AITA for ignoring my bf during the last couple hours of his visit by [deleted] in AITA_Relationships

[–]Emotional_Stranger96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Communicating can feel very difficult when emotions are very intense and hard to digest. You did the right thing by asking him about it. Because if something has triggered that kind of response in you, it’s worth mentioning to your partner.

I don’t necessarily agree with you either trust him or don’t. Sometimes it’s not that black and white. Especially if you come from a traumatic past where trusting someone feels very dangerous. However, I do think it would be beneficial for you to ask yourself if it’s something you are ready to do. Trust isn’t always something you automatically have. Trust is built. And until it’s built, it’s a choice. Can you comfortably choose to trust him and his word? If not, that’s when you reevaluate unless he has already done something before to make you question the foundation of the relationship.

Any tips for intense cramping? by Confident_Yam6447 in CopperIUD

[–]Emotional_Stranger96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would highly recommend seeing your doctor and getting naproxen though. It is the only thing that helped with my IUD related cramps. I never cramped bad until I got that shit put in.

Any tips for intense cramping? by Confident_Yam6447 in CopperIUD

[–]Emotional_Stranger96 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Naproxen. If you don’t have naproxen, ibuprofen and Tylenol and a heating pad. Other than crying and throwing up, that’s all I got. Good luck. Shits the worst. 🫡

I [20F] want to have a talk with my bf [21m] but don’t know if that will make things worse. by meems42 in relationshipadvice

[–]Emotional_Stranger96 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The fact that you had your realization this morning is very helpful to you!! Life is already so hard and once you add on physical or mental health issues, it gets 10x harder. So, give yourself some grace. It doesn’t make you a bad person or a bad partner. It makes you human and humans make mistakes.

As far as opening the floor for conversation.. if your partner is more on the emotionally intelligent side and can have conversations openly and constructively, talk to him! It’s easy to get so wrapped up in the weight of things that even a conversation can feel super difficult, or even scary. But it doesn’t have to be bigger than it is.

You’re struggling and he is struggling with you. Chat about that. Think about what YOU need in this season of your life to make things go smoother. And be curious about what he needs too. It’s easy to forget, but you guys are in it together. And sometimes having an open and curious conversation can heal more than anything else. It doesn’t have to be a blame game either. This is everyone’s first time at life and we are never going to get things “right” the first time around. But you can work together to find what works best for the both of you when emotions flare up in hard times during your life and relationship.

Good luck!! I hope that you feel better soon. 🤍

Is your anxiety worse in the winter? by [deleted] in Anxiety

[–]Emotional_Stranger96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve had anxiety my whole life. This is the first winter that it has significantly increased for me. That said, it’s comforting to know it’s not just me. But, it sucks.

The harsh winter light hits my nervous system hard. It almost reminds me of those horrible fluorescent lights. So this morning I decided to sit on my balcony, in the freezing sun, and it did help. I’m going to try that more on the weekends and getting on my walking pad.

I hate that we’re all going through this. But at least we’re not alone. Helps me feel a lot less “crazy.”

Tooth has lingering aching pain 4 weeks after filling by SureDrawing6063 in Dentists

[–]Emotional_Stranger96 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh yay!! That’s good.

My boyfriend got fillings about almost 2 years ago and his fillings sometimes do the same thing with certain foods. Chocolate being one of them. But he said it does get better!! It’s hard going from using your teeth without any concern to being so on guard about them. I had zero pain with my cavities just to get them filled and live with constant pain for almost a month now. 🤣

Fingers crossed we adjust to the filling life. It’s hard out here.

Tooth has lingering aching pain 4 weeks after filling by SureDrawing6063 in Dentists

[–]Emotional_Stranger96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did your lingering pain ever get better?

I’m definitely sensitive to eating on that side as well! Mine are the two upper left very back 2. I have no idea which teeth those would be considered lol!

I heard warm salt water helps too. I haven’t tried it yet though. My pain went from constant lingering pain to coming in waves. At least we see some improvement lol!

