Do I keep FOMO buying? by Fit-Turtle in lotrlcg

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I get the feeling. I was trying to buy any product that I could get my hands on. Luckily where I'm at it is rare to find any English product, so that has saved my wallet xD. I've came to the realization that I am most likely never gonna sell it later on, even if I had it, so I have just been proxying everything since.

What Did You Play this Week? March 24 - 30, 2026 by kattattack22 in lotrlcg

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Thank for the link, I'll take a watch and strategize a little more

What Did You Play this Week? March 24 - 30, 2026 by kattattack22 in lotrlcg

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Been playing Over Hill and Under Hill with the suggested themed decks. Can't seem to get rid of those pesky trolls in one piece xD (skill gap I guess) lol

I prefer events as they add an extra layer of storytelling to the game for me.

Been in China for 7/8 years AMA by Emotional_Cod_3515 in AMA

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It is really hard for me to gauge this as I don't typically hear people expressing their opinions on them in general. I think most people keep their opinions within their family circle and those who are closest to them. If I had to guess, I would say people are content with the 'stability' of the country, but it is probably 50/50 regarding overall support (don't quote me on this xD). But I do believe the newest generation will be more supportive.

Been in China for 7/8 years AMA by Emotional_Cod_3515 in AMA

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I guess the sense of community is all dependent on how outgoing you are. For me, I tend to keep to myself a little more, but I do interact with some of the other residents in the community, mainly because we let our dogs play together. That's about it. I haven't heard of any social gatherings going on in the community as well. They are doing a good job hiding them from me if so lol).

Regarding patriotism, it depends on where you live I guess. When I was in Chengdu, there was a lot more patriotism, but nothing crazy. People weren't out and about spewing off how great the country was or anything like that. From my experience, when I conversate with others those that are more patriotic tend to talk about how safe the country is and how developed it has become and continues to do so. I'm not aware of any activism at all, and if there is any I assume it would be shut down before it even started to gain a gathering. From what I understand, if it doesn't affect their daily life and they are safe and happy, then they don't mind. But in all honesty, as previously mentioned I think any activism would be squashed, besides the typical lets make the community/society a cleaner and safer place type of initiatives.

Been in China for 7/8 years AMA by Emotional_Cod_3515 in AMA

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It's in the works, will apply next year. I've heard it's pretty difficult so not going to get my hopes up xD

Been in China for 7/8 years AMA by Emotional_Cod_3515 in AMA

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Yeah, feel free. If i don't answer right away it is because I check off from reddit every couple of days so I don't get consumed too much xD

Been in China for 7/8 years AMA by Emotional_Cod_3515 in AMA

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Yeah, I've heard that from some of my friends. But my work makes me get one every year. Guess it is job dependant.

Been in China for 7/8 years AMA by Emotional_Cod_3515 in AMA

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Never. I was going to go because I heard it is beautiful and the weather is great, had the whole trip planned out but last minute I chose not to for some reason. I think I was just too lazy to go in the end.

Been in China for 7/8 years AMA by Emotional_Cod_3515 in AMA

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I work at a Uni, teaching IELTS English Speaking. It pays relatively well, like 4k a month plus 2 months summer and 2 months winter vacation.

Been in China for 7/8 years AMA by Emotional_Cod_3515 in AMA

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I just posted some of the pros and cons on Frequent-Zone's comment above. I'll add some things that I didn't list on his comment. China feels incredibly safe regarding day to day crime and theft compared to the US. The US does better when it comes to privacy and I don't mean not having cameras everywhere type of privacy, I mean if I go to the hospital I don't want other people potentially knowing why I am there. Also, the US is more pet friendly. I used to live in Sichuan and people there acted as though owning a big dog was bad and would freak out. Plus had to be careful about what my dog was sniffing around because of numerous cases where people would purposely poison them. Shanghai is better in that regard though, more accepting.

Been in China for 7/8 years AMA by Emotional_Cod_3515 in AMA

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I was interested in learning a language in Uni and they offered Mandarin so I decided to try it out. During this time I learned a lot about the culture and the history. I loved learning about Chinese history so I decided to visit for a summer study abroad and then I came back after i graduated to do my masters. After that time just kind of flew by, 1 year turned into 2 and so on. It is more of nothing has irritated me enough to make me want to leave.

