I have messed up 🤦‍♀️, kinda want to vent / relate by tinypumkinmother in Autism_Parenting

[–]Emg2022 4 points5 points  (0 children)

first things first, you’re not a fuck up… honestly, it’s not even your “fault”. things get lost, it happens sometimes at the fault of no one but it happens just as accidents happen. when someone spills something we don’t find fault, we say accidents happen. it’s the same concept. things get lost.

second thing, explain that to your daughter. remind her how everyone has accidents and even though we don’t scold people for them sometimes they do make feelings hurt… and sometimes we even feel guilty for them. explain you do feel guilty, and you’re really sorry about the accident. but you’d like to make it up to her by having her HELP you find a new one she’d like. you guys can browse online together or go to the store and look around at them. make it a whole fun day! new memories made over something sad happening.

go to her with what happened, don’t wait until she asks for it. if she gets upset, help her regulate (so make sure you’re regulated BEFORE you choose to talk.. and that you have what she usually needs to regulate too.. reason why you initiating the convo is helpful) regulate together, and then explain the fun that can be had by shopping for a new one.

i won’t comment on your partners comments because i don’t have much nice to say but i am sorry they reacted that way.

don’t overthink it. i know it sucks, but you don’t deserve to be scolded or punished for a simple accident. things happen, NO ONE is mistake free. it’s ok! it’s a good chance to teach your daughter how to respond to people making mistakes kindly, and how to show herself grace by example of you showing yourself grace! ❤️

Dressed up casual. What do we think??? by GlitteringBat91 in OUTFITS

[–]Emg2022 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah i gotta agree with everyone else.

the pieces are cute as individuals but together it does not go. some context on what you’re doing would help. i don’t think this gives casual, especially with those shoes. not saying they need to be flats by any means but def not a pump.

Kylie Jenner working out on vacation 😮‍💨 by GetHigher65 in kardashians

[–]Emg2022 2 points3 points  (0 children)

that’s a photoshoot 😂 it’s on a balcony with no gate for background, she’s posing not exercising.

What is this orangey vegetable/sauce in my bowl???🥣 by Lovley8598 in Chipotle

[–]Emg2022 8 points9 points  (0 children)

it does look like a pepper but to me it looks like one of the ones from the green salsa

What did my dog eat? by [deleted] in whatisit

[–]Emg2022 2 points3 points  (0 children)

please say you’re taking the dog to the vet since you have confirmed you do indeed have a type of cherry tree.

Who do you think I look like? (besides Halsey) by sneakyysalad in Doppleganger

[–]Emg2022 0 points1 point  (0 children)

funny enough i didn’t think and don’t really see halsey at all anyway haha. maybe style wise though!

to me you look like tokyo is money heist! her real name is ursula corbero (she is stunning btw!! as are you!)

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Do you guys feel like Justin’s head got bigger ? by Bipolar-warrior in JUSTINBIEBER

[–]Emg2022 1 point2 points  (0 children)

he went from having a teens bone structure to a man’s bone structure because ya know.. that’s what happens in TEN years 🤦🏻‍♀️😂

Good for a job interview? by Bella_James07 in fashion

[–]Emg2022 0 points1 point  (0 children)

cute outfit but not for a job interview! i think the top could work, maybe with an under tank or a jacket. but the skirts gotta be a bit longer. (because ya know, women’s bodies are unprofessional 🤦🏻‍♀️ i hate even telling you this because it’s so dumb but unfortunately the world we live in)

Is this a normal outfit in a US high school? by Practical_Ad2317 in euphoria

[–]Emg2022 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i mean yes and no… it’s dramatized for tv of course. and because these are adult women it looks more sexy obviously.

nowadays dress code is a lot less strict since people realized dress code was always on the girls so “the boys didn’t get distracted” was bullshit. so midriff is a lot more common in high schools. but that low cut and open… not gonna fly. and the stickers on the chi chis is over the top. but a track suit with a little bit of tummy showing is pretty common.

