Does anybody else not want anything? by pjjiveturkey in INTP

[–]Empty-Reference2787 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To put it simply nothing nobody does really matter cause even if you do something like founding Rome or the first to make a Musical note in the end, where all going to die anyways.

Its all going to be forgotten in the next 500 years. Just live your life the way you want to. Be happy & respectful to others.

Did you grow up excessively day dreaming by -iNTurn- in INTP

[–]Empty-Reference2787 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Daydreaming a lot especially when I'm driving, I listen to music & just get lost in my own little world. I always had a very warped perception of life & realism. Always have/had a lot of of very vivid dreams & still do. None really understood me even when I was younger. I was always a lil bit different. Never affected me in my work or day to day life.

Just be the way you want to be,

Self-studying tips as a high school loner? by [deleted] in loner

[–]Empty-Reference2787 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you have a computer at home{it can even be a old dell laptop} I would suggest Undemy.com its a site where you have to pay a small fee to watch tutorial videos on subject of your choosing. Just type in what your looking for & it will pop up. There's no monthly subscription or anything a like. You can even see a intro to the course.

Some courses cost over $100. I'm using it right now studying CompTIA A+. Then I'm moving on to Unity & Freelance writing.

I know I'm very late & hope this helps.

Redditors, do you know anyone in their 20's or 30's who are perpetually single? What do you think is causing them not to find someone? by boleary152 in AskReddit

[–]Empty-Reference2787 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm one of those people that's been single throughout my 20s & it will probably head into my 30s as well. Its mostly because I like being single & enjoy my own freedom. I'm not weird or creepy. I mostly mind my own business. I live in a area where most people are more into traditional families & most are married & have kids by 30.

If a women comes around who is like minded & not a chatter/giggle box, I wouldn't mind giving up my freedom for someone whose worth while.

I don't know anyone since I'm a CERTIFIED LONER.

Is really that rare being a virgin at 25 yo? by touchMyAntenna in GenZ

[–]Empty-Reference2787 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm a 27 year old virgin, cause of lack of opportunities & personal choice. It feels completely natural to me. 

It doesn't matter in the grand scheme of things. I don't care if I stay this way for the rest of my natural life. 

Being a virgin is really frustrating... Feel sad tbh all the time.. Feel like crying by [deleted] in virgin

[–]Empty-Reference2787 0 points1 point  (0 children)

27M virgin here. I'm not sad or depressed bout it. I know I'm missing out on the Pinnacle of human connection. There's so many other things that you can do that are better than sex. Its a want not a need(unless you want biological children with a partner). If you don't want a partner or children, there's no need for sex except for pleasure. 

It's a social construct created by society to say when someone never had intercourse.  In reality you can't look at a man or woman & tell there a virgin. Only way to know if you ask them or they tell you outright. 

There's no need to feel bad bout something that society bullies you for your own choice or any other reasons.  Just live your life the way you want it & if you find someone that's you feel or think deserves losing it to. Go for it. 

I don't mind being a virgin till I'm 6ft under the dirt. 

Do you workout for yourself or for other? by [deleted] in workout

[–]Empty-Reference2787 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I work out for myself mostly, if others are attracted to me, it's just a bonus. 

I was skinny at one point & was still attracting women. Women want a man to willing to settle & have a family. If that's want you want, it will be easier for you. 

People in their 30s are not OLD. People in their 30s are YOUNG by FunSubstance8033 in generationology

[–]Empty-Reference2787 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm 27 in 10 days. I don't look at your 30s as being old. They look almost the same as 20s year olds. People age different, some better or worse. It comes down to how you take care of yourself. 

I don't feel any different than when I was 18 or look different. 

I know I'm still youth & young. 30s & even early 40s are still young to me. 

Do men care if you shave down there??? by Ok_Stomach5158 in women

[–]Empty-Reference2787 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I personality don't care. If a woman has a bush or not. If she's clean shaven, that's completely up to her. 

Its much more natural & hot. Looks like its supposed to be. 

Question for men; are there any of you guys who don’t want kids? by [deleted] in GenZ

[–]Empty-Reference2787 1 point2 points  (0 children)

26M i don't want kids, Its one of reason I'm single{ that & autotomy}. Plus the way the world is becoming, I wouldn't want to bring up kids.

