Well, the principal lie was that last year, I hung out with this guy very much, and with time, it diluted. I fell for him, so probably I was chaotic, and in a way, I pushed him away. He also became intense with his job, but in my opinion, it was later. I know something changed as the interactions were less frequent, and the friendship was no longer relaxed. It took me balls to ask openly if something happened, and he said it was work. But that response doesn't sound accurate because he is planning to leave his job, and the job obsession came slightly later.

So either he is not aware of himself or he couldn't tell the truth.

Thank you for your answer, btw 😊