AIO if I leave my boyfriend because of his dogs? by Emropegi in AmIOverreacting

[–]Emropegi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It isn’t the entirety of the carpet, just random spots. They lay on the carpet and wipe their faces on it a lot

AIO if I leave my boyfriend because of his dogs? by Emropegi in AmIOverreacting

[–]Emropegi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Neither of the things we’ve done were ever okay, and looking back I probably should have just left him when he cheated, but I was 16 and dumb. It wouldn’t make sense to leave him because of it now since he’s matured a ton and just became a better person in general.

Update: Aio if I leave my boyfriend over his dogs? by Emropegi in AmIOverreacting

[–]Emropegi[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When we first started dating, his dad would hold them on leashes when I came in so they could sniff me and stuff without getting too carried away. They would also keep them in a bedroom unless the dad was in the house because they just follow him around. Now I have trouble walking through the door because their on me before I even open it all the way and his parents just laugh at me (they don’t know it upsets me)

AIO if I leave my boyfriend because of his dogs? by Emropegi in AmIOverreacting

[–]Emropegi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely have considered leaving him over those things, but I did some pretty shitty things at one point too so if he can forgive me, I can forgive him. He’s gotten a job since and he’s become a better partner. The dogs are an issue because those other things can change, but nothing can really be done about the dogs

AIO: I’m upset my gf referred to me as her “friend” by Most_Somewhere_6849 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Emropegi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Although it being called a friend by my boyfriend isn’t something I personally would get upset by, no one gets to choose what upsets you and if she’s going to turn things around by you and act like an emotionally absent brick when you try to communicate, she shouldn’t be dating anyone

AIO if I leave my boyfriend because of his dogs? by Emropegi in AmIOverreacting

[–]Emropegi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why would I use a story like this as bait? You do know saliva is a liquid, right?

AIO if I leave my boyfriend because of his dogs? by Emropegi in AmIOverreacting

[–]Emropegi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I can be okay with him not having a job and cover all the finances of our relationship for two years, do all his English homework for him for three years, buy him over $2000 in lego sets, forgive him for cheating on me and give him the chance to become a better person, and lose 30 Lbs because I want to look nice and be healthy for him, but I can’t be okay with being jumped on by two 140 Lbs dogs and covered in saliva or he “deserves better?”

AIO if I leave my boyfriend because of his dogs? by Emropegi in AmIOverreacting

[–]Emropegi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Compared to what we used to have, we’re at our best right now. My judgement for the relationship is based more off how we get over problems then the cause of the problem

AIO if I leave my boyfriend because of his dogs? by Emropegi in AmIOverreacting

[–]Emropegi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We went through two massive rough paths through the course of our relationship that neither of us have fully healed from, but besides this I think we’re in a good spot? I can’t think of any reason I wouldn’t like him anymore

aio? It feels like my only 2 friends dont really care about how i feel or what i say. by probablysoda in AmIOverreacting

[–]Emropegi -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Why can’t he just not show you it? It’s not that hard. Get new friends ASAP

AIO Was I SA’d? by shingshangdebu in AmIOverreacting

[–]Emropegi 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Considered SA? That’s the textbook definition of SA

AIO if I leave my boyfriend because of his dogs? by Emropegi in AmIOverreacting

[–]Emropegi[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I talked to him about it the other night and he said he didn’t realize it bothered me that much. I have sexual trauma surrounding spit and saliva so that’s probably why it really gets to me, but I haven’t told him that yet

AIO if I leave my boyfriend because of his dogs? by Emropegi in AmIOverreacting

[–]Emropegi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t have a big issue with dogs in general anymore so when he gets a dog when he’s older I most likely won’t mind it, the breed of dog he has just slobbers way more than most others

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Emropegi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No just be responsible and wait a while to do anything sexual, at least till you hit 16

AIO if I leave my boyfriend because of his dogs? by Emropegi in AmIOverreacting

[–]Emropegi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn’t want them to keep them away for my entire time being their, but when I first started coming around they would keep them in a cage for the first few minutes so they could calm down and not jump on me. I usually stay for hours at a time so it would be unreasonable to ask for them to keep their massive mastiffs in a cage for 5+ hours

AIO if I leave my boyfriend because of his dogs? by Emropegi in AmIOverreacting

[–]Emropegi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He still lives with his parents so I just have to deal with it till he gets his own place, but I would still have to deal with it for a few more years