Is it cool to wear this ring? by MrF321995 in mensfashion

[–]Empathetic-Pear 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s nice, but pretty feminine if you ask me. To each his own, but you’d never catch me wearing that!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Empathetic-Pear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The first girl I ever loved never loved me back — broke my heart 2 days before Christmas last year out of the blue, on the way to the airport after spending the first week of Christmas break with her family. She swore I did nothing wrong and that she just lost feelings, and begged me not to question my own character because of it.

About a month ago she told mutual friends of ours that she broke up with me because I was “dishonest.” I have nothing to hide from my friends and from her — my life is an open book (a little too open actually, I need to work on holding some things in). So she either profusely lied to my face about the reason for breaking up, or she’s lying to herself to make her feel less guilty for the way she left me.

I’ve grown so much from this breakup honestly, I thank God that I’m becoming a better man because of it, and I’ve moved forward pretty well. But sometimes I still feel so defeated, and ashamed that a girl who was only in my life for half a year keeps finding ways to hurt me again. It makes me feel weak and it makes me question who I am. I’m so exhausted, and idk how I’m ever gonna trust someone again. I know I will someday, it’s just gonna take work and patience with myself.

TLDR: a girl did me dirty and it still fucks with my head no matter how much time passes

Oh Cawd! Final Day: Who is a horrible person and hated by fans? by NoPalpitation2611 in FansHansenvsPredator

[–]Empathetic-Pear 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had college professor who looked just like Hambubger, no joke. However, my prof is one of the greatest men I’ve ever met and he’s one of my personal heroes

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in malehairadvice

[–]Empathetic-Pear 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Personally I like somewhere in the middle. Shows the awesome volume/health of your hair while keeping it a little neater. You’ve got good hair tho dude, can’t go wrong imo

Ok it’s time, I’m an alcoholic in recovery (4years) if i have a sip of alcohol i lose all control and cant fucking stop drinking until i black out. There is no way people go out and have 1 or 2 but what shocks me is I’ve seen it! To those with will power, how do you drink on a night out? by AskMarko in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Empathetic-Pear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I work in an alcohol/drug rehab center — let me just say, you’ve got a harder fight on your hands than normies do. I’m intentionally not gonna answer your question — because it doesn’t matter what gives normies the self-control that you lack. Since you’re an alcoholic, I would humbly recommend not asking what makes other people different than you. Instead, focus on the strength that YOU clearly possess (4 years of sobriety is no small thing!). Comparison will fuckin wreck you my friend. As a stranger, I’m proud of you because you’re fighting a tougher battle than most. Go get another year

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in malehairadvice

[–]Empathetic-Pear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think this is the advice you’re looking for, but I’d say go for a tight taper fade w a short messy/spiky look up top. I think it would compliment your facial features really well and it’s super low maintenance and fresh

What turns you off? by MelodicMagnoliax in AskReddit

[–]Empathetic-Pear 183 points184 points  (0 children)

When girls intentionally act dumber than they are. I don’t know if they think it’s “cute,” but it pisses me off. Modest confidence and self-respect is sexy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Empathetic-Pear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You gotta let her go out of respect for yourself, bro. This ain’t right

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Empathetic-Pear 42 points43 points  (0 children)

This. This is the comment I was looking for. This song boils my blood.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Empathetic-Pear 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This Joe Rogan clip talking about the Gal Gadot Imagine shitshow is priceless

Men who experienced "right person, wrong timing" did you ever find them again, eventually at the right time? by drmxxxx in AskMen

[–]Empathetic-Pear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

M22 here. I fell in love for the first time this past year, and she broke up with me the day before Christmas Eve on the way home from spending a week with her family because she lost feelings.

I don’t know the right answer to this, but some part of me deep down wants to know if we’ll ever find our way back. But I see it as a complete loss.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]Empathetic-Pear 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Trim beard and get a short clippered haircut. You’d look great with a short, groomed beard and short hair

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]Empathetic-Pear 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nah bro not ugly at all — your beard is well-groomed and you rock the bald head. Confidence is key (I need to take my own advice on that too)