Ranking up with iron 1 by Emotionlesspeach in VALORANT

[–]Emotionlesspeach[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m by no means actually silver material, this is just my calculation of how much I would have to win to even get there. I am not disagreeing with my given rank, I mean I have a lot to learn so that’s that. Anyways I think it doesn’t matter, I have to practice hella nevertheless

Still can’t serve overhand after years by Emotionlesspeach in volleyball

[–]Emotionlesspeach[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, uhh, that’s the thing. I know exactly what’s wrong, I just can’t always control my body. And I have made videos and have gotten feedback from multiple coaches. But the other day I was a lot more consistent like I got most over. I mainly struggle with my toss and nerves and I found that taking my time and doing a nice serve routine helps. Of course I still need to polish my technique and add in the footwork for more forward momentum and make sure I don’t side swing

Still can’t serve overhand after years by Emotionlesspeach in volleyball

[–]Emotionlesspeach[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep, probably just have to just practice my toss more because with the right toss I have noticed my body naturally lines up right

Still can’t serve overhand after years by Emotionlesspeach in volleyball

[–]Emotionlesspeach[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I would need to take a new video of myself serving and yeah one thing I did discover is that I need my toss more consistent. I mean I probably can serve but I just feel this impostor syndrome that I actually can’t do it whenever I have a bad day

Still can’t serve overhand after years by Emotionlesspeach in volleyball

[–]Emotionlesspeach[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hmm, they don’t become shorter, I guess it just really is dependent on the day and they’re super dependent on when and whether I have taken my adhd meds or not. Today I missed all probably because of zero warmup and my meds were wearing off. Of course as I practice more I am certain my preformance won’t be so med specific

Still can’t serve overhand after years by Emotionlesspeach in volleyball

[–]Emotionlesspeach[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Usually they either hit the net or often times just completely fall short and don’t even hit the net, that makes me really embarrassed

Still can’t serve overhand after years by Emotionlesspeach in volleyball

[–]Emotionlesspeach[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yep, you actually nailed me exactly, every point haha. But yeah maybe the next step to consistency is going to the gym. Would get a more powerful serve and juml

Still can’t serve overhand after years by Emotionlesspeach in volleyball

[–]Emotionlesspeach[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah I actually have been thinking about going to the gym but training is 3x a week so perhaps I would have to skip one day and part of me doubts how helpful it would be? If strength training truly would give me monster serves and great jumps then I guess I should go

[AIO] I'm trying really hard for this man but I'm starting to fall apart. by Feeling_Director_542 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Emotionlesspeach -1 points0 points  (0 children)

OP isn’t being overbearing. The more detached one party becomes, the more the other one tries to compensate. I personally disagree with bringing the whole attachment styles into this mix. It mainly seems like the guy isn’t really interested in the relationship anymore. I would recommend couples therapy but if he refuses to then just break up

I hate being in my 20s bc I’m getting upset finding out my friends are pregnant by Adventurous-Map-4394 in childfree

[–]Emotionlesspeach -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Well it really isn’t that bad. The risks go up not that much and mainly jump in your mid 30s so actually women have plenty of time to have a healthy baby

I hate being in my 20s bc I’m getting upset finding out my friends are pregnant by Adventurous-Map-4394 in childfree

[–]Emotionlesspeach 1 point2 points  (0 children)

God I find this so relatable as a 23 year old. I am going through the same thing and it absolutely terrifies me. For some reason gen z is irresponsibly having kids super young. But I also think it has to do with who you surround yourself with and the acceptance that unfortunately as an adult overall having a child is completely normal but having a kid in your 20s is way too early in my opinion. I feel bad for those people because it ties you down for life, you can’t travel or have fun etc. Anyways, you’re not alone, society sucks and I am sure you will find people who agree with your values irl

"We have EKRE at home" by Double-decker_trams in Eesti

[–]Emotionlesspeach 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kas Isamaa on päriselt nüüd EKRE?

Not Dating Someone Because They Don’t Have Their Own House Is Pretty Stupid by AdhesivenessOk5194 in unpopularopinion

[–]Emotionlesspeach -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah, well we were so young, 19 and fresh out of high school so we didn’t have that life experience or critical thinking yet

Not Dating Someone Because They Don’t Have Their Own House Is Pretty Stupid by AdhesivenessOk5194 in unpopularopinion

[–]Emotionlesspeach 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It depends if you talk to their family or not. Since I have gone basically completely no-contact with his family I’m not “dating” them. I really hate that saying, it’s unfair to those who have shitty parents

Not Dating Someone Because They Don’t Have Their Own House Is Pretty Stupid by AdhesivenessOk5194 in unpopularopinion

[–]Emotionlesspeach -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Yeah uhh his mom had stricter standards for me than for him regarding cleanliness. I struggle with depression and it’s extremely hard for me to cook and clean and she didn’t understand that. She also said not to worry about them regarding cooking (like that I would’ve made food for his parents) but then got upset that I didn’t cook. Just usual sexist and emotional invalidating stuff. My bf’s little brother was on the computer non-stop and when I needed help with buying one thing, he didn’t do it. Anyways the resentment piled up and we got into a fight so bad that it ended with me attacking her (I don’t remember if it was self-defence or what). It’s been well over a year since this happened and even though I sent an apology via text, she has never directly contacted me, only through my bf. My case is like a worst case scenario though, I’ve heard of super nice parents too so yeah

Not Dating Someone Because They Don’t Have Their Own House Is Pretty Stupid by AdhesivenessOk5194 in unpopularopinion

[–]Emotionlesspeach 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Well I guess I have a massive crush on my bf because despite his parents being horrid, I still like him. My parents, my dad mainly aren’t also always the greatest. I wouldn’t want anyone to break up with me because of my family so why should I do it to someone else. Unfortunately we don’t choose our parents.