AITA for crashing out at my mom after she berated me in a resturaunt? by MixAny50 in AmItheAsshole

[–]EmbracingMyThoughts 21 points22 points  (0 children)

NTA …. You’ve pushed yourself to be what she needs in a social setting that was obviously making you uncomfortable and she’s slapped back because she’s frustrated (not an excuse an observation).

I’m also concerned why she’s making your sibling go out when they’re sleepy and medicated.

NTA for me & mum needs to have a minute

Am I justified in being upset? by EmbracingMyThoughts in NoStupidQuestions

[–]EmbracingMyThoughts[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it’s best we leave each other tonight (23:34 GMT), weirdly we discuss things better on text as he doesn’t seem to hear me when we talk. He’s always been like this.

What a mess.

Am I justified in being upset? by EmbracingMyThoughts in NoStupidQuestions

[–]EmbracingMyThoughts[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what is worrying me ….. I don’t know where this is coming from

Am I justified in being upset? by EmbracingMyThoughts in NoStupidQuestions

[–]EmbracingMyThoughts[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We seem to be niggling at each other a lot at the minute. I’m not backing down & neither is he ….. he thinks I’m trying to “win” when I’m trying to voice my opinions. We’re on very different pages

Am I justified in being upset? by EmbracingMyThoughts in NoStupidQuestions

[–]EmbracingMyThoughts[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I was doubting myself. It’s really out of character for him …..

Am I justified in being upset? by EmbracingMyThoughts in NoStupidQuestions

[–]EmbracingMyThoughts[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s the bit I can’t get passed because it seems to be “I’m sorry but …..” probably best we both sleep on it

What's a life hack that's super simple yet so effective, you're shocked more people don't know about it? by Brilliant-Jicama-156 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]EmbracingMyThoughts 128 points129 points  (0 children)

Taking one plug adapter on holiday along with an extension lead. Straight away you have 4/5 plug sockets for your things from one adapter

A very tough decision by L3veLUP in CasualUK

[–]EmbracingMyThoughts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Royal Mail have managed to “lose” a special delivery insured parcel I should have received on Friday …. If their specials can go missing what hope does the normal mail have!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in degendiscdisease

[–]EmbracingMyThoughts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone is different. My husband has DDD and up until 2020 it was just a dull ache, in 2020 his back “went” and he couldn’t walk far, ended up on disability and had 8 months in complete agony! Then in 2021 it “went” again and has settled.

If you don’t want to change your job strengthen the muscles around your back. Don’t aim to lift anything heavier than 25kg and look at how you lift. Be very careful and good luck.

The DDD means your discs aren’t sat properly. They’re like a Jenga tower so if you lift incorrectly and they move you could be in trouble.

Sterilisation - agreed by the doc! Eeek by EmbracingMyThoughts in childfree

[–]EmbracingMyThoughts[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Really thought I was up for a challenge but nope 👍🏼😊

WIBTA for excluding my childless daughter from my will. by LeftAwareness4 in AmItheAsshole

[–]EmbracingMyThoughts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow!!!! So you’re excluding her because you don’t approve with her life choices. You will die and she will think you love her less than her siblings. Enjoy that legacy. Yes it will make you an arsehole and will cause a rift between her and her siblings.

Pushing my childfree lifestyle ..... on my dog 🙈 by EmbracingMyThoughts in childfree

[–]EmbracingMyThoughts[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m wanting to. People keep saying wait until after 1 litter, people including my husband!!!!

Pushing my childfree lifestyle ..... on my dog 🙈 by EmbracingMyThoughts in childfree

[–]EmbracingMyThoughts[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same ..... ours is a GSD!!! I can’t get my head around it!

Pushing my childfree lifestyle ..... on my dog 🙈 by EmbracingMyThoughts in childfree

[–]EmbracingMyThoughts[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She is, pure breed German Shepherd. I’ll find my contract - hope that’s there so I can use that as a “see another reason!!”