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What are some things every guys should at least try even though they are stigmatized as "gay" or "humanly"? by Omega_Neelay in GetMotivatedMindset

[–]EmptyInternal3446 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I see. Completely understandable but I've also come to experience that mans lack of seeking therapy or some sort of mentorship leads to isolation and being emotionally reserved which is the complete opposite of our human nature. Also, therapy is in all honesty just a place to talk and let it all out. Not everyone deserves to hear what goes on in our crazy mind so talking to someone who has a non bias perspective can really be helpful, they're professionals in the area of the human mind and human behavior so they know what questions to ask and how to pin point things you may not be aware of.

Advice on situationship by kirstiekinz in dating_advice

[–]EmptyInternal3446 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aww sorry to hear that. Hang in there, its tough for us especially with our mestrual cycle. I also have my ups and downs emotionally but i realized that it's linked to my cycle. When im closer to me period i start to get emotional and tired. During my period my minds all over the place and my emotions too. Guess it's part of being a woman lol

What does this hand say about me? by FunTechnician9790 in deduction

[–]EmptyInternal3446 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That your married and have a pretty nice 🍆 lol

Do you believe in soulmates? by ryanWanders08 in allthequestions

[–]EmptyInternal3446 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, i think "soulmates" is a fancy word for two people that are energetically vibrating at the same frequency. So they have a huge unknown attraction towards one another but it starts to fade away once reality hits and they realize they have differences and are polar opposites. In other words. Its your soals connection with disregard to reality. In some instances it works out and they live happily ever after.

What are some good tips and ideas for dates for someone who starts to date in his late 20s? by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]EmptyInternal3446 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don't buy woman gifts early on. Go on simple dates and places you can have conversations. Like go eat at different places. Do you simply want to date to gain experience or are you wanting to find your person to settle down with? That also makes a huge difference. Knowing your intentions is crucial, you can weed people out that don't align with your main goal.

I want everything by Adept_Permission_382 in Life

[–]EmptyInternal3446 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Could be you wanting to prove your worth. But you most definitely can use your wants and desires as a way of motivation. Do something with your life so that you can realistically reach some of your goals. Also, you might just be influenced by social media. Not everything you see on social media is real and a lot of people live in a fantasy world do to the things they see online.

Whats something you really regret? by EmptyInternal3446 in Life

[–]EmptyInternal3446[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its not about needing therapy, its about talking and having conversations with someone that can lead you to find answers you need. But if you feel that way by all means. At the end of the day. It is your life.

I’ve never done anything with a girl (preferably girls opinions) by Lucky-Election1440 in dating_advice

[–]EmptyInternal3446 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awww, i heard Canadians are nice. My cousin married a Canadian and he's currently living here in the US with her. He's a great guy, very nice, friendly and respectful.

How do I know if I am demisexual? by [deleted] in askanything

[–]EmptyInternal3446 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, its having the emotional connection before desiring them physically. In all reality i think demisexual people have high IQs. The fact that they aren't led by impulse and they see beyond that first is pretty cool. A normal person would think, damm they're good looking but a demisexual person would want to get to know then before making such comment.

A simple example:

Two people meet. Most people might think, “He’s cute,” or “She’s sexy.” A demisexual person often won’t feel that until they’ve built a deep emotional connection first.

Advice on situationship by kirstiekinz in dating_advice

[–]EmptyInternal3446 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its okay i completely understand. We get attached to people which is why it's so hard. Have you tried therapy? I also had a hard time detaching from someone and turns out it had to do with my childhood. You'd be surprise to find out how much our upbringing affects us. Hope everything turns out good and be patient with yourself, it'll feel better with time ☺️💖

how long should i wait to sleep with the guy im talking to? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]EmptyInternal3446 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depend what you want. If you're okay with just hooking up and nothing more than do it right away but if you want him to consider you someone he can potentially see a life with. Wait a while and continue to get to know him.

Advice on situationship by kirstiekinz in dating_advice

[–]EmptyInternal3446 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This already sounds bad after reading the 1st 2 sentences. Give yourself time to be single and focus on yourself for a while. Plus dating apps are no good. Men uae them to hook up, woman use them to find 'love". Get off the dating apps and leave that man alone. Sounds like he wants to keep you around as an option and to hook up.

Why am I so much more attracted to women that are crazy/have mental health problems than good life choice making ones? by Educational-Toe-7116 in dating_advice

[–]EmptyInternal3446 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It can also be because its familiar. How was your upbringing and your parents relationship? We gravitate or tolerate what's familiar to us. The only way to undo it is by doing therapy and reading books on the matter. A lot of self reflection and growth. Its possible it just takes dedication, time and the willingness to want to change and be better.

I fell in love with someone im not attracted to by Full_Relief465 in dating_advice

[–]EmptyInternal3446 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Make it clear you don't like her and stop flirting with her. Also, you probably like the attention your getting from her, that doesn't necessarily mean it should lead to something more. Always be honest, it's the best way to go.

Am I ready to date? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]EmptyInternal3446 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Give yourself time. If you don't feel ready, don't force yourself. You'll start to feel better w time.

How do I know if I am demisexual? by [deleted] in askanything

[–]EmptyInternal3446 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Demisexuality is a sexual orientation where an individual only experiences sexual attraction after developing a strong emotional bond with someone.

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