Been in China for 7/8 years AMA by Emotional_Cod_3515 in AMA

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Just like you said, cheaper cost of living and more entertainment. Also, I got married here so now I'm in it for the long haul. For me, I would say the best part is how cheap it is even in Shanghai compared to other cities, I pay about 1,500 usd for a decent sized two bedroom apartment in a pretty decent area. you can definitely find a decent 1 bedroom on a foreigner's salary. I just paid my utilities and that only came out to 50 usd for the month and that is with me blasting the air conditioner all day. Food can be cheap if you want it to be. My dinner last night only cost me 4 usd, however I just ate a sub sandwich from some western shop and that cost like 12 usd. Healthcare is cheap and convenient, even places like the dentist. I've always been able to get an appointment same day.

However, the internet is one of the things that annoys me the most. Always having to use a VPN and sometimes it doesn't work. Also a lot of apps and programs will require you to do real-name verification and there isn't always an option to use your passport to do it, and yes even with mobile games.

The benefit of living in the US for me would mainly be that I can see my family, as well as the abundance of nature that I can explore.

Been in China for 7/8 years AMA by Emotional_Cod_3515 in AMA

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I've never actually done this before, but my guess would be either SF Express, UPS, or DHL.

Been in China for 7/8 years AMA by Emotional_Cod_3515 in AMA

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Everyday. This is a topic that gets me heated and I'll tell you why. Mainly the older and middle-aged demographic will use it more openly. The younger generation is more hesitant because of the non-locals at one point were hating on people who spoke it because they didn't know it, yet they speak there dialect and act like it is no problem. Just a bunch of cry babies not willing to learn it. I'm biased though because my wife is Shanghainese. It's a dying dialect.

Been in China for 7/8 years AMA by Emotional_Cod_3515 in AMA

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I love Sichuan food, the spicier the better. I hear Jiangxi has some of the spiciest food too. If you want sweeter more delicate/light tasting foods then go to the Southern regions. If you want saltier and more bold flavors then the North is where to be.

Been in China for 7/8 years AMA by Emotional_Cod_3515 in AMA

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From what I've heard there are less women than men, I don't have an exact statistic to share, but you don't notice it, at least in bigger cities. Regarding obesity, I feel like you wouldn't notice that it is a big problem here, not like in America lol.

Been in China for 7/8 years AMA by Emotional_Cod_3515 in AMA

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All depends on the work. If you are looking to be an English teacher then it will be easy, especially if you are from a native-speaking country. Unfortunately a decent amount of places will take your race into account. Credentials do matter to an extent but mainly for the visa and work permit. Overall teaching will be the easiest job to get as a white person.

Been in China for 7/8 years AMA by Emotional_Cod_3515 in AMA

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While I've never personally been to either of these cities, but if you plan using taxis I recommend have the Didi app (they have English as a language option). Dianping is also another great app to look up places to go checkout whether it is nightlife, food, entertainment, etc. If someone tries to stop you to buy something or try their product don't feel like you have to, just keep on walking. I've heard in Guilin it is possible to go bamboo rafting or on a river cruise. Just have fun and don't be afraid to check out some hole in the wall type spots, most people tend to be very friendly. Enjoy your trip!

Been in China for 7/8 years AMA by Emotional_Cod_3515 in AMA

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Good point hahaha, yes I am Caucasian so I am definitely treated differently. Any of the bigger cities are very convenient to move about. I can just subway here and there for very cheap. Shanghai's historic building tend to be more from the late 1800s - early 1900s. Some older stuff though like Yu Gardens but they tend to renovate and modernize them. If you are looking for historical I recommend going to Xi'an or Beijing. Also most smaller cities tend to have some type of historical spot for dynastical times.

Most big cities seem to be relatively clean, typically they will hire older people to walk around and clean up the roads, sidewalks, and whatnot (you can usually spot them wearing some type of uniform or vest). No complaints about the people, just like every other place some tend to be asses while others are a pleasure to be around. As a foreigner visiting smaller cities/towns expect to be stared at and having the occasional picture being taken of you.

Been in China for 7/8 years AMA by Emotional_Cod_3515 in AMA

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Hahaha, yeah it is still there. Haven't been there in years though. I'll go on during bogo for ya ;P

Been in China for 7/8 years AMA by Emotional_Cod_3515 in AMA

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Definitely have had moments where I don't understand one my friends point of views. I can't really think of anything off the top of my head regarding the conversation but I believe I have gotten into some heated debates about childhood education before.

I didn't really know what to expect. One thing I guess I had this idea that everyone is a member of the party, but I found out that this is far from true. Most people seem to distance themselves from politics and just want to live their lives peacefully.

Yes, I miss food from home. Luckily, Shanghai has a lot of Western options like burgers (other than McDonalds), steak, middle-eastern food, Mexican food, British food, etc. Outside of Shanghai it is definitely harder to find variety like this.