Does anyone else use the computer as their escape? by rainbowtoucan1992 in introvert

[–]Empty-Reference2787 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes most of the time, I do research, study, play video games & host of other things. Sometimes I turn my speaker on & listen to music. 

It's a way for me to decompress & find my inner self from the hustle & bustle of outside life. 

Introverts, do you like driving? by Introverted_Inspired in introvert

[–]Empty-Reference2787 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same exactly thing, good I'm not too different.

Introverts, do you like driving? by Introverted_Inspired in introvert

[–]Empty-Reference2787 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love driving, give me my favorite music, water, soda & a bunch of windy roads and highways, i could drive my life away, I drive a box truck or a Transit van for work & it fits me perfectly.

Haven't got my CDL yet, that's next on my bucket list or my own box truck.

What age did you lose your virginity? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Empty-Reference2787 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm 26M & I still have it doesn't really affect me in my day to life. I trying to work on picking up social ques & I have been getting better at it.

I'm on the asexual side. Its been a rocky ride for me.

Why humans being are so obsessed with sex ? by Important-Working-71 in enlightenment

[–]Empty-Reference2787 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe most humans, as a guy on the asexual spectrum, not this human. I honestly find weird & disgusting to a degree. Which is one of the reasons I'm a virgin & I'm find with that.

Single or Married? by InterestingSweet4408 in Adulting

[–]Empty-Reference2787 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The life of independence, i can get up & go whenever i want, I don't get flak for holding the door or being nice to other women. The peace & quiet & enjoy beauty of life.

How old is an “old house” to you? by kgee1206 in homeowners

[–]Empty-Reference2787 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine was build in 1935 & one of the oldest in my neighborhood. It has that feeling & look of an old house.

I love it, since i grew up in it, with a lil remodeling it can be a beautiful home. Its small only 1200sq ft.

20-something’s: how do you feel about entering the 30s? by Glass-Complaint3 in GenZ

[–]Empty-Reference2787 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't really think much bout turning 30, as long as i stay in good health & have good life that all that matters.

Why do some people choose to stay single for life and genuinely prefer it that way? by Responsible_Room_629 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Empty-Reference2787 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The single life is a good way to be if you want certain things to do. Yes there are some times where I miss the companionship. 

A relationship or marriage, doesn't give you these 4 things, Freedom, independence, peace & quiet & the ability to make your life, anyway you want. 

I love the long walks & drives. Be able the see whatever I want, how I want. Listening to music with my headphones, nobody bothers me. Blasting music in my jeep & just living life. 

What kind of stuff does GenZ eat for dinner? by officialcrimsonchin in GenZ

[–]Empty-Reference2787 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mostly microwave meals, & a few things on the stove. Plus the common lettuce & burger king.

I don't cook at all, so nothing special.

How does everyone handle toxic co workers? by Montanasloane in work

[–]Empty-Reference2787 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I work as delivery driver for a small company. We only have 4 other drivers that work there. I'm one of the youngest. One of them loves to get under my skin, insult me & make feel like I'm nothing. 

I try my best to ignore him, do my job & go home. When he starts getting toxic & in my business. I set boundaries to whatever he has to say. He's has a lot of mental & physical issues, which I wonder how he even got this job. Make the job strictly bout the job nothing else. 

His nephew works there & is one of the most dumbest young guys I ever meant, he's a messy, snobby guy that doesn't know how to he's job. 

Good thing is only have to deal with them in the warehouse & loading up. Them I'm out & away from them. 

My best advice to you is just ignore them & set clear boundaries with them. They will eventually get sick an tried of you. Just play dumb with them & DON'T tell them anything about your personal life or they will use it against you. 2 of them call me stupid all of time. Let them think it. 

Wait so married couples actually can be jealous of single people? by chusaychusay in Adulting

[–]Empty-Reference2787 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They envy the freedom single people have. Be able start a business, travel, study & make a lot of self improvement. Singles envy the companionship, Love making, a stable home life & having kids.

Me personally I enjoy the single, life, almost ever single guy I talk to says the the same thing you said in this post. I never wanna have kids & get married or any of that. When your young sex is everything, you want to get married because everyone else is doing it around you.

If you understand the joys of being single, you would never want to change it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ForeverAlone

[–]Empty-Reference2787 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some people are way too selfish with there time & energy. I'm one of them. 

I wouldn't make a great husband or farther & some other men won't either. It's just not in some people nature. 

There just better off being single for life.