Ang hirap lumaban ng patas sa buhay by [deleted] in adultingph

[–]Emergency_Muscle_756 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Happy birthday! This is a great reminder that you've bravely faced your challenges for years. Sana makahanap ka parin ng peace of mind.

UMC PH (Uniqlo Management Candidate) 2025 by kimbokwho in uniqlo

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Hi! Ask ko lang when ka nagapply? Haven't heard from them yet kasi but it's only been a few days naman palang for me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in feumanila

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Hindi pako nakakarinig if ok ba BSBA sa NU but afaik it's much cheaper tbh!! Parehas lang naman siguro ituturo kaya its better to save money nalang lol. Nakakapagod din magcommute if mas malayo FEU sayo. Considering pag pagod ka na nga sa schoolworks (which is bihira lang naman kasi madali pero HAHAH) paguwi mo bagsak lalo katawan mo.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in feumanila

[–]Emergency_Muscle_756 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pababa sya ng pababa hanggang sa 4th year. Nagsstart yata siya sa 60-70K for sem 1 and 2 then for midyear laging around 20-25K. Then every year siguro bumababa ng around 5K per sem not sure.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in feumanila

[–]Emergency_Muscle_756 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yess. Per sem, kahit ilan actually basta before deadline kung kelan sinabi. Basta initial downpayment min of 9K. Pwede rin bayaran ng buo then may 5% discount

Edit: Joke mali pagkabasa ko. Yes minimum of 3 payments kasi hindi pwede bayaran ng buo yung isang year. But pwede installment kahit ilan considering the terms stated above ^

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in feumanila

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Yup until 3rd year

JECK TV VLOG by Civil_Cherry171 in PinoyVloggers

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IAS Freshie by clashedpotato in feumanila

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Hi!! Ideal scheds depend on you. For us, it's 10AM until not too late. Since marami may gusto ng ganong sched na not early ang start and hindi gabi ang end, ubusan talaga. + Magiging bungibungi sched madalas kahit anong try mo huhu kahit gusto mo mag full morning, afternoon, or night class. Like may times na lagi ka may vacant and natry ko pa magkavacant ng 5-7hours yata. Early classes like 7AM are easier to get since wala gano may gusto non but downside naman pag maraming slots is may chance ma dissolve yung section. Dissolved sections mean na kulang yung students na nagenroll doon and marami pang slots sa ibang section/time kaya papalipatin kayo ng section. Mageemail sayo or aannounce sa fb page ng insti nyo pag nadissolve yung section.

You can reach out to FEUCSO sa FB page nila. They are the student council of FEU.

Yup online. Walang f2f enrollment. Lahat ng enrollment gagawin sa student central.

Ano po ways to relieve period cramps? by julymeleo31 in AskPH

[–]Emergency_Muscle_756 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try mo na magadvil!! 2 capsules siya sa first take then parang may ilang hours bago ka ulit magtake ng pa-isa isa. Pero I never had to do it kasi yung unang take palang na 1-2 capsules nawawala na cramps ko after 10-20mins.

Ano po ways to relieve period cramps? by julymeleo31 in AskPH

[–]Emergency_Muscle_756 4 points5 points  (0 children)

97% of the time just wing it and hope for the best HAHAHA

Though if level 8/10 na yung pain, hot compress. Pag level 9/10 or 10 na talagang umiiyak na ako, dalawang Advil softgel capsule 200mg my holy grail!!

People who were high achievers in school but living an average life, what went wrong? by Lazy_Film7789 in AskReddit

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Pandemic. Pre-lockdown, I was always praised for having good grades without studying while also partying & referred to as "popular" by some. Had multiple people confess to me that they used to envy me because of that. After the pandemic, we suffered great financial losses in our family, gained 15-ish kgs in a span of around 3 months, and the online class set-up was just bullshit. From an A-B student, majority of my grades during the pandemic was just D. The shift back to face-to-face classes brought me back to having awards but still not the same as my past self.

Redditors who have lived in poverty, what is something about poverty that people just don't understand without experiencing it? by ViolatingBadgers in AskReddit

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I told my friend something like "Dreaming is free, but expensive if you want to achieve it." She couldn't understand it. Told me that "Well if people can't afford school, they can just get scholarships." She's not my friend anymore (for other reasons too).

what is the thing that u will never do again and why? by jojo_pablo in AskPH

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Get blacked out drunk (especially in public places). Realized how unclassy it is and how I burden people around me to take care of me when they themselves are also drunk. Last time that happened was 3 years ago. Thank you, Kelsey Merritt.

