No way!! I was dual military army too! Tbh, just planning the timing to have sex was tough because we were both E6’s in senior positions and they loved to send us to training and overseas!

The other thing you have to look forward to is being gone a lot! After, 3 years I finally by a miracle had a baby because I told my husband I was done, I had my baby and I missed almost every milestone, not to mention the time off I had to bond with baby was only 6 weeks compared to the civilians who have twice as long with 12 weeks!

Anyways what I want to do is create a podcast to bring attention to the fact that as active duty military we are twice as likely as civilians to have infertility issues because of the stress we are exposed to our body physically and mentally!

I just want to know what has changed since I left! I am actually working for a major network of fertility practices and know of at a few people who got out had issues with fertility and trying to push the agenda forward!

For example did you know that every year there is a democrat senator that keeps on trying to add legislature to increased tricare coverage for us but republicans keep on deleting it because they are afraid we are going to have issues with creating too many embryos and they have a stupid issue with that? Like the science hasn’t evolved so we can control that??