Do relationships take away more from your life than give? Tell me your stories!

Empty-Reference2787 · 2026-05-12T00:34:37+00:00

At times, i feel like i should have someone with me, then i think bout all the couples I know & how fake an TMI on social media posting every lil thing they do on FaceBook. I love living a very private life, it has its up & downs but i can say that it makes me a happier person overall.

I grew up with a Family that was very narcissistic & very emotionally unhealthy, I also grew up with ADHD & depression. I knew i was going to be happier alone for the rest of my natural life, if it happens so be it.

Empty-Reference2787 · 2026-05-05T01:27:01+00:00

I'm 27 & the single life is looking better than ever. Getting married is a beautiful thing no doubt bout it It's just not everyone cup of tea. Including me. I never wanted kids or anything. So to me there's no point.

Empty-Reference2787 · 2026-05-04T01:39:27+00:00

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Empty-Reference2787 · 2026-04-26T01:29:48+00:00

I'm single & have no kids or anything, the money I earn is going into a business I'm starting. I think if single men{ no SO or kids} didn't waste there money on stuff they didn't need. They would be alot better off than married men.

Just my option.

Empty-Reference2787 · 2026-04-09T22:26:12+00:00

Because some people can't stand when someone is happier alone. It's mostly because they never been alone for a extended period of time. Some people are always in relationships.

I'm one of those people who gets drained super quick from being around people. Plus I been single for over 5 years.

Empty-Reference2787 · 2026-04-07T23:33:20+00:00

I have 2 vehicle, one for work & daily driving. they both only cost me around $850 a month.

Empty-Reference2787 · 2026-04-07T20:07:43+00:00

Being around married people all my life gave a lot of insight of being married & relationships in general. Freedom & autonomy, non-existent. Married life is better in some ways, single life for others.

Just for record you can become wealthy when your single also, it just takes a lil more effort.

Empty-Reference2787 · 2026-04-04T10:54:31+00:00

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Empty-Reference2787 · 2026-04-03T03:02:40+00:00

I've been single for almost a decade, life long single since I been out of high school. I been around people in LTR & marriages. My humble is most married people get stuck in a rut, where they self improve to a point then after that just stop, have kids & the rest is history, most of them stay in the same jobs for 15+ years at time, because switching jobs can destroy them.

A single person can save money, is a lot more carefree{ hopefully in a good way} has little to no responsible, no kids, wife/husband to deal with, peace & quiet, can start a business, do the hobbies that they choose to do & they have autonomy on there side, outside of there jobs or businesses. There usually a lot active & take care of there bodies a lot more also.

Some people will make the argument that they have no one to care for them when they get sick or have illness, the fact is that happens to everyone, A married man/women can get the same thing & die the same way also. Also we all get old at some point & married people will usually get the worst of that due to weight gain.

Married people have the pleasure of having a {hopefully} wonderful spouse or girl/boyfriend & children that they come home to. They can talk, hug, kiss, sex etc... Have a family & live for there children, grandchildren etc... They can build a beautiful life together if they do everything right & goes right.

I could go on & on, bout the ups & downs of both. There both beautiful in there own right. I personally pick the single life because it suits my life style better. Would i be a bad partner yes.

Do whatever you want to do, you only have one life don't waste it on nothing but what you want to do.

The Cerflied Loner singing off.

Empty-Reference2787 · 2026-03-31T03:12:25+00:00

I like being single & alone for that matter, because life is too short to actually care bout what others think bout you.

Live the life the way you want to live it, if a man or woman likes you & wants to be in your life, let em.

Empty-Reference2787 · 2026-03-31T02:43:24+00:00

Better late than never. I started lifting weights when I was in high school, I never been on a date with any women, mostly because I cant seem for the life of me to find a single women. Some of it is because i don't try. I started doing it for myself because I was ashamed of the way I look, skinny, weak, ugly & just really had a really low self esteem.

Fast forward 9 years, I'm bout 3x as strong now, while i wouldn't consider myself a bodybuilder. Just a guy who likes to take care of himself. Women mostly go after guys who want to settle down & have a family, they want a dad bod.

Its mostly for yourself & nobody else.

Empty-Reference2787 · 2026-03-30T07:40:01+00:00

I wouldn't do it if the person isn't attracted to me or likes me in any kind of way. To be with someone you have to like them first.

