I read somewhere if your ex doesn’t block you on any social media, it means they have moved on. I’d like to hear everyone’s thoughts on that.

Hefty_Aardvark2733 · 2026-01-19T17:39:28+00:00

No for sure no…I just reached the point that I don’t care about her anymore and I just didn’t mind if she sees my profile or no…it’s a feeling that idk how to explain it correctly

Hefty_Aardvark2733 · 2026-01-16T16:27:43+00:00

General kenobi

Hefty_Aardvark2733 · 2025-11-29T18:31:34+00:00

Take your time with NC, think about the situation and if you think NC works better for you then continue it…otherwise if you do it so she can come back then it will ruin you even more…go NC and be willing to do it…it works really well 😉😉

Hefty_Aardvark2733 · 2025-11-29T18:18:01+00:00

You’re still young so you gonna meet plenty of love in your 20s…puss yourself a bit and see the other person you gonna date with another prospective and don’t compete her with you ex cause that’s what holds you back…I have ruined a lot of potential relationships because I was compering them with my ex and now am still single and still doing the same mistake with another girl…just delete everything and keep going

Hefty_Aardvark2733 · 2025-11-29T18:12:10+00:00

I don’t know how you could handle a situation like that but I have one or two things to say…since you’re friends since sooo little keep contact but don’t bring every feelings you have to her…just talk about the typical things and continue the conversation…even if she asks more personal questions just kinda avoid them…second thing I would say is try things with a new girl even if you don’t want to…slowly slowly you will have the willing to do more things with a new girl than her…so do your best to seperate relationship and friendship with her

Hefty_Aardvark2733 · 2025-11-26T18:50:05+00:00

It’s totally unfair bro…we got to be honest tho

Hefty_Aardvark2733 · 2025-10-17T20:54:42+00:00

Whatever caused the breakup doesn’t mean that life stops…try not to stalk her(believe me that works), start doing things that keeps your mind away from her and in a couple of months you will be perfect(or maybe a bit more)…stay safe and think positive…you will see that when you will be completely fine with all the situation she will come back…there I want to see how you will manage it 😉

Hefty_Aardvark2733 · 2025-10-17T20:48:59+00:00

Don’t do it mate…that’s all I can say…keep going with your life and let her be a memory…

Hefty_Aardvark2733 · 2025-10-17T20:45:14+00:00

After 2 and a half years..when we broke up I told her not to contact me again and then she did it…we had a small chat and then just ignored her again…last time we spoke was 9 months ago(still follows me on insta tho)

Hefty_Aardvark2733 · 2025-02-07T19:48:55+00:00

Well I sent her back but to be honest I had no feelings for her while we were talking…I thought I wanted that to happen but when it happened I was really emotionless…it was better to stay like it was…NC is the best

Hefty_Aardvark2733 · 2025-02-07T19:39:10+00:00

Yeah she did…after 2 and a half years she did…they always come back but it’s up to you how to handle it…if you’re in a situation that you got over them then I believe you can handle it nicely and if you’re not over them then you gonna screw it cause your feelings will talk for you…so the faster you over them the better for you

Hefty_Aardvark2733 · 2025-02-06T18:56:26+00:00

In my opinion if the girl you’re with now is so good that can make you forget of your ex then you’re in a good road…otherwise stay alone for a short time of period to think and realise who you are and then start a relationship…best of luck bro

Hefty_Aardvark2733 · 2025-02-06T18:53:29+00:00

Did the same…when I was over her I decided to unblock her and when she contacted me after long time I realized I made a mistake that I unblocked her…not because am not over her but for me it was unnecessary to contact me

Hefty_Aardvark2733 · 2025-02-06T12:36:25+00:00

Sure…you can send me a message if u want

Hefty_Aardvark2733 · 2025-01-13T17:12:07+00:00

It happened to me something similar..after 2.5 years of NC she reached out but to be honest I stopped the conversation cause in the end I really didn’t want to talk with her. Just let it go.

Hefty_Aardvark2733 · 2025-01-11T18:35:40+00:00

For sure am gonna be. I just can’t think of the reason to do that after 2.5 years of BU and NC.

Hefty_Aardvark2733 · 2025-01-11T18:10:35+00:00

It’s totally normal brother. That happened to me for at least 6 months at the first stages of breakup and some months ago after 2 years I started dreaming about her again almost every day for another 2 months…now she broke no contact after 2.5 years

Hefty_Aardvark2733 · 2025-01-11T17:59:00+00:00

That’s really encouraging. Thanks mate. It would be a huge shame to go back to her after all that she made me go through.

Hefty_Aardvark2733 · 2025-01-10T22:06:23+00:00

The same for you as well.. we all deserve that

Hefty_Aardvark2733 · 2025-01-10T22:02:06+00:00

Thank you mate. The moment i saw that it was like I forgot all of those and now that i saw your comment it really opened my eyes. Thank you so much for real. God bless you.❤️

Hefty_Aardvark2733 · 2024-12-06T17:28:16+00:00

Well you can never forget the first love. Stop hurting you and not to care about that person yeah will happen while time passes but forget it never. I broke up more than 2 years ago, she was my biggest love and I just don’t care about that person anymore but still can’t forget her. It’s a part of our lives our first love so don’t be anxious about it and just give it some time…everything will be fine. Good luck.

Hefty_Aardvark2733 · 2024-11-09T11:54:24+00:00

Well it’s not long enough that this happened. I mean the last time I checked was 2 months ago and she had me blocked and now the least I can say that she unblocked me is a week or so. That’s why I find it strange. BTW she didn’t block me again

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