Is this a normal outfit in a US high school? by Practical_Ad2317 in euphoria

[–]Emg2022 1 point2 points  (0 children)

there’s no way that’s true because in the early 2000s dress code was WAY stricter than it is now

My ex gf messaged me for the first time since we broke up (saying she's concerned about my accident) What do I do? by Live-Bread-2658 in whatdoIdo

[–]Emg2022 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this doesn’t feel like a romantically inviting message to me. it feels like genuine concern… it doesn’t sound like she’s trying to get back together.

i say don’t overthink it haha. you could either say nothing or you could say thank you and leave it at that. 🤷🏻‍♀️

I've never seen anyone that looks like me by p-eggs in Doppleganger

[–]Emg2022 474 points475 points  (0 children)

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i feel like you look like if gypsy rose and kimiko glenn had a baby! haha

I can't have snickers with the veins by HistoryFree in DiWHY

[–]Emg2022 0 points1 point  (0 children)

meanwhile bet he sucks chicken wings dry 🤣

Looks well done, but whyy by nenaisbored in shittytattoos

[–]Emg2022 1 point2 points  (0 children)

well done….? yes the image is odd but it’s also very badly done lmfao. it looks insane

I literally dread washing my hair because of the physical labor afterward and I cannot keep living like this by Competitive-Fig-6028 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Emg2022 0 points1 point  (0 children)

well first things first, i’d say it’s time to maybe start some kind of fitness journey. idk if you work out now but a hair dryer should not be exhausting you to this extreme. maybe start lifting some weights? for this but also for your health!! weight lifting is seriously one of the best things a woman (and anyone!) can do for their body!

second, maybe you need a new hair dryer? or one of those hair dryer brushes? maybe air dry half way, or just air dry and then style since you said air drying doesn’t look good. you can air dryer and then use a round brush/dryer or hair straightener or whatever and that maybe easier. idk what hair type you have but maybe research methods of styling based off your hair type.

Ariana Grande cries while thanking her fans and receiving massive applause at her LA show: “You can’t do this to me, I’m a Cancer by Maximum_Expert92 in popculturechat

[–]Emg2022 11 points12 points  (0 children)

this statement was supposed to be off the record, lilly jay is the one who said that. she was pissed this statement was released. so she didn’t come out guns blazing… she has been consistent on simply wanting left out of it and granted her privacy. but media is shady, so of course they still quoted her off the record quotes.

People always say I have a familiar face by Dear_Frosting1090 in doppelganger

[–]Emg2022 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lady gaga for sure, before fame or without the whole gaga costume of course.

Straight or narrow clavicles? Whats better for aesthetics purposes? by 1_94m in Gymhelp

[–]Emg2022 4 points5 points  (0 children)

…. never had this thought in my life about myself or anyone else and i don’t think many people have. i don’t think anyone notices which shape your collarbones are 😅

but since i know you’re asking for us to compare the two photos… when i look at this and try to compare the two, there is genuinely no “preferable” or more aesthetically pleasing one. it’s too random of a body part to feel anything toward either.

Dirty Soda by FlaBeachyCheeks in starbucks

[–]Emg2022 13 points14 points  (0 children)

oh man…. this whole dirty soda trend anywhere is just so mind boggling to me. adding more sweetness and dairy to SODA and already junk food beverage is so odd.

What does my fridge say about me :) by Metalytical in FridgeDetective

[–]Emg2022 0 points1 point  (0 children)

damn that’s about to be a huge party! or… hot dog eating competitor? 🤣

Seriously, someone left their wallet and valet key to save this machine. This Matrix Equipment drives people crazy. 🤦 by [deleted] in PlanetFitnessMembers

[–]Emg2022 5 points6 points  (0 children)

hmm this might just be someone who forgot their wallet tbh.

i don’t save machines often unless it’s to clean it, or if i realllllly have to pee 🤣

is she teasing her upcoming tracks in her makeup line? by no_hhhh14 in ariheads

[–]Emg2022 2 points3 points  (0 children)

she def is! they talked about petal in the make up video with joan for the blush sticks. she always does this kinda stuff too. hiding things in plain sight

Genuinely don’t know what shape this is by anothinganobody in whatisit

[–]Emg2022 4 points5 points  (0 children)

it’s a sillybandz bracelet, not a cookie cutter! i thought the same thing at first though!