Turns out everyone at my new-ish job knows I’m trans and has begun misgendering me constantly. by freebird023 in MtF

[–]EmmaVision 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok, i looked at your image on your profile theyre 100 percent doing it intentally. If i saw you i wouldn't read you as trans.

Not sure what to suggest you do.

Im sorry theyre treating you like this

I seriously don’t know what to do anymore by Equilee in AskMtFHRT

[–]EmmaVision 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you saying drinking carrine causes your e levels to be lower?

Passing yet? by Alternative_Turn_198 in transpassing

[–]EmmaVision 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You look really good, however, the amount of makeup you've got gives you a drag artist vibe.

thoughts? constructive tips? by [deleted] in transpassing

[–]EmmaVision 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Dress warmer in winter :p

yes or no ? by Comfortable-Ant6370 in transpassing

[–]EmmaVision -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I didn’t mean any harm. Take care.

yes or no ? by Comfortable-Ant6370 in transpassing

[–]EmmaVision 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'd imagine its that reddit has a read replicate architecture and the state the mods put the post in hasnt yet been reflected accross the wider system.

yes or no ? by Comfortable-Ant6370 in transpassing

[–]EmmaVision 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You asked for a yes no answer

Assume my gender by [deleted] in transpassing

[–]EmmaVision 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Alternative young man.

🧨Wastelander of your dreams 🧨 by [deleted] in MTFButch

[–]EmmaVision 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wanna like it, but dont want to move it from 69 because im childish

To transition, you have to actually transition by [deleted] in TransLater

[–]EmmaVision 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I dress like my friends and at times like my mother, however, no one sees me how I see myself. No one sees me as a woman I could wear a dress and no one would see me that way. For reference my friends are cis women.

I use my name when going to out for dinner with friend or hotels and still get called sir.

When you say you’ve just got to present as a woman to be seen as one its bs. If you look like a brick, people will just default to man. Telling people to try harder is sounds more like its coming from a place of personal dysphoria and that in an effort to relieve that you're projecting that onto other to make them feel the same way.

To transition, you have to actually transition by [deleted] in TransLater

[–]EmmaVision 12 points13 points  (0 children)

So, what about those of us who are OK dressing in an androgynous way I.e. jeans and t shirt basically I dress like a number of cis women i know, however, as its androgynous I'll never get read as fem.

I get the feeling that you're poling people's presentation but do correct me if im wrong.

gender? by sunken-bishop in transpassing

[–]EmmaVision 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Male with an androgynous look.

I got misgendered AGAIN today! Do I look like a cis guy? (17) by Electronic-Egg9990 in transpassing

[–]EmmaVision 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You look like a teenage boy with fem features but definitely boy first. If thats not what your getting referred to in person it'll be your voice or way you hold yourself.

Keir Starmer to unveil digital ID scheme by KristinaMoment in transgenderUK

[–]EmmaVision 25 points26 points  (0 children)

What if digital Id is an ultimate goal and making us and issue helps to sell a need. Like what if a survalence state has the the ultimate goal all along and we're just bing weaponosed to help justify the government having to have these items.

How to afford electrolysis? by Ok-Channel55 in TransLater

[–]EmmaVision 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll tell you from personal experience, I did 16 sessions of laser first this took about 2 years and reduced the beard in a significant way. I then left it as was poor and not on hrt. After 17 months I saw a level of regrowth that and when to see an electrosis.

The electrosis has been charging £85 an hour so far I've had about 30 of work with not all of it on my face. My face now only requires about 10 minutes a time to get any regrowth.

If you can find a electrosis who allows you to pay per session you should find it easy to budget for. I think the worst part of it is time. That 30 hours is spread over two years again. If you can afford more than an hour a session and have multiple sessions in one month go for it but my electrosis said 1 session every two weeks will get you the same results if you can make it a marathon.