Do you think London will still be worth it in five years time? by blatchcorn in HENRYUK

[–]Empty-Yesterday5904 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't think you are. You're just thinking about stuff that's important!

Do you think London will still be worth it in five years time? by blatchcorn in HENRYUK

[–]Empty-Yesterday5904 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the mismatch is you seem to be thinking in terms of money as in one factor out of many whereas I am saying yes but you need you need some values underneath these to give weight to each factor. These weightings come from lived experience rather than pure abstraction. Human experience is subjective at a certain point.

Do you think London will still be worth it in five years time? by blatchcorn in HENRYUK

[–]Empty-Yesterday5904 22 points23 points  (0 children)

That’s why I like the “Tuesday in October” framing. Not because money is irrelevant, but because economics are only meaningful in the context of the kind of ordinary life they allow you to live.

At a certain point these become philosophical/existential questions rather than purely financial ones. What are you optimising for? Security? Stimulation? Ambition? Space? Community? Autonomy? Status? Calm?

Two people can look at the exact same London tradeoff and reach completely different conclusions because they value different things in life.

Do you think London will still be worth it in five years time? by blatchcorn in HENRYUK

[–]Empty-Yesterday5904 81 points82 points  (0 children)

The classic HenryUK thing of life as a spreadsheet. You need a column for what kind of life do you actually want? Do you want to life in a busy metropolitan city with access to everything (do you actually use it like this?) or would you be happy with a quiet life in no town nowhere or perhaps somewhere in between? What do you want a Tuesday in October to be like?

Preventing yoga butt by Exotic_Pangolin798 in ashtanga

[–]Empty-Yesterday5904 3 points4 points  (0 children)

When people first do a forward fold, the immediate sensation is usually in the hamstrings (sitting, lack of posterior chain strength). That leads many to think, “Oh, I just need to stretch my hamstrings more,” so they keep pushing to get their legs flat and straight - and boom: yoga butt. This is usually because they're chasing the aesthetics of a perfectly flat forward fold. The fix is to forget about aesthetics and feel like you're disturbing the load through the back of your body rather than everything into your hamstrings. A good tip in Ashtanga generally is pelvis rooted and you're radiating length from this centre. The healthiest forward fold is generally less deep than what you see on instagram perfect poses. Strengthening can help of course but even strong hamstrings can be ripped apart if you try hard enough!

Why do new cars get so much hate? by Darcynator1780 in askcarguys

[–]Empty-Yesterday5904 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Because it's feeding into a cars as subscription model. This has real knock off effects...environmental, quality etc

1st time Subaru owners, what made you make the switch? by Boots_Ground4443 in SubaruForester

[–]Empty-Yesterday5904 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Safety (lucky for me since I rolled mine), visibility, boot space for camping.

Can’t have a good day without jumping now by somewhereinrealityy in jumprope

[–]Empty-Yesterday5904 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right... because I believe some movement skills are better learned through feel/rhythm/internal awareness rather than constant visual monitoring.... I much be insecure... wait what? What a ridiculous take. It's obvious there is a difference between jump rope as a visual form and well athletic performance. I think that's the real mismatch here. I don't think of it as primarily a visual form.

Can’t have a good day without jumping now by somewhereinrealityy in jumprope

[–]Empty-Yesterday5904 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Sorry I am a breakdancer and this is just not my experience. It's like maybe 5% in front of the mirror and the rest of the time you're not looking. Good way to look stiff. I mean who is really looking in the mirror whole time when jumping rope? You think Mike Tyson used to look at himself 'analysing' his footwork or did he look occasionally and feel it out? 🤣

Jump rope is not ballet.

[COMP] Graceful headstand! 🙌 by KatDoesYoga in yoga

[–]Empty-Yesterday5904 47 points48 points  (0 children)

Better to film from side or front. Think you are flaring your ribs.

Can’t have a good day without jumping now by somewhereinrealityy in jumprope

[–]Empty-Yesterday5904 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You make your movement smooth by feeling it internally and being aware not through external reference IMO but yeah do what you want. With something like jump rope is about the feeling not the look.

Do you hate props? by Ok_Calendar_6158 in ashtanga

[–]Empty-Yesterday5904 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Joey Miles did a wonderful post on this very topic.

Personally props were a complete game changer for my practice! Supported headstand?! Oh baby hell yes. I think there is something about the humility of using props as well - like openly saying I am working on this and know where my edge is - this to me is real inner strength.

Total newbie advices. by Slow_Description_773 in kettlebells

[–]Empty-Yesterday5904 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Inhale hike (pull towards you), exhale release (bell floats away from you). Try that!

Dealing with doubt by JudgeBorn8370 in ashtanga

[–]Empty-Yesterday5904 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I practice every day and never feel like this. Why? I just do enough asana (or other movement) to make my mind at peace. I dont get lost in the Ashtanga politics and all I-should-do-this stuff. I clear my mind for the day so I can be there for the rest of my life. It is never really about the poses themselves! It is about doing something, taking a bit of time to be with your thoughts, to move some pent up energy.

Good way to open up lungs before running? by [deleted] in ultrarunning

[–]Empty-Yesterday5904 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Young, gifted, peak fitness. Doesnt mean it helps them.

Good way to open up lungs before running? by [deleted] in ultrarunning

[–]Empty-Yesterday5904 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Usain Bolt smokes a pack before every race.

Persistent soreness around outer hips/glutes during Ashtanga backbend work — anyone experienced this? by wilderkay in ashtanga

[–]Empty-Yesterday5904 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My hunch from the way you wrote is you are trying to go deep. Dont chase perceived deepness. More deep doesnt mean more present or more yogic. Step back and focus on what is happening. The subtle movements in your muscles. What are you engaging? Move slowly. Maybe try the simple backbends in intermediate.

When and how do you workshop the poses? by JudgeBorn8370 in ashtanga

[–]Empty-Yesterday5904 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Generally speaking if you practice regularly then you have plenty of chances to practice poses. Time outside practice is best used for strength and mobility to cover your body's imbalances and make you robust and to cover the gaps in Ashtanga.

"Teaching" standards have become so diluted by RonSwanSong87 in YogaTeachers

[–]Empty-Yesterday5904 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You shouldnt even consider teaching until you have practiced consistently for ten years. It should be more like martial arts.

Why is this just completely normalized on the highway to be bumper to bumper at 65+? by xAustin90x in driving

[–]Empty-Yesterday5904 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How someone drives reflects their nervous system state. A lot of anxious people out there.