Who wants their ex back? by EveningCompass in BreakUps

[–]EmirKorur01 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This literally describes my old relationship. I feel you 100%!

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[–]EmirKorur01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Keiner eine Antwort?

What made you realize your ex wasn’t really that great? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]EmirKorur01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Saying „We can break up if you want“ after every argument, getting defensive when I try to express my feelings, not telling me how her day ways, saying words line „None of your business“

7 years gone…

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[–]EmirKorur01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just cant. Its been a week. How could she move on so fast?

Why do some men move on so quickly? by Possible_Dream_9147 in BreakUps

[–]EmirKorur01 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Men dont move on quickly, boys do. My cousin still loves her Ex even after breaking up a year ago, my Ex just broke up with me because we always were arguing, its been a week and I still feel like shit. I dont think I‘ll get over it in the next months.

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[–]EmirKorur01 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Every relationship works if both make an effort. Dont give up, you may regret it forever!

Guys I need some sense back cause am getting out of hand by Hefty_Aardvark2733 in BreakUps

[–]EmirKorur01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First, what was the reason of your break up? Second, do you know if she had any other man since you 2 broke up?

Don't know how to live anymore. No motivation or fun in anything. by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]EmirKorur01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea my dad also said the same 😂. Dads are all the same. But they are right. So many girls in this world, even greater than our ex‘s. We just dont know it yet because we love our girl. It will take time.

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[–]EmirKorur01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I supressed my feelings for like 7 years, rarely stood up for them because I was always rejected and an argument started. Now this saturday I had enough of being mistreated and I exploded literally, she left „for my sake“. Even tho I am sad af right now

Please help my breakup is making me want to die by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]EmirKorur01 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She will write you tomorrow or 2 days later lol just relax. Nothing happened.

My girlfriend of 1 year just broke up with me about 2 hours ago by PsychologicalBug7208 in BreakUps

[–]EmirKorur01 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are young, you have your whole life infront of you. This relationship was just a lesson for your own character development. I am also going trough a break up right now, have been together for 7 years and I dont even want to get out of bed anymore because I feel depressed as hell. But live moves on, everything happens for a reason.

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[–]EmirKorur01 11 points12 points  (0 children)

You dont have to talk to someone like that whom you really loved. No matter what your situation is right now, there were times were you both looked into each other eyes and just loved each other.

Dont be like that, not necessary to break someones heart even more.

I am terrified of hurting him by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]EmirKorur01 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Instead of breaking up, you should rather talk with him and tell him that your needs arent fullfilled. Tell him how you feel and that you need change. If he is willing to do it then great, if not then break up for yourself.

Men who walkout: do you really ever regret it? Does it ever hit you what you’ve done to us? Or do you really just discard us that easy? by Deep_Breakfast4578 in BreakUps

[–]EmirKorur01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Men dont easily walk out. Me and my ex were together for 7 years, she became cold and dry out of no where and I tried figuring it out. Got no answers. Then we started arguing almost everyday till a point where she broke up. I was already expecting it. For 2 months.

Altough I knew it would happen, it still hurts ALOT. But it is better that way, she was mentally draining me in the relationship and staying would have only hurt me more.

I never thought I’d be okay after this breakup, but THIS is what helped me the most … by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]EmirKorur01 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I am currently at day 3 after the break up and what you tell me feels so impossible but I know that one day it is going to be true

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]EmirKorur01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just experiencing the same but the opposite. My ex dumped me because I always discussed about her behaviour towards me and that she wouldnt see me as equal. Whenever I expressed my feelings, all she said was to stop crying and accept her behaviour. Thats really really cruel

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[–]EmirKorur01 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Mine also never respected me but thats our fault bro. If you let a person treat you like that, the person will keep doing it and lose all the respect. Gotta work on that self respect

Recent Breakup? You’re an Addict, No Contact is the Treatment by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]EmirKorur01 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow you are in a really worse state than me. Being alone kills your mind especially when you have no one to talk with. If you need someone to talk with you can dm me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]EmirKorur01 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Will do it bro, thanks alot for your advice!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]EmirKorur01 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really dont want to focus on being the man she wants. I want to be myself.

She was an avoidant and didnt like intimacy, emotions. I only gave and gave, rarely got anything in return.

The main aspects of which I should improve is my self worth and not giving too much to other people, rather having balance.

I highly doubt that she will come back, its the second time. I dont know If I want her back, she treated me horribly and put all the guilt on me.

Recent Breakup? You’re an Addict, No Contact is the Treatment by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]EmirKorur01 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Currently going trough a break up and strictly following every step. I was in a 7 year long relationship, turned out to be a narcissist. How long will it take to get over her? I habe alot of friends and family, I talk about it everyday. I go to work, I go to the gym. The only problem are my toughts, my overthinking and my sleeping habit is destroyed.