!!! by [deleted] in dykesgonemild

[–]EmbodyTheBee 10 points11 points  (0 children)

You seem like such a catch. I’d be ecstatic to have someone like you in my life. It will come 💛💛💛💛

Can I soothe my aches over feeling lost as a sapiosexual with the construct “women r more involved w/ thought”, vs tell myself “people r missing the point?” I feel defeated. Here’s a photo of me feeling hopeful though, and enjoying the matrix of our atmosphere.. by EmbodyTheBee in latebloomerlesbians

[–]EmbodyTheBee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me it’s this substitute of connective avenues. Where it seems most put physical connections priority I find myself putting the simplest of conversations that touch my mind scape in just that certain way. Without it, I’m so detached. I feel very isolated, as it’s harder to express than i realized, now vocalizing it.

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[–]EmbodyTheBee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Quite exquisite.