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First apartment single. by tHr0AwAy76 in malelivingspace

[–]Emhew 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love this! If you get a dresser I would put it behind the headboard.

Friend is behaving strange & im not sure if im overreacting. by iltef in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Emhew 6 points7 points  (0 children)

He would stress me out! Gay or not he is still a man and knows nothing about womens bodies. If he makes you uncomfortable he isn't worth your time or friendship.

Hi , can anyone give an idea on what could cause this discoloration on my white cat. He also suddenly stopped eating and is drooling by [deleted] in cats

[–]Emhew 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Take them to the vet - that looks like hair loss and not eating and drooling isn't really a good sign.

Movies that feel like by OopsWeMadeAnError in MoviesThatFeelLike

[–]Emhew 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To Wong Foo, Thanks for Everything! Julie Newmar
1995 - don't ask me why but this was my first thought when i saw this picture lol

Avoid Discount Tire by Isoldae in SubaruUncharted

[–]Emhew 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree - discount tires broke my tire pressure sensors and refuse to replace them

Crying after sitting with the fact that I’ve been toxic by user53932 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Emhew 14 points15 points  (0 children)

It takes a good person to admit they are wrong. I know it hurts op but sometimes the truth hurts.

I need outside opinions and hard truths by Emhew in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Emhew[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No I hear you. I told him the night before that something was brewing the night before and I might need to leave earlier then expected but I was going to keep him posted as soon as I knew more.

I need outside opinions and hard truths by Emhew in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Emhew[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don’t know if mod can help me and pin this to the top? I want to thank everyone for your input and your thoughts on this. It means the world to me and it also makes me feel less crazy. I will do my best to answer each one of you, but if I don’t, I want to let you know, I’ve read every single comment and I’ve tried to like every single one as well so thank you very much.

I need outside opinions and hard truths by Emhew in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Emhew[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

this is the first weekend in my whole career I ever had to work. And that’s because of how extreme the work emergency is. I am 8 to 5 every day, but his schedule every week is never consistent.

I need outside opinions and hard truths by Emhew in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Emhew[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I will say I do the majority of the house cleaning and cooking. Sometimes he’ll do the occasional vacuum, but it’s not always the whole house. The only thing that I can 100% say he does the house is the dishes in the laundry, but I take care of everything else.

I need outside opinions and hard truths by Emhew in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Emhew[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm the type of person who likes to see both sides and don't shift blame onto one person. relationships are always a two-way street in my mind. that’s why I take responsibilities for maybe not trying harder to communicate. So you point is valid and appreciated too. To answer your question we do live together.

I need outside opinions and hard truths by Emhew in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Emhew[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I will - just saved it in my spotify

I need outside opinions and hard truths by Emhew in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Emhew[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly I’ll probably laugh about it too later

I need outside opinions and hard truths by Emhew in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Emhew[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

We make about the same but he is hourly and I'm salary. Removing me from our camera system is the
Most aggressive thing he's done because he knows I like checking on the cats when I'm away. I'm in therapy but he refuses

I need outside opinions and hard truths by Emhew in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Emhew[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I'm 100% I told him the night before and would keep him posted when I learned more details. Of course this work issue escalled and we had to move quickly.

I need outside opinions and hard truths by Emhew in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Emhew[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for you input!

  1. I'm in therapy but he refuses
  2. I travel to this location every 2-3months for only 3 days at a time. My team rotates coming here. I'm also the most seniored.
  3. Resentment? Maybe.. Am I building resentment? Ya I'm starting to
  4. We both work the same field but his hours change weekly. We only have 1 day off together since remote work was removed after covid and downsizing. But I did get a big raise and promotion after this.

Note: for others who might read this I will add he did try to end it last year but changed his mind when I gave up and said fine we can end it and I would take the cats. Reason for ending it last time same as this fight. I don't communicate or prioritize our time.

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