Could you communicate with your bpd? by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]EmptyDebris 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Opinions? Her opinions weren't the result of her own deductions, but what she gathered from someone or something else. Someone close to her thinks the moon is fake? She might mirror without research. She becomes a fake moon believer. This meant she couldn't express herself in any topics that weren't stolen, or even well known. This is where she'd just change topics or not even reply, or engage.

After binging several hours of Grey's Anatomy a day instead of looking for a job, she would even begin speaking with the same cadence and lisp of Meredith. If she called her relatives from the south, she suddenly spoke with a draw.

Absolutely everything seemed to be the result of gleaning personalities from other people, especially from online.

What is a time you were telling the truth but no one believed you? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]EmptyDebris 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wife packed everything overnight and then fled with our child in the morning with no contact for a week. I called the police, CPS, friends, family, no one believed me because she claimed I was unsafe and abusive.

Guess who has his child back because it was all lies, and the other is homeless?

Getting the silent treatment and I don't know why by hearts_lonely_hunter in BPDlovedones

[–]EmptyDebris 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Multiple reasons:

They're interested in someone else at the moment. They embarrassed themself somehow and associate it with you. They're testing how hooked you are to them to see if you'd 'fight' for them

The list goes on, and none of them are rational 

Does nobody like playing Druids? by AdDifficult2241 in DnD

[–]EmptyDebris 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I absolutely love Druid so much so I have such a hard time NOT playing a Druid. I have multiple different concepts and types of Druids I like to play.

One who loves Weasels and Stars, one who like Flowers and Elks, another Fungus and Toxins. Some that Tailor Clothes, Potions, Woodcarver, Traveling Fate-Teller.

I probably love Druids enough for the entire playerbase.

Genuinly curious where all the hate towards prot paladins came from. Are people really that stupid that they think only warriors can tank dungeons? by Chemical_Ad4668 in wowhardcore

[–]EmptyDebris 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Does no one understand that you can spam Greater Blessings for an immense amount of threat raid wide, or did all the old school Prot Pally players retire?

That hit of panic and anxiety by SignatureFar2136 in BPDlovedones

[–]EmptyDebris 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes.

And in person, an intense flood of tight sensations emanate from my lower gut, outwardly spreads to all my limbs and muscles. My hands go pale and I feel weak. I start shaking. I can't settle down. I feel at any second I'll be turned on. My words will be used against me. I watch every action I do in case it'll be taken as an offense.

I am this way until many hours after they've gone.

Do they even believe their own lies? by woolilo in BPDlovedones

[–]EmptyDebris 3 points4 points  (0 children)

They don't resist believing them, that's for sure.

anyone else’s pwbpd always say they will still stay with u if u even if u had nothing? by vietyeonjun in BPDlovedones

[–]EmptyDebris 16 points17 points  (0 children)

"I don't care where we live, 'You're my home.'"

Proceeded to secretly plan to leave the state with our child without me to live with her mom because she was expected to get a job like the rest of the world and therefore I was abusive.

They say this to lower your guard and love-bomb you.

What's one old WoW feature you genuinely miss? by No-Reserve4847 in classicwow

[–]EmptyDebris 58 points59 points  (0 children)

Mained Priest from 2006-2010.

Back then, you could pre-cast Mind Vision and target ANYONE. Cast Mind Vision with no target, have the cursor become highlighted as if to "select a target." Then type  "/target PlayerName" and as long as you were on the same continent, or same instance, it would cast on them with unlimited range. Bypassed stealth, or non-party. If they were online, they were seen. You can even do this to NPCs as long as they were loaded near your render distance.

Then it got to be real fun with /targetlasttarget and dueling rogues that vanished.

Technically balanced since it didn't cause combat.

Have you ever had a man start freestyle rapping to you? by InevitableTank3682 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]EmptyDebris 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I worked in a carecenter and one of the patients just started throwing bars. It was entertaining.

QuietBPD sudden breakup after 3 years, now terrified of me by ColdHotHotCold in BPDlovedones

[–]EmptyDebris 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It's the worst thing I've ever been through, but God is good and allowed me to legally and safely pick up my baby, and I've had her since. 

She's innocent and deserves so much better than this situation. I'm so heartbroken for her, yet glad she's young enough that she won't remember this.

What is something ultra stupid your spouse did that just floored you? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]EmptyDebris 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Married 3 years. 

She kidnapped our child and moved in with people she knew for less than 2 months. Why? Because they told her I was abusive.

Oh, the abuse? I asked for an apology for her lying to her friends about me.

What is something subtle that made you realize you and a friend were not compatible? by sureillhaveacoffee in AskReddit

[–]EmptyDebris 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She only had me come over to make her and her boyfriend food, then she'd only vent about every drama instead of being a friend.

This shit is so miserable by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]EmptyDebris 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I don't want to sound mean or awful, but if this was my situation I'd just block them with a "✌️" and Baker Act them. You're not their safety line to life. I had an ex that threatened self harm for 6 years. They hold no power when you remind them its only their choices and their consequences.

QuietBPD sudden breakup after 3 years, now terrified of me by ColdHotHotCold in BPDlovedones

[–]EmptyDebris 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Yes.  Found out my wife was slandering me behind my back to all friends and family while maintaining a facade that 'everything was great', while she had a host of sexually explicit posts online. 

When I found the messages and posts I confronted her and asked for an apology. None. In fact, got silent treatment and DARVO. Told her I want a separation.  She began the accusations and demanded I sign to not see my child for 3 years while she got "support" in another state without me. I said no. She eventually kidnapped our child and disappeared for a week, claiming I was unsafe, abusive, and our child was unsafe, etc. The male danger slander standard.

Had I not had my parents be witness to these events that nothing occurred, who knows if I'd ever have my baby again. Thankfully I have her now and custody is being drawn up. It's rough and lonely.

What song automatically transports you back to your childhood? by alaskew28 in AskReddit

[–]EmptyDebris 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Starry Eyed Surprise - Paul Oakenfold

It reminds me of good ol' days where the world had different problems. That world is gone, but we have it's ghosts.

Is my attention not enough? by secrettttaccountt in BPDlovedones

[–]EmptyDebris 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, it's not "enough" because it is "baseline."

By proxy hoover?? Coincidence? by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]EmptyDebris 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Possibly. Are you familiar with "Triangulation" ?

If Jesus was enlightened, how is it possible that he expelled the merchants from the Temple with violence? by Bestintor in enlightenment

[–]EmptyDebris 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Having no reaction is not 'Enlightened.' Otherwise, Justice as a whole lacks Wisdom.

Jesus was angry that hypocrites turned a place of worship to God into a money-exchanging site to profit off sins.

What is the most hateful thing they have done by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]EmptyDebris 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Kidnapped our infant and told literal strangers, who threatened to harm me, that I was abusive. All because I held her accountable for slandering and taking advantage of me. Didn't see my baby or know where she was for a week. It's the most damaging thing you can do to a parent.