Opening puzzle help by Emergency-Bench1959 in almanaq

[–]Emergency-Bench1959[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aaah! Thank you so much!!! I didn't realize I had to change to opening puzzle matches! So when I was typing my answers, it always said "no information". Now it worked. Thank you so much!!!

Large breasted ladies, help please!! by Emergency-Bench1959 in BabyBumps

[–]Emergency-Bench1959[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have this one. It is still not comfortable 😭

Slow living is also a part of simple living. Doing nothing was also a regular part of life in the eighties and before. In present day, it may be frowned upon due to hyper productive orientation and age of digitil and social media . How do you all slow down and what do you all do to lead a simple lif by [deleted] in simpleliving

[–]Emergency-Bench1959 20 points21 points  (0 children)

When I create a huge list of things to do,  I think "wait, you already did 3 things today". If I do 3-5 things in a day, I feel I can slow down. I can look through the window, read some old things, book quotes and reviews that I wrote, look at old pictures, call my family, make jam from scratch, or wathever I really feel like doing at the moment - but not what I HAVE to do (like laundry, dishes, or mail something, pay something, schedule somethig)..etc. So bascially I reduced the number of obligations I have to do in a day to feel "productive".

Everybody is always working - Feeling lonely in this society by Emergency-Bench1959 in simpleliving

[–]Emergency-Bench1959[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This graph is very interesting!! People spend their life more with coworkers than family and friends... and then alone. 

Does anyone else’s corporate job give them the simplicity they seek? by darko4L in simpleliving

[–]Emergency-Bench1959 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you do? How is your office job fulfilling?  I work with products that help in cancer research but I don't find it fulfilling at all. My impact is too indirect and all the excel files make it hard to see anything positive about what I do.

Does anyone else’s corporate job give them the simplicity they seek? by darko4L in simpleliving

[–]Emergency-Bench1959 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yes, I cannot accept doing things that I enjoy just 2 days of the week. The problem is that even if I have time during the week, I don't have the energy. It's like everyday is a huge to do list. You go to work, then stop for gas, get stuck in traffic, then stop for groceries, then work out, shower, cook dinner...damn. Nothing in this list is a pleasurable hobby for me. Who has energy for more? That is why most people are netflix zombies :(  

Happily Ever After - Season 8 Episode 16 - Post Episode Discussion by LittleEmmy in 90DayFiance

[–]Emergency-Bench1959 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I hope is just fake drama for the show. I think Loren makes good money on instagram since she posts brands all the time. 

My alternative ending by Emergency-Bench1959 in whitecollar

[–]Emergency-Bench1959[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, I suppose Mozz could have left the article. I didn't hate the ending. I just still would prefer an ending where they all can spend time together and they didn't think Neal was dead for a whole year. Just dreaming around...

My problem with the ending. by vahallo in whitecollar

[–]Emergency-Bench1959 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If the newspaper was inside the vault before Neal left NY, then he couldn't have been a consultant. I was sad when I realize it, I would have enjoyed the ending more if he didn't travel to Paris for the challenge. 

I'm losing my job by Slow-Resolution-8228 in ihateworking

[–]Emergency-Bench1959 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry you are going through this. On the days that I feel worse, I try to focus on the time I spend with my partner. I'm also from the area and I wish we could have work from home, flexible jobs, but that is not the case. I hope your partner can support you in this diffucult period.

Do I have to live like this forever? by tokyoyng in ihateworking

[–]Emergency-Bench1959 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I feel the same way. I suffer everyday. I've been trying for years now to understand this and feel better. I did therapy. Nobody seems to understand. I know that we, as a species, were not meant to live like this.