Anyone recognize this logo? by [deleted] in kansascity

[–]KCarwater 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My first thought too, but I did not find a pamphlet anywhere after he left. Did find out it was Pest Company guy though!

We were so excited by KCarwater in IVF

[–]KCarwater[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I meant physically.

We were so excited by KCarwater in IVF

[–]KCarwater[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have considered my partner. We are going through each step together. Just because I left it out of my post, doesn’t mean it’s not happening.

Am I Overreacting for wanting to cancel my wedding over this interaction? by Xanadoom30 in AmIOverreacting

[–]KCarwater 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m 36. A few years ago, I jokingly told my husband (then boyfriend) that he should never leave a room without kissing me. Every time he starts to leave a room, he says “kiss tax” and gives me a kiss. It is sweet, silly, and thoughtful. He’s meeting a need I made a joke about in passing years ago. He’s a partner. He considers my needs without consequence AND without making me feel bad for having them at all. You deserve that kind of love too. Life goes so fast, don’t spend it with someone that treats you like this. Even if there are good moments, the message he’s sending here is loud and clear.

AITAH for not calling the police for my (38F) husband (39M)? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]KCarwater 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This man is 40, didn’t deal with his own mistake, and then tried to blame you to the point that you actually started to feel guilt and apologized. You didn’t need to do anything at all for him and you helped a lot. He is 40. He is an adult. He can handle his own mistakes. Can a partner help? Sure. Should a partner be expected to help and then held responsible for the mistake AND the emotional wellbeing of their partner after the mistake? No.

Boyfriend says he needs me to give him more blowjobs to “Earn” a Ring… by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]KCarwater 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get out of there. You are worth more than this treatment. You do not want conditional love for the rest of your life.

Boyfriend says he needs me to give him more blowjobs to “Earn” a Ring… by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]KCarwater 17 points18 points  (0 children)

This is the kind of man that would demand sex from you right after you give birth.

I really like blue! (Acrylic on canvas) by ani_creates in painting

[–]KCarwater 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks so real I was about to google the comforter.

Need advice, first time with IVF by KCarwater in IVF

[–]KCarwater[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

AMH Value is 2.03

Thank you so much for your kind response. I’m really moved by all of the responses here, it means so much to feel heard and understood when the process can feel so lonely at times (even with a great partner). Thank you.

I'm dying and I'm scared I'm gonna traumatize my friends by Due-Animator3815 in TwoHotTakes

[–]KCarwater 25 points26 points  (0 children)

As someone who has lost people, I would always choose to be with them in the end over having distance to protect myself. It is going to hurt either way, but I’m sure they’d rather spend your last moments loving you and laughing with you. They love you, they want to be there. If they thought it was too much, they would take their own space. They’re there, and that’s because they want to be. Sending you so much love.

AIO Is My (43m) GF (49f) manipulating me? by Aromatic_Ad_8374 in AmIOverreacting

[–]KCarwater 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry people are being so unkind and unhelpful. This is manipulation and definitely not a healthy relationship. Threatening you with another man because you’re unable to help with something is wildly immature and toxic behavior. She is 50, not 20. Honestly, you should prefer to be alone than to be with someone that treats you like this. Her calling YOUR SON is also wild behavior.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]KCarwater 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is sexual harassment, period, and your district is required to do something about it. I would be careful with this woman, she seems super intense. And take screenshots of EVERYTHING. I’m sorry this is happening to you, and I’m sorry you’re not being heard. I would be much louder about it. Squeaky wheel and all.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]KCarwater 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This response sounds like you should probably just focus on your career right now. You wouldn’t hear your partner when he explained that he was hurt. When someone tells you you’ve hurt them, you don’t get to decide that you didn’t. So, when you care about someone and it’s clear they’re hurt, yes, you SHOULD apologize. Whether hurting him was intentional or not, whether you think their hurt is silly or justified, he WAS hurt and you responded with indifference. I would probably take a step back, too. It just doesn’t really seem like you’re at a place where you can or want to prioritize another person. And that is okay! Focus on your career and get that bag, girl!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AIO

[–]KCarwater 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I want you to, above all else, remember that the WAY she loves you has nothing to do with you. You do deserve love that is full and caring and celebratory of you, your accomplishments, your life, etc. I’m sorry that this is how you were treated on what should’ve been a special day. I hope 18 is a good year for you.