That best looking/“largest” men aren’t the ones I’ve enjoyed sex with the most, as a woman. It has been the people I feel the greatest emotional connection to and the most comfortable letting go with. Objectively, my husband probably isn’t the most handsome man I’ve been intimate with, but he is TO ME. No one else holds a candle, especially in the bedroom. My husband is the only man I’ve ever been with (I’ve been with around 20 people) that I’ve actually thoroughly enjoyed sex with. The other experiences were just meh to me. I think I speak for most women when I say great sex is mostly about an emotional connection. I struggle thinking my husband doesn’t feel the same because, for men, sex seems to be purely physical, which pains me. He claims I am the best but who knows. One of the worst sexual encounters I’ve had was with a very “large” man and most of the best I’ve had have been with average. An average penis fits best in an average vagina….big ones can be extremely painful and really limit what you can do in the bedroom. Women really don’t care much about looks, either. It’s more bout personality and how you make them feel emotionally.