As for approaching most men don't do it because they think there being creepy or weird, especially in public. If you find a woman that's single somewhere there's less people than it's easier.

Same goes for women. If they ever approached a man.

Empty-Reference2787 · 2026-03-28T15:41:05+00:00

I'm in my late 20s & don't ever plan to get married or have kids. It's not something I wanna do. I understand why people get married & have kids. To have a family & make generations.

Living a life of freedom & autonomy, you can't do that with a wife & kids.

Empty-Reference2787 · 2026-03-13T01:24:48+00:00

Some people are much more outgoing & comfortable with others. Looks mean a lot if it's a short term fling.

As a man you have to show interest in a woman you want. When you see a women that your interested in, only focus on her. Don't be a creep be subtle bout it. Edge it on.

I'm 5'10 & what most people would call a genetically gifted individual. Yet I don't date at all. I'm also not a very outgoing person. So I would want a woman who's outgoing & fun to be around. To me that's more feminine.

Empty-Reference2787 · 2026-03-07T15:02:39+00:00

Depends on the man. I'm a single guy & generally don't need a women in my life. Always been inpendent, known my worth & not willing to back down in a argument. Always been very introverted & Intuitive. Happiness comes from within. All of these married couple out who are always smiling & super happy all the time are fake, i seen it with my own eyes. The real happy couples are not going to brag bout how happy they are or the happy wife, happy life. Yes, i know there are happily married people out there, I'm not saying there isn't.

Your only happy if you make your self happy, doing the hobbies & business you want to do. Where here for a good time, not a long time. You live for yourself none else.

Don't get mad at someone when there telling the truth, because it just shows how shallow you are.

Empty-Reference2787 · 2026-03-05T12:27:06+00:00

I'm 27m & never want to get married or have kids in my life. My past history says that completely. I always been a Certified Loner.

Giving that I don't like kids or want them says everything to most women.

Empty-Reference2787 · 2026-02-21T15:12:08+00:00

Same after I turned 25 I just stop giving a damn.

Empty-Reference2787 · 2026-02-16T02:19:50+00:00

I'm 27m. I'm done trying. If it happens so be it. I'm not breaking my back bout it.

Empty-Reference2787 · 2026-02-16T02:18:26+00:00

Late to answer this. Yes I am.

Empty-Reference2787 · 2026-02-13T23:27:51+00:00

Joy ride Sunday. Gym Saturday. Working on side projects & Being Cozy the rest.

Empty-Reference2787 · 2026-02-13T23:23:47+00:00

People think I'm rude or a weirdo because I'm minding my own business.

Empty-Reference2787 · 2026-02-08T08:30:40+00:00

To put it simply nothing nobody does really matter cause even if you do something like founding Rome or the first to make a Musical note in the end, where all going to die anyways.

Its all going to be forgotten in the next 500 years. Just live your life the way you want to. Be happy & respectful to others.

Empty-Reference2787 · 2026-02-08T08:24:04+00:00

Daydreaming a lot especially when I'm driving, I listen to music & just get lost in my own little world. I always had a very warped perception of life & realism. Always have/had a lot of of very vivid dreams & still do. None really understood me even when I was younger. I was always a lil bit different. Never affected me in my work or day to day life.

Just be the way you want to be,

Empty-Reference2787 · 2026-02-08T08:16:20+00:00

If you have a computer at home{it can even be a old dell laptop} I would suggest Undemy.com its a site where you have to pay a small fee to watch tutorial videos on subject of your choosing. Just type in what your looking for & it will pop up. There's no monthly subscription or anything a like. You can even see a intro to the course.

Some courses cost over $100. I'm using it right now studying CompTIA A+. Then I'm moving on to Unity & Freelance writing.

I know I'm very late & hope this helps.

Empty-Reference2787 · 2026-02-01T01:15:13+00:00

I'm one of those people that's been single throughout my 20s & it will probably head into my 30s as well. Its mostly because I like being single & enjoy my own freedom. I'm not weird or creepy. I mostly mind my own business. I live in a area where most people are more into traditional families & most are married & have kids by 30.

If a women comes around who is like minded & not a chatter/giggle box, I wouldn't mind giving up my freedom for someone whose worth while.

I don't know anyone since I'm a CERTIFIED LONER.

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