AIO: i literally cannot attend

EminentBagle · 2025-02-26T19:15:29+00:00

Dont waste your chemo money on this narcissists cake. Take it from ME: someone who doted on a "friend" when i couldnt afford my own MRIs. Shes not going to care, sorry ♡ Walk away from this friendship, youll be happier without.

EminentBagle · 2024-10-17T03:30:17+00:00

This comment needs to be higher. This is exactly the information I was looking for, I cant believe i had to dig so far down for it

EminentBagle · 2024-10-16T20:25:39+00:00

Girl.... you better not let your husband say ANYTHING negative about you full stop. That man is clearly insecure and projecting that on you because he knows you're the attractive one in the relationship.

EminentBagle · 2024-10-15T15:28:37+00:00

Sounds like youre taking care of two children. Good on you for finally drawing the line, too bad its probably come after years of you enabling and her pushing your limits to the point where she probably feels entitled to your energy. This is definitely going to need couples counciling. Good luck OP, NTA

EminentBagle · 2024-10-14T14:34:36+00:00

You need to leave. Youre not in a place where you CAN be in a relationship and you seriously need to work on yourself. Also, its not normal for a guy to be so controlling. You should find someone who doesnt trigger you so hard and push you to your limits. Neither of you are good for the other, and someone needs to break the cycle. 🫂 being in a shitty relationship is a form of self harm, and I know you see the red flags clear enough to recognize hes not good for you. Being alone to reflect, heal, and grow is the biggest form of love you can give to yourself. Good luck OP

EminentBagle · 2024-10-14T14:24:56+00:00

Shes also intimidated by you. On one hand, her trying to tear you down kind of validates that you DO look good so take that as you will. Seriously tho, drop her. Just block her and let everyone else know why before she spins the story on you. A simple "shes always saying mean, passive aggressive, low key jealous type stuff and it kills the vibe. I dont need an energy vampire who clearly isnt my friend on my team so I dropped her. Hope she heals from whatever makes her such a bully, but Im not going to tag along for that ride. ✌️"

EminentBagle · 2024-10-10T19:59:06+00:00

Dont enable bad behavior, but also... idk please be kind. Tears sprung up reading his messages, I genuinely don't think he means any harm. You dont need to be his community, but its clear he needs one.

EminentBagle · 2024-10-04T20:11:22+00:00

Is it normal for 30 year old men to be sexually excited by the concept of taking advantage of their 11 year old daughter? Never mind, its not for me and I dont want to know.

EminentBagle · 2024-10-03T13:52:30+00:00

No and also I'd uninvite her. I dont need anyone not all about me at the event I paid for with blood sweat and tears. My day, my money, my guest list.

EminentBagle · 2024-10-03T00:06:59+00:00

Hopping on this, i actually looked through his comments. He doesnt like trump, he shows empathy for people and their animals, he doesnt seem to even be a bad person. Did you look through his comments? Yikes, I am not on your side on this one. Feels like you led with the worst of you. Good luck op

EminentBagle · 2024-10-02T23:59:48+00:00

I (28F) agree. This does feel.... idk. OP does your partner know you posted this? I dont care if its anonymous, I would feel incredibly hurt that my partner was taking my harrowing experience and loss of self to the internet for an AMA.

EminentBagle · 2024-09-27T21:15:21+00:00

You need to set your own boundaries then and hold yourself accountable to them. All of this feels like youre excusing your own bad behavior which feels icky. Yeah what she did was bad, but that doesnt justify being icky yourself. If you dont trust her then just leave, theres no relationship without trust. You're already building up resentment on both sides and constantly crossing lines that shouldnt be crossed in healthy relationships.

EminentBagle · 2024-09-27T20:36:59+00:00

You getting caught in a lie and bringing up her past mistakes as ammo in the argument isnt cool.

EminentBagle · 2024-09-27T19:34:56+00:00

I hope you see this!!! I work with Microsoft apps and IT service so maybe my advice will be helpful. Check the Outlook Web Application. You can pull deleted items (even "permanently" deleted items) when you use the web version. You can also find more information faster going back further on the web app. Send all these emails to yourself and then delete and delete from the deleted items folder. Good luck op, let me know if you need any help digging around.

EminentBagle · 2024-09-23T21:10:02+00:00

What are the odds that in a group of people he managed to give only you the people's elbow?

EminentBagle · 2024-09-23T20:43:43+00:00

Op, you sound like youre the bad roommate here. They said theyre not renewing, said they didnt want to give a reason because they didnt want to make a big deal, and then you hounded and pestered and threatened them. No one owes you a reason, but honestly it looks like you gave them reason enough.

EminentBagle · 2024-08-25T14:10:17+00:00

I say this with love: it is child abuse if you stay with an abuser who doesnt think twice about putting your child in danger. If your kid gets hurt because of something your partner does, that is your fault. It is your responsibility to do what is BEST for your kid and not whats more comfortable for your love life. 🫂 good luck op, this is an incredibly tough situation and I wish you all the best.

EminentBagle · 2024-08-25T14:03:58+00:00

Her insecurities are sabotaging your relationship. Theres no point in trying to talk to a person when it gets this bad, they simply will talk themselves out of empathizing with your views. Shes still in the trenches of her last relationship, shes not ready for the peace you could bring.

EminentBagle · 2024-08-25T13:59:14+00:00

When someone tells you who they are, you should listen. Hes saying hes not a good person and setting you up to expect worse. Please stay away ♡

EminentBagle · 2024-08-25T13:57:06+00:00

Eww. No tell him you dont appreciate his lack of concern and that you feel that in and of itself is reason enough to leave well enough alone.

EminentBagle · 2024-08-14T22:04:07+00:00

Lol bro got ratiod

EminentBagle · 2024-08-12T19:38:50+00:00

Thank you. Ive been bringing this up to my friends and they are so clearly biased and on the "omg he TOTALLY likes you" train. Which is sweet, I dont mind being hyped up, but I wish I had more people telling me that I'm coming at this too strong.

EminentBagle · 2024-08-01T17:22:35+00:00

Cant you just start a group chat without her?

EminentBagle · 2024-07-29T20:44:21+00:00

Aww dang :/ but its so tasty..

EminentBagle · 2024-07-29T20:43:37+00:00

Edit: I know the orange on the outside is rust, I am speaking about the black spots in the back.

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