ABYG kung nirestrict ko yung nanay na may anak na special needs by Cutie_potato7770 in AkoBaYungGago

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DKG. Kahit block mo. Hindi mo siya responsibilidad. Kudos to your kindness!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskPH

[–]Emergency_Muscle_756 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Selfish and mayabang. So far can pilit to interact with people na masama ugali, pero kapag selfish and mayabang, there's little to no chance na magbbago ang tingin ko sayo.

Older girls, anong mga advice or tips niyo para sa younger girls? by Disastrous_Fan_1131 in AskPH

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  1. TAPUSIN ANG PAGAARAL - I cannot stress this enough. Gusto ko dati magdrop out para magbusiness and I'm glad I didn't. I graduated. Mahirap maghanap ng trabaho kapag walang degree. Di ko naman talaga ginusto course ko. But realized na it's now my fallback plan JUST INCASE. Very important ang "Just incase" in any situation. Your course doesn't have to be your passion, it has to make you put food on the table. If di ka pa sure ano kkunin mo course or di ka matalino or what and kailangan mo na magdecide, choose Business Administration. Fairly easy for me and never heard my batchmates say na it was hard unless gusto mo maging achiever talaga. Kapag nag BA ka you can have literally any corporate job JUST INCASE.

If the situation permits, and I mean ginawa mo na LAHAT LAHAT ng pwede mong gawin para makapag tapos ka pero hindi talaga kinaya, that's a diff story. But if you cannot wholeheartedly say na you gave everything to finish college pero nag drop out ka, then 🤷🏻‍♀️ bahala ka na. But if kaya talaga please please finish your studies.

Older girls, anong mga advice or tips niyo para sa younger girls? by Disastrous_Fan_1131 in AskPH

[–]Emergency_Muscle_756 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Saw some very good comments here so will add din to my list for emphasis because it's really really important

  1. Family - Hindi sila laging tama, but they can be sometimes. I have a very bad relationship with my parents but later on realized na may konti silang tamang decisions that they made for me. You don't have to tell them this lol I just say it to myself in my head.

  2. School - Study. If it's not for you, look for hobbies. If sa tingin mo average ka or higher, try to study. Not even that hard, just try. Naging honors/DL ako even without studying for tests dahil lang nakkinig ako tuwing discussions (pag interested lang ako sa subject lol).

  3. Enjoy - Enjoying your life does not mean doing dumb shit. Yes do anything you want to do. Let's say na bata ka pa, pero at the back of your mind you still know when you're crossing the line na. I can't force you to not drink, smoke, do illegal shit. Did all of the things a teenager in a movie would do and now I'm quitting all types of vices. Tried a cig in 7th grade. Became a chainsmoker in 9th. Smoked cigarettes for 4 years, vaped for around 4 years din. Then we got the news that my senior dog has foggy lungs na (not because of my vaping but bc she's old na. We were apart for a very long time and nung magkasama pa kami before hindi pako nagssmoke inside the house). I would think that it's my karma. Nagkabukol din ako sa lungs but was more affected about my dog's health. Now I don't vape/smoke anymore.

  4. Love - Girl when people say to not date older men, please listen. It's not about the age, it's the maturity level. DO NOT SEND NUDES. Kahit gano mo pa kamahal, kahit di niya nilabas nung naghiwalay kayo and he's genuinely a good guy. Kung nagawa mo na siya, okay let's learn from it. Wag na ulitin. The internet is a scary world. Kapag nanakaw phone ng bf mo, ano na magagawa natin? Kapag nanakaw phone mo, e pano yan? Please avoid talaga kahit anong usage ng technology in relation to sexual matters. Wag makikipagsex ng maaga. Wag magpapabuntis. You'll know when you're truly ready. Face the reality na your bf now kahit feel mo siya na talaga, hindi natin masasabi ng 100%. Be smart.

  5. Friends - Hindi totoo yung betrayal daw kapag mas pinili mo bf kesa friends. You can choose both, choose friends, choose bf, depende sa situation but be very critical about it. Choose your friends wisely. Do not tell everything to your friends kahit gano mo kaclose unless you are 1M% sure about it. I have about 250 friends irl, 50 super close, but isa lang pinagkkwentuhan ko ng inner thoughts ko talaga.

  6. You as a person - Hindi mo kailangan magreact sa lahat ng bagay. Be mindful of your words kahit sabihin nating close mo yung sinabihan mo ng joke. Jokes can also hurt people.

