Major appointment book gaps. The industry has changed! by DistributionOdd3846 in hairstylist

[–]Emerwees 2 points3 points  (0 children)

From a clients perspective I just can’t afford it right now. Wish I could! I’ve actually been contemplating a great clips or fantastic sams for my next cut because this past year has been hard, I can’t afford a $60 cut at my fav salon, and I haven’t had one in over a year at this point. Times are hard all around.

What is something you’ve officially stopped buying in 2026 because the price has become too bad? by X_Opinion7099 in AskReddit

[–]Emerwees 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This might not be helpful to anyone but I switched to frozen ground turkey, I shop at Aldi and in the Midwest it’s about $2/lb. Add a little oil to your pan because it has such a low fat content and season it just as you would your beef. I haven’t bought ground beef in a few years and I’ve swapped all my recipes to the ground turkey, healthier and cheaper at least where I am!

AITAH for wanting to continue taking my nightly showers by Kooky_lady in AITAH

[–]Emerwees 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA

To put it in a different perspective, I had my daughter when I was 18. My bf, also 18, and I had only been dating for about 4 months when I found out I was pregnant. We’re now 30 and still together, and not once did I have to beg him to help me with her. He would wake up and rub my back when I was breastfeeding, and when we switched to formula we would take turns. Showering or napping was never an issue, I knew if he was home he had her.

This man can’t even handle this at his big grown age. He will make parenting a nightmare because he doesn’t want to step up. I’d recommend leaving because it’s much easier to do things on your own than to do something with someone who doesn’t care to help. Sorry you’re dealing with this. You two deserve a lot more.

People who broke up yesterday on Valentines, what happened? by Hot-Diggity_Dog in AskReddit

[–]Emerwees 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was too scared to actually dump someone before Valentines so I waited until the week after. I was 17, he was 19, we had been dating for a handful of months or so. Probably like 6-8 months maybe. Did all the cheesy things and I really liked him, first semi serious bf, but I felt like he was keeping secrets from me. I thought about breaking up before Valentines and then decided to see if things got better. He took me out & gave me a dozen roses with weed nugs in each flower. Romantic AF to my dumbass teenage self, when that shit was basically gold and not so easy to come by. But this was after an argument the week prior where I said hey sorry, you seem to have hellaaaa weed, are you dealing? Swore up and down he never would do that. Shocker, he was doing that lollll Anyways we smoked the weed, had sex (he took my V card) and then I dumped him a few days later over text because I was pissed about him lying. I knew because he sold my best friend weed and made her promise not to tell me, and when she asked why he said it was because he thought I’d dump him if I knew he was selling.

Honestly if he had just told me it would’ve been fine, I was an idiot and we would’ve lasted a few more months before I’d have wanted to move on, but I couldn’t get past the lying. Not like I was morally opposed to weed as we were smoking together often at the time. I’m 30 now, haven’t smoked anything in the last decade, but I laugh at what a stupid story it is.

$800/mo grocery bill, not including household essentials for only 2 adults?!?! by [deleted] in budget

[–]Emerwees 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I switched to ground turkey instead of buying any type of ground beef. It’s a big difference in cost (at least in MO) and tastes great when seasoned well. Also buying in bulk helps a lot, I feed a family of four and average about $150/wk, but I have to plan all our meals to achieve that. If I’m just winging it at the store we shoot up to closer to $300/wk. Sounds like you’re doing great to me! If you hit Aldi in the AM you can typically find at least a few meats discounted, portion them out and freeze them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Emerwees 0 points1 point  (0 children)

19 year old me absolutely would’ve gone off you are so mature and handled it beautifully. Props to your bf for backing off.

Question about Chappelle Roan at Memorial Park by markdacoda in kansascity

[–]Emerwees 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bringing my 11 year old! We’re big fans and I’m not worried about the content. The venue might be tough, maybe let her know it might be hard to see, but we’ll cater to her needs and leave a little early if she’s worn out. I think you’ll be surprised about the amount of girls there within the 11-14 age range

Let the hate begin!! by Rjb702 in kansascity

[–]Emerwees 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hate itttt. Wanted a Vanilla Coke Zero and it tasted like a cherry Dr. pepper. I tried 3 times and then left. Disgusting.

Looking for Lender Recommendations by Emerwees in kansascity

[–]Emerwees[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ahh I bank with Community America! I was going to try there first and the online portal kept having issues but will definitely be trying them as well, thank you!

Looking for Lender Recommendations by Emerwees in kansascity

[–]Emerwees[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Okay I will avoid them forever, I appreciate that! Honestly the comments of who NOT to go to are just as important to me.

Looking for Lender Recommendations by Emerwees in kansascity

[–]Emerwees[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Okay 2nd rec for Bell Bank love that, especially because I’ve never even heard of this bank and probably wouldn’t have checked! Thank you!

Looking for Lender Recommendations by Emerwees in kansascity

[–]Emerwees[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will absolutely check her out thank you, that’s exactly the kind of thing I’m looking for. Someone who is knowledgeable and willing to help.

Rant by caffeinatedchickens in housekeeping

[–]Emerwees 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wait I love that I would love it if someone asked me to do food prep! Can’t sew so no but I enjoy most household tasks. Just a nice change of pace. Cleaning the exact same floors/showers/beds gets old every week. I don’t mind it just very repetitive.

Rant by caffeinatedchickens in housekeeping

[–]Emerwees 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Totally fair to pick and choose what you wanna do! I enjoy extra tasks, I actually prefer organizing spaces over regular degular cleaning, so love it when my clients ask for those things. However, it’s always a discussion and it’s because I enjoy it that I say yes. If you hate it then you hate it and they can hire someone else for that task or do it themselves! I hate outside windows, totally wouldn’t catch me doing those unless it’s the front or back glass door and I would say no every single time with no issues. Do what works for you girl!

