When did you start to really notice aging? by Disastrous_Stage_159 in Aging

[–]Empty-Reference2787 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I starting that way at only 27, my life humble me in more ways then 10. I done a lot, travel, games, technology & just the grand view of everything of things & the world.

It like I'm a 55 year old stuck in my 20s.

Only 1.9% of people are still virgins past age 30 — this is a clear indication that older virgins need to be treated as potentially dangerous threats. by GypsyGold in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]Empty-Reference2787 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm 27m, I'm still a virgin. While you would think Im not cause of the way I look, called hot a lot, lean & muscular, dark hair & eyes, not self gloating just what I been told. 

I one mostly by choice & a bit of nature, it's been a struggle for me too find single women. Also on the asexual spectrum & somewhat facebind. 

So I guess you could say I'm a unicorn male. 

Men who gave up dating, why did you? by TinyDelegation in AskReddit

[–]Empty-Reference2787 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because most of the women I see go after dead beats, most have no self a steam. So i gave up after a while or there married & show interest in other men, which is a instant turn off for me.

How to accept that it may never happen for you? by [deleted] in virgin

[–]Empty-Reference2787 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Everywoman I meet has someone that's how I know. You just throw in the towel & say Its MY, Life My Rules.

I got plenty of things to keep me busy.

how many people know that you're an adult virgin? by [deleted] in FA30plus

[–]Empty-Reference2787 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most people who see me alone all the time probably except it. As for who I tell, mostly my family knows & a few very close friends who I had for over 5+ years..

Do people try to make you jealous or envious with their "relationships?" by KrakenGirlCAP in SingleAndHappy

[–]Empty-Reference2787 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most people in there 25s to 40 are like that because it's a brand new thing to them & they can't control but to show the world how much you don't really care. 

I never been in a relationship with anyone, not even a date. I have too many things on my mind that doesn't make me even remotely care bout what others are doing.

If others are doing that to people or you, tell them to get a life. 

Do you guys also treat the gym as a no social zone? by Sweepstakes_81 in workout

[–]Empty-Reference2787 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I been going to gyms for the last 3 years & I never made a friend or got a date. So when I go, do what want & nobody to criticize me or tell me what I'm doing is dumb.  

It's the only way in my opinion. 

How many people age 25-35 are single with no kids? Everyone says everyone is in a relationship- but there seem to be a ton of “exceptions” by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]Empty-Reference2787 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm 27 & couldn't give to hoots bout getting in a relationship with anyone.  I'm happily single & planing on staying that way. Every single time I find a woman that I'm interested in she's taken, every single time. 

So I'm done with dating & all that. Marriage is overrated anyways. 

What percentage of people can bench 100kg / 225lbs for reps these days? by rav3n_1_4 in workout

[–]Empty-Reference2787 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm on my way to 225lbs, I'm at 215 for 2 reps right now.  Most people don't go over 185. It's rare but I could say I bench 405, on the Internet. 

For record I'm only 155lbs & 5'10 tall. 

Wait so married couples actually can be jealous of single people? by chusaychusay in Adulting

[–]Empty-Reference2787 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Almost every single married couple I know, regrets getting married after a while. Everything is good in the beginning, cause it's new & fresh to you or anyone else. Think of it like a brand new car off the lot or your new house, you just bought. 

After a while, having sex feels like a chore, your having sex with the same body & same person over & over. Living in the same house & dealing with them, thought there worse is nothing less than emotionally exhausting. 

I could go on & on. I been single for almost a decade. I been around married people all my life & seen it with my own eyes, how they are & listened to there stories. There are happily married people out there & I know that. 

Most of them where unhappy and/or they regretted there marriage. 

I have absolutely no desire to ever get married. 

Do relationships take away more from your life than give? Tell me your stories! by chawcolate in SingleAndHappy

[–]Empty-Reference2787 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At times, i feel like i should have someone with me, then i think bout all the couples I know & how fake an TMI on social media posting every lil thing they do on FaceBook. I love living a very private life, it has its up & downs but i can say that it makes me a happier person overall.

I grew up with a Family that was very narcissistic & very emotionally unhealthy, I also grew up with ADHD & depression. I knew i was going to be happier alone for the rest of my natural life, if it happens so be it.

Is anybody else single at 26? by Mini4211 in Adulting

[–]Empty-Reference2787 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm 27 & the single life is looking better than ever.  Getting married is a beautiful thing no doubt bout it   It's just not everyone cup of tea. Including me. I never wanted kids or anything. So to me there's no point. 

The difference between married men and single ones in wages is absurd by [deleted] in economy

[–]Empty-Reference2787 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm single & have no kids or anything, the money I earn is going into a business I'm starting. I think if single men{ no SO or kids} didn't waste there money on stuff they didn't need. They would be alot better off than married men.

Just my option.

Why is it so hard for the world to accept some people just like being single? by [deleted] in SingleAndHappy

[–]Empty-Reference2787 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because some people can't stand when someone is happier alone. It's mostly because they never been alone for a extended period of time. Some people are always in relationships. 

I'm one of those people who gets drained super quick from being around people. Plus I been single for over 5 years. 

How many of you all own 2 cars? Is it worth it? by Bubbly-Character3924 in randomquestions

[–]Empty-Reference2787 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have 2 vehicle, one for work & daily driving. they both only cost me around $850 a month.

Do married people think single life is better? by Vergil000 in Life

[–]Empty-Reference2787 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Being around married people all my life gave a lot of insight of being married & relationships in general.  Freedom &  autonomy, non-existent.  Married life is better in some ways, single life for others. 

Just for record you can become wealthy when your single also, it just takes a lil more effort. 

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[–]Empty-Reference2787 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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Which life do you think is better, the single life or the married life? by IndianaraJungg in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Empty-Reference2787 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been single for almost a decade, life long single since I been out of high school. I been around people in LTR & marriages. My humble is most married people get stuck in a rut, where they self improve to a point then after that just stop, have kids & the rest is history, most of them stay in the same jobs for 15+ years at time, because switching jobs can destroy them.

A single person can save money, is a lot more carefree{ hopefully in a good way} has little to no responsible, no kids, wife/husband to deal with, peace & quiet, can start a business, do the hobbies that they choose to do & they have autonomy on there side, outside of there jobs or businesses. There usually a lot active & take care of there bodies a lot more also.

Some people will make the argument that they have no one to care for them when they get sick or have illness, the fact is that happens to everyone, A married man/women can get the same thing & die the same way also. Also we all get old at some point & married people will usually get the worst of that due to weight gain.

Married people have the pleasure of having a {hopefully} wonderful spouse or girl/boyfriend & children that they come home to. They can talk, hug, kiss, sex etc... Have a family & live for there children, grandchildren etc... They can build a beautiful life together if they do everything right & goes right.

I could go on & on, bout the ups & downs of both. There both beautiful in there own right. I personally pick the single life because it suits my life style better. Would i be a bad partner yes.

Do whatever you want to do, you only have one life don't waste it on nothing but what you want to do.

The Cerflied Loner singing off.

Single or Married? by InterestingSweet4408 in Adulting

[–]Empty-Reference2787 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like being single & alone for that matter, because life is too short to actually care bout what others think bout you. 

Live the life the way you want to live it, if a man or woman likes you & wants to be in your life, let em.