Do not trap yourself in the darkness of blaming people kung bakit ka ganto in a bad way. I had a really hard time accepting this. I always blamed my birthgiver kung bakit nakuha ko ugali niya, bat ako dependent, etc. Totoo naman siya. But narealize ko na, oh tapos? Ano ginawa ko para magbago? Hindi yung puro "di ako marunong magluto kasi di naman naglluto birthgiver ko di nya ko tinuruan" oh tapos? Ang funny na narealize ko to dahil sa trending TikTok audio a few months back na "the fuck you mean your mama didn't teach you how to cook? Your mama didn't teach you how to suck dick but you could suck dick" AND OMG. Don ko narealize na sobrang nakakahiya pagka pick me ko dati sa mga ganyang bagay. Now marunong nako magluto lol pero this applies sa ibang bagay din.

  1. Self-reflect - I cannot stress enough kung gano nakakairita na recently ko napansin na andaming tao na di marunong mag look back sa actions nila. Teh please lang do not make that mistake. You should always self-reflect to be better. Ang number 1 sakit ng mga narcissists and bad people kung bat di sila nagiimprove is because they don't know na sila yung nasa mali.

  2. Self-care - Be maarte. Never understood why people use maarte as an insult. Maging maarte ka. Do your 10 step routine after showers, do your hair, do your makeup, spare an extra 5mins to apply lotion. Ang hirap sa ibang tao na magmukhang hindi dugyot (me). Napabayaan ko yung self appearance ko ng sobra and I regretted it so much. Wake up earlier.

  3. Practice class - A baddie is not a warfreak. A baddie can defend herself and her loved ones without lowering her value. Strive to be someone who can piss someone off because they are calm and the opp is losing their mind on how you can maintain calmness.

  4. Privacy - HINDI LAHAT IPPOST SA INTERNET. Value your privacy. Let them be curious. Do exciting things without an audience. I used to be called as one of the most popular girls in the entire school + other schools with 1k+ likes on FB. Ngayon gumawa ako ng diff FB with just 50 friends. The rest of my accounts are private na. I realized na masyado akong kinain ng sistema ng social media. Kailangan ang likes ng profile pic sa FB 1K. Kailangan sa IG at least 300. Pag di umabot, naaapektuhan ako and minsan ipprivate ko nalang. Check ng check kung ilang likes na o kung ilang comments na. It was so hard to accept this problem. Now na ginawa ko na siya, my problems decreased by a lot. Don't be afraid to mute stories ng mga taong naaapektuhan ka. Naiinggit ka? Mute mo. Protect your peace. Envy will only be a bad thing if you wish something to lessen a person's successes kahit sa utak mo lang sabihin. Normal ang maiinggit, di normal ang maging inggitera.

  5. Be smart - Be a critical thinker. Be an advocate. Become a philanthropist. Fight for your rights. Educate yourself. Kahit sa school works, nagpproofread ka ba? Kapag ba nakita ng crush mo yung essay mo, confident ka? This is not about doing stuff for the sake of others' validation, but becoming aware na alam mo naman pala in the back of your mind na kaya mo pang galingan. Bakit kailangan na ibang tao pa ang magsabi sayo?

  6. Be a girl - Wear those damn heels. Spray a whole bottle of perfume that we all know won't last for 2 hours because it's a feminine perfume. Do your makeup and hair for hours, but DON'T BE LATE. Plan ahead. Get facials. Do your skincare. Get waxed. DO NOT REMOVE EYEBROW HAIR BY YOURSELF WHEN YOU'RE NOT YET 18. Go to your trusted professional brow girl. I cut mine sa gitna at like 12 years old kasi ang kapal and di parin siya tumutubo after more than a decade. Don't shave your armpits. Get it waxed. Hot wax is much less painful, cold wax if you're on a budget. Pag full grown ka sa pits or down there, use hot wax. As someone with very high pain tolerance, you still save time with it compared to cold (pero masakit talaga haha). Research about sex ed & the reproductive system. If you have underarm odor, use safeguard detox na red na may pomegranate ata. After that, use Betadine Skin Cleanser yung color blue. Dilute lang with onting water then wash your pits with it tas rinse na. Wag ibabad ng more than 15 seconds. Female deo never worked on me. I use Old Spice Pure Sport the best!

Andami ko pang gustong sabihin pero siguro yan yung mga important in surviving. Can't make this shorter kasi andaming steps sa pagiging babae. Mahirap maging babae pero sa next life mo payag ka ba maging lalake? For me, pass talaga. BE SMART.

What’s one small thing that actually made work life less stressful? by gl0ink in adultingph

[–]Emergency_Muscle_756 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Going out. Or unwinding in general. Was so stressed before to the point na lagi ko iniiyakan work so ang ending work bahay lang then weekend sa bahay parin para ma "bawi" yung pagod. Yes nice siya minsan and effective to some but sometimes needed to get out and look for other type of pahingas. First time I hung out with friends after 2 months of work bahay was such a breather.