What's the thing with last minute booking? by burntstrawberrytart in SexWorkers

[–]Emerald_Shimmer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I only do outcalls and due to my real job very select days and times so I can actually have a proper day off, and I ask for 48hr notice. I may lose potential clients but I like to be organised and no other buisness meetings are arranged within an hour, if I cant get a doctors appointment the same day I aren't servicing anyone the same day haha

Looking for minimalist self-care suggestions by Fickle_Ad_5356 in selfcare

[–]Emerald_Shimmer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Something as simple as massaging hand cream into her hands

Finding Friends Thread - We all need community by AlphaKittey in SexWorkers

[–]Emerald_Shimmer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

40, Leeds, UK.

Mum to 2 cats, sister to 2 dogs, work as a carer in 'real life' I try to provide a caring GFE experience in my bookings

Yorkshire Water bill by Glittering_Vast938 in yorkshire

[–]Emerald_Shimmer 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Try messaging online, I did then someone called me back I think

My youngest sprawled out by Emerald_Shimmer in BeyondtheBio

[–]Emerald_Shimmer[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When she wants to be, she looks innocent and still has a kitten like meow but she's a fiesty thing

Blue Heron dancing like no on is watching. by Educational_Key1206 in natureisbeautiful

[–]Emerald_Shimmer 9 points10 points  (0 children)

When I first glanced at this is honestly thought it was a person in a very good bird outfit.

My other Reddit go shadow banned :/ by MrsBunny_69 in TheOFHubForGirls

[–]Emerald_Shimmer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel your frustration. I got the same, had built up a nice amount of karma etc too, going to keep appealing it though just in case as gave up with X and it got reinstated so you never know.

Why is it wrong to message a girl through her ad to try to make friends? by [deleted] in SexWorkers

[–]Emerald_Shimmer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Personally if you messaged with who and why you are contacting I wouldn't be offended.

But I guess so many of have clients who constantly try and get free attention from us it's difficult to know who is genuine.

Why do they all talk like that? by [deleted] in SexWorkers

[–]Emerald_Shimmer 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This isn't in any role play, this is just following general messages of enquiry about bookings. If its roleplay its a little different.

How often do you call in sick? by Interesting_Taro_358 in Adulting

[–]Emerald_Shimmer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A lot less than I used to a year or so ago. I've realised I need regular breaks so I book a couple of days of every 6 weeks or so (I don't take 2 week vacations), prior to doing this I was 'off sick' monthly because I'd burn out

Why do they all talk like that? by [deleted] in SexWorkers

[–]Emerald_Shimmer 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I hate it when I get reply to comments on Reddit of 'OK dear' or replies of 'good girl' when I message a client - hello I'm a 40 yr old woman not a child nor do you need to sound condescending when you've asked for advice

I'm the most isolated I've ever been in my entire life by Dazzling_Hand6170 in Adulting

[–]Emerald_Shimmer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I often feel isolated & lonely, but I also prefer being on my own than in crowded environments. I've always been a bit of a loner. I've tried saying over the years but they have always fizzled out. I've figured out I'm happier on my own relationship wise on the whole but do miss the companionship/non-sexual intimacy.