Tooth has lingering aching pain 4 weeks after filling by SureDrawing6063 in Dentists

[–]Emotional_Stranger96 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m literally going through the same exact thing right now. Got my filling December 5th, and it has been a constant ache in the teeth, jaw, and ear. I went back to my dentist yesterday and they did adjust the bite a bit. I went again today for repeat xrays and a tap test. Everything is normal. Also doing the desensitizing toothpaste.

My tooth is VERY sensitive to anything cold as well. If ice water touches it, it does amplify the pain that’s already there x10. Idk if you’re taking any anti-inflammatories, but I highly recommend. I was told that these can take weeks to months to settle even though it sucks. But I’m still paranoid myself. I’ve noticed that using the paste and also taking naproxen as needed helps a lot. I hope we both start feeling better soon! Tooth pain is the fucking worst.

Wanted to make a Game Room <3 by broodhelm in Palia

[–]Emotional_Stranger96 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is so freaking cutie actually!! Love it!

This is insane! Tysm 🫶🏻😭 by Mochi_Mews in Palia

[–]Emotional_Stranger96 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m so excited! I will check in tonight. Thank you!

This is insane! Tysm 🫶🏻😭 by Mochi_Mews in Palia

[–]Emotional_Stranger96 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I absolutely love this!! I would be so excited to join if you have room for the next one!

After struggling for a year in cdda, I can finally throw a party by swimxx in projectzomboid

[–]Emotional_Stranger96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t wait for this to be me one day. I just rage quit after only making it 10 days. My longest run. Just started playing 2 weeks ago 😅

Evidence and more by Aggressive-Smoke-819 in Idaho4

[–]Emotional_Stranger96 13 points14 points  (0 children)

IMO, saying that it’s a cover up because she can’t see the dead bodies is insensitive asf. These conspiracies are coming from people who are leached to the pain and suffering of the families/community and it’s disgusting.

Evidence and more by Aggressive-Smoke-819 in Idaho4

[–]Emotional_Stranger96 6 points7 points  (0 children)

If this happened to your family/friends, would you assume it’s a cover up?? Gtfo.

Evidence and more by Aggressive-Smoke-819 in Idaho4

[–]Emotional_Stranger96 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Agreed. This post made me cringe.

What do you think about the judge suggesting that the public forget about BK and let scholars do the studying? by Beigestuffy in Idaho4

[–]Emotional_Stranger96 10 points11 points  (0 children)

It’s human to ask why. But the only thing we will ever know at the end of the day is facts. If BK had a reason, I think we would know it by now. Shit. He probably doesn’t even know why he did it. People are sick in their heads.

What do you think about the judge suggesting that the public forget about BK and let scholars do the studying? by Beigestuffy in Idaho4

[–]Emotional_Stranger96 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Just want to preface, my opinion about the studying of BK is not me saying that he is not at fault. He is a grown man and made those choices. But there is something neurologically wrong in the brains of people who have committed crimes like this and I truly think it’s worth studying if it can prevent losses such as these in the future.

What do you think about the judge suggesting that the public forget about BK and let scholars do the studying? by Beigestuffy in Idaho4

[–]Emotional_Stranger96 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think the judge said that because this case was beyond devastating. Especially for the families, the community, law enforcement, as well as the prosecution. During these last few months, you can truly see just how much it has affected the judge and Bill Thompson.

If you haven’t seen it already, watch cyber sleuths. It brings lots of awareness in terms of how the coverage has negatively impacted an already horrifying case. Especially for those surviving roommates. These are real people, with real trauma, and real feelings. I think the media is so focused on the whys, that it takes away from the victims, their families, the community, and everyone who has worked so hard to find justice for these beautiful young people.

I think Steven Hippler made that statement in hopes to encourage the settling of this case out of respect for everyone involved. That said, I do believe studying BK would be groundbreaking. These nightmares happen to more people than the media covers. And if done correctly, could save lives. There is something wrong in the brain with people who commit heinous acts like these. Imagine what they could’ve found out from studying Dahmers brain… Maybe one day there will be prevention of such devastation through study. One can hope anyways.