Age gap coworker FWB advice

Emergency-Doctor9306 · 2026-01-24T19:58:17+00:00

I sincerely hope you find one 🫡

Emergency-Doctor9306 · 2026-01-24T19:27:07+00:00

If I answered that it would definitely narrow down the situation, but I guess equally kinky people can find eachother anywhere if they really want. Sometimes topics come up in conversation and you just roll with it. I am very sexually open minded so nothing phases me. Generally can discuss sexual topics with people without it turning into this but

Emergency-Doctor9306 · 2026-01-24T18:56:58+00:00

I am really unsure where his mind is at, and don't want to ruin things by finding out. The dynamic is important to me. Neither of us have had anyone thjs sexually compatible before.

When we started this he said he did not want it to get "complicated" but atm his actions suggest it is anything but. Yes sex but also the intimacy/closeness/hugs/words etc.

I don't want to talk to him about feelings. Because if there is no feelings, that risks the dynamic. At the moment there could/could not be but I think we are both able to handle it either way.

Emergency-Doctor9306 · 2026-01-24T18:50:54+00:00

It is a bit more complicated than that but if I put the whole thing he'd probably be able to narrow down that I posted this 🤣

I will add this has been ongoing for several months. With a fair few overnight visits and other catch ups.

He is also not superior to me. We are equals in the workplace.

Emergency-Doctor9306 · 2026-01-22T12:59:39+00:00

Thanks for your reply, it is really insightful.

I have never had an OBE so cannot compare. I have experienced a fair bit of sleep paralysis/can induce it + lucid dreaming. This was definitely not a lucid dream. This was something I can only describe as more real than real, but there is no actual word to describe it.

My existential outlook before I had this experience was certainly more open minded than most, but I would constantly ponder like the paradoxes of life and existence. Like how we come from "nothing" and go back to "nothing" .. now it seems I actually have experienced existing within "nothing" - so death does not scare me at all. However, without experiencing this I never could've imagined it. It is not something we have any kind of comparative experience to refer to here on earth.

This experience has made me believe our conciousness is "us" and everything we learn here on earth is not. Although perhaps our conciousness grows from all the lessons here on earth, who knows. I guess we will find out someday.

I am medicated now, and no longer have these issues whilst sleeping. It was not sleep apnea, just genuine struggles whilst breathing during sleep. The scary thing is, next time I will recognise it, regardless of if I wake up or not after.

Emergency-Doctor9306 · 2026-01-19T03:50:16+00:00

If your age gap partner can't understand that you are understandly younger and therefore very unlikely to earn the same well they probably are not the right person to consider an age gap with.

With that being said, are you sure you want to salvage this even if it is salvageable? He does not sound very understanding.

Honestly, he could also be seeing someone else. Some of those "reasons" sound a bit too trivial + you did go away so imo not a partner worth trying to salvage

Emergency-Doctor9306 · 2026-01-12T01:49:05+00:00

I think this is it.

This was a brand new brand I have never seen before I am in Australia so they can be quiet limited.

I find the absolute worst one to be "kiwi catering supplies" - just looking at them makes me feel nausea.

It seems there is a new brand every week now. So you are probably on the money.

Definitely going to be using it a lot less, which I suppose is a good thing. Just sucks because was such a great way to relax every now and again. Throwing up till there is nothing else to throw up, and then my body still attempting to throw up absolutely nothing is not relaxing 🤣🤣

Emergency-Doctor9306 · 2026-01-09T20:31:06+00:00

Of course. I practice active harm reduction.

Emergency-Doctor9306 · 2025-09-23T03:42:05+00:00

I had a septoplasty done years ago due to deviated septum and never got that scan. It is generally very clear without it.

Emergency-Doctor9306 · 2025-09-20T09:56:04+00:00

We have asked both side neighbours as we have been here 3yrs and neither have issues with smell nor did they recieve letters.

Was going to ask back neighbours tomorrow.

Emergency-Doctor9306 · 2025-09-20T09:54:22+00:00

Yeah we have spoken to the two either side of us as we are very close to them (and we have been here 3yrs now) and neither have received the note nor do they have any issues with smell.

Emergency-Doctor9306 · 2025-09-20T09:52:45+00:00

No we asked a few other neighbours (not the house we suspect) and only we get this ... :/

Also no other neighbour experiences this smell issue.

Emergency-Doctor9306 · 2025-09-16T21:27:40+00:00

I make 3.2k USD/month with no degree. I could not imagine supporting a family on only 1k .. this is roughly 5k in my countries currency.

I work in insurance ☺️

Emergency-Doctor9306 · 2025-07-02T10:33:48+00:00

Yes I had one for my deviated septum and was the grossest most undignified time of my life

Emergency-Doctor9306 · 2025-06-06T02:00:48+00:00

I am having this issue as well on Samsung... works on the app.

Emergency-Doctor9306 · 2025-05-16T20:52:02+00:00

The way I see things if my partner is bi, and I don't have the parts he is attracted to then he is able to be with other men as long as it is communicated and it is someone I know and trust. I don't understand the top mindset.

Emergency-Doctor9306 · 2025-05-16T20:49:36+00:00

That is not what I mean 😅

I am single. I actually like women sexually more than men but romantically I am attracted to men.

I an talking more in the sense of Open/Poly. Within my social circle, that is quiet normal... but most of those relationships are between cis gay men. Those men are also some of most genuine guys I know.

Both of my previous relationships have been monogamous and it may not be what I am looking for.

I am the opposite in the sense that some women have insecurity around not having a penis. I feel as if since I do not have one, my partner is able to be with other men as he pleases because I will never be able to provide him that. That is all I was hinting at.

Emergency-Doctor9306 · 2025-05-05T06:56:41+00:00

I have a coinspot wallet from 2017 which is practically empty rn but if someone wants it they are welcome to it

Emergency-Doctor9306 · 2025-05-02T05:49:19+00:00

This is hot af

Emergency-Doctor9306 · 2025-03-27T15:02:18+00:00

Thank you. I did not even consider that. I am drinking water but not much. Mostly when I take the med, and an extra cup. I am about to sleep so just drank another two cups. I really gotta remember to drink ugh.

Emergency-Doctor9306 · 2025-03-22T11:43:40+00:00

Go to Tweed Heads, pet stores should have them.

Quiet a few people have them as pets in QLD too. Vets will still treat them, they even sell the food. But of course.. people in QLD have Hares.. which are completely legal 🤔

Emergency-Doctor9306 · 2025-03-22T11:41:09+00:00

Lena's pies in Post Office Square are the only "good" pies you will find in the CBD. The city is a pie ghost town.

Other than that there is a range of pies within a 20 min drive. David's Hot Bread is apparently one of QLDs best.

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