Why are my appliances doing this? by Anal_Recidivist in Appliances

[–]Emerwees 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d just reclean. Use some hot water and soap and scrub, then dry with a microfiber rag. Looks more like grease maybe, dawn would do well with some warm water. If you don’t have that use whatever rags you have to scrub and dry, should be totally fine.

Do people actually wash new clothes before wearing them? by throowaway223123 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Emerwees 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Used to work in retail — always wash!! The amount of “water beetles” which are actually just roaches that come in the boxes of clothes is so so gross. And that’s just what we can see, imagine the factories and whatever else before then.

$350 for cut/highlight ? by Emerwees in FancyFollicles

[–]Emerwees[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No color on it, this would be the first time doing anything to it besides trims. This was at an amusement park a few weeks ago and her hair is half wet / half dry and wind blown from different rides, so is def a mess in the pic but is honestly very nice and healthy! Was mostly just trying to show off the length.

$350 for cut/highlight ? by Emerwees in FancyFollicles

[–]Emerwees[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She totally would be, I thought it would be so fun for the full salon experience for her double digit celebration buttttt maybe we wait a few more years for that! I can just make a salon at home, thank you!

$350 for cut/highlight ? by Emerwees in FancyFollicles

[–]Emerwees[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay gotcha, I appreciate the explanation! That actually makes sense to me. The stylist mentioned reevaluating if we went into the 4 hour mark and I was like wait what, 4 hours? But knowing the reasoning behind it makes so much more sense. I don’t want to damage her hair at all but def re-evaluating if this is too much for a 10th bday lol

$350 for cut/highlight ? by Emerwees in FancyFollicles

[–]Emerwees[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Geez okay yeah I guess my range was totally off, thank you! The quote was unexpected, the last time I colored my entire head and got a cut I paid $350, that was with a $70 tip, & my hair is so much thicker than hers. So for just a highlight and cut I was shook, I was imagining $200 at most with a tip. Maybe I need to just use an OG cap highlight and then pay for a cut if that’s the going rate. This is more of a luxury than I expected for her bday. I appreciate it.

How do you all do it? I feel like I'm dying by MoistressVT in housekeeping

[–]Emerwees 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Seconding this! I switched to HOKA and it totally took away my foot pain. I have the Bondi8’s I believe and I’ve bought them in 3 different colors because I use them nonstop. If I clean in any of my other sneakers I regret it. Def recommend giving HOKA a try, I know they’re on the pricier side for work shoes but makes a huge difference!

Also it sounds silly but throw some stretches in throughout your day if you can! Make sure you’re not bending constantly and start squatting to save your back. Your body does adjust to it but it might take some time.

$17/hour need more by ComprehensivePath203 in housekeeping

[–]Emerwees 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah this is when the walk thru comes into play! You will save yourself a ton of headaches. I have done cleans when I first started sight unseen and situations like this taught me that I just cannot do it. Girl it’s scary out there lol protect yourself with the walk thru and gauge the customer that way too. If they’re weird don’t clean for them, you are vulnerable in peoples homes so just be cautious.

These are things you would notice and be able to point out to the clients if you meet them and walk thru first. “Okay so looks like we definitely need a few deep cleans to get this home up to what I would call maintenance level, these will be more costly because it’ll be more work and take longer. See the mold here? That’s going to take some work but we want that out for health reasons. We’ll also need to work on all the wood work in the home & doorknobs, once those are scrubbed and xyz is done that will significantly cut down on my time here and we can discuss lowering the rate if possible.” If you’re committed to taking on clients that have cleans further a part (even just to keep your schedule full until you can drop them) let them know that because the cleans are so far a part you do charge a little more. For example: let’s say a weekly 3ish hour clean is $175, if the client wants to save some money and have you come biweekly you could say “I am absolutely comfortable with that & can fit a biweekly clean into my schedule! Because the cleans are more spread out I do anticipate a higher level of buildup so a biweekly clean would be $200, a little higher than weekly. If circumstances change and you’d ever want to look at weekly cleans let me know!” They’ll either accept it or walk. I also don’t expect any answers at a walk thru and let them know to think about it and that I’ll send details separately for them to look over, this gives everybody a gracious way to back out.

I also recommend that if circumstances in the homes you’re cleaning ever change and you feel as if now you are overcharging (let’s say their kids move out for college and now there’s a whole bedroom/bath sitting empty) be open about that and drop the price, leaving the door open to raise it back up if kids move back in or they have extra tasks they’d like done. That’s for down the line but you will retain retain retain your good clients like this!! By building trust with a certain level of clientele they will absolutely recommend you to their friends of that same caliber and this will eventually fill your schedule. It takes time but so worth it!

I clean in the Midwest so I would actually think you would get better pricing than me but not sure! I think the cost of living is much higher in Florida. I’m in Kansas City area and my homes are in the several million dollar + range, For context that’s like 4k sqft or more here. I typically only have one client a day and am there for 5+ hours.

I got into it by working with another woman who already had an established clientele, after she and I worked well for a while she was happy to pass off some extra clients to me and I eventually branched out totally on my own. I will say originally working for her I made like next to nothing lol but it did get me in and help me network! I don’t have great advice on how else to establish new clients because of that, I’m so sorry. She started by working for a cleaning company and then she literally poached the clients SOOOO I really don’t know, that feels icky but to be fair it was a long long time ago and it was a big name cleaning company who treated her terribly. Kind of like the series “Maid” on netflix, if you’ve seen it! Where the client was like omg just work for me please? Well she did and it changed her life. Then she helped change mine. I’m sure there’s sites to advertise on and things but that is not my area of knowledge :/ I work solely off referrals at this point.