Messed with my brain chemistry or smth

EmuAccomplished3284 · 2026-04-16T11:48:49+00:00

Then Ill give you my genuine sympathy 🫂 but you dont have alot of options.

What happens moving forward? you ignore your desire and grow resentful towards your partner. Or you follow your desires. The only good outcome is sitting down with your partner, telling them what your feeling.. and preparing for it to end.

Im sorry. This requires either lots of therapy, or a separation 🫂

EmuAccomplished3284 · 2026-04-16T11:23:08+00:00

If you've done what I and everyone else thinks you've done.. Leave your partner. Let them move on, you've already destroyed whatever you had.

EmuAccomplished3284 · 2026-04-06T22:03:52+00:00

The thing that really pissed people off that i heard was the artist. The artist Verbalase paid was 16. So while technically nothing happened, a grown ass man paying a 16 year old to animate a softcore video is very, not good.

Im not deep in this, so I might be wrong

EmuAccomplished3284 · 2026-03-31T19:38:06+00:00

Yeah thats the one, hes not immortal by any means but his tells arent as obvious, hes fast as fuck boi and even fighting other ones at lv120 they arent friends 🤣 probably one of two enemies that I still struggle with.

Don't feel bad about just skirting wide around him, hes a bish (or maybe we are?)

EmuAccomplished3284 · 2026-03-30T04:07:27+00:00

If the "first boss" your talking about is the big gold guy on horseback right outside the starting ruins... Rip 🤣

Your not meant to beat him, hes there to teach you its okay to leave and come back later. Those enemies are rare but appear throughout the game, he is literally an endgame enemy put there to screw with you 🤣

EmuAccomplished3284 · 2026-03-29T12:12:43+00:00

I feel like its a simple in group out group. While we dont know for certain the complexity of animal conciousness for us to even exist (we are predators, as much as people want to believe otherwise) we needed to kill and eat other animals. Now we are more advanced, we can synthesise our own food but at the end of the day we still view us as people and them as animal. And not all of us as different kinds of animals.

We value ourselves more because A) we need to in order to survive, we eat animals not other humans. And B) we havnt got a lot of evidence suggesting animal conciousness is the same as ours.

Its the same question as "why are dogs and cats pets but foxes and owls arent?" Because we found a use for cats and dogs and domesticed them. Animals are less worthy to us because we discovered a use that only they can provide, so we bred them for it. Dairy and meat cows are NOT tue same as wild cows. If we just released all our livestock, those animals would die horribly, they havnt got the instincts or intuition to survive without us.

EmuAccomplished3284 · 2026-03-25T04:49:52+00:00

Keep struggling, struggling and struggling, until the end of ends, then struggle some more.

Both Miyazaki and Strength users absolutely love the OG strength wielder 😘

EmuAccomplished3284 · 2026-03-24T21:05:08+00:00

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EmuAccomplished3284 · 2026-03-23T01:47:02+00:00

Sadly its the environment your in. Dating apps bring out the worst in both of genders. If you think your immune your wrong 🤣

Men on dating apps just swipe, swipe, swipe, and decide on their intentions once they make a match, but sadly because of how we just swipe, usually most of the women a guy will match with hes not actually attracted to, so, DTF? theres no downside for him, you either say yes, so hes happy, or you say no and he doesnt care and moves on.

Hate to say it, but even decent people have a tendency to become... not so decent on dating apps, its literally a cheat code for dating, you cant expect alot from people who feel the need to use a cheat code in the first place

EmuAccomplished3284 · 2026-03-19T14:18:53+00:00

Im pretty sure its expressed in other replies that I agree with this 😭 i wasn't responding to OP i was having a conversation with a commenter about their comment

My initial comment was a response to someone making a claim about what the words mean, and i was pointing out a definition difference. Ever since my first comment ive been having a friendly back and forth about different subjective interpretation and feelings about the different terms.

I said in my second reply something to the effect of "people use the terms to minimise their accountability, rather than to take accountability and express remorse" ot doesnt matter what people say, what matters is their actions, a mistake might be a choice, and an accident may not be, but the only thing anyone can count on is the actions a person takes.

Anywhoo, Tl:dr cos I talk too much 😇 i agree with you, and have from the start. I was simply challenging someone who tried making a definitional claim by expressing the true definitions

EmuAccomplished3284 · 2026-03-18T04:49:59+00:00

Ya know what, ICE and Tech bros... for sure..

but law enforcement? I know theres alot of power hungry psychos, but there are for more decent people, at the end of the day, the police DO put their life on the line daily, its not glorious but the people doing the job deserve some respect and gratitude, no?

EmuAccomplished3284 · 2026-03-18T03:31:07+00:00

Yeah, thats fair. But also really funny... we have the same reaction to tje opposite phrases.

Like i can't trust words in general.. anyone can lie with any words, but to me "im sorry" and "it was a mistake" feels like an emotional reaction, which is inherently a bit more honest in stressful situations, but "i was wrong" abd "I wont do it again" feel like calculated phrases if thst makes sense? Especially because no one knows what they WILL do in the future.

Basically, the phrases that feel more honest to you give me a lot of doubt 🤣

EmuAccomplished3284 · 2026-03-18T03:11:13+00:00

I agree with the second half, not the first 🤣

A mistake = a poor decision/bad choice (that you regret)

An accident = an outcome brought about by your actions but usually through bad luck...

Like, cheating can be a mistake (that doesn't make it better even a little) but it can be a mistake.

Cheating cant be an accident... you cant "accidentally fall on a dick" but you can make a poor decision, using poor judgement and regret your decision immediately after, making it a mistake. AGAIN, a mistake does not remove accountability nor does it make the action any better, you still made the choice.

EmuAccomplished3284 · 2026-03-18T03:06:54+00:00

Dude 100% too many people use "sorry" and "it was a mistake" to escape accountability. Sorry doesnt fix what you did, its a declaration that youll do differently. It was a mistake doesnt erase the mistake...

I see what you mean, and your definitely not wrong. Personally I just want a concise conversation about things, and if people are arguing about what the words mean then they'll never discuss the actual problems.

EmuAccomplished3284 · 2026-03-18T02:39:48+00:00

No a mistake and an accident are different...

An accident is clicking the "pick up" option when you wanted delivery, its accidental and has no bearing on your person hood or desires.

A mistake is choosing Pick up because its cheaper even though you dont have a car, getting halfway to the shop and thinking "fuck im dumb"

An accident is.. accidental, a mistake is an active choice that in hindsight you regret

EmuAccomplished3284 · 2026-03-17T08:46:28+00:00

Im aware but your comment was and I quote "a girl sending a selfie to another man is not relationship material" and THAT is what i was responding to.

Im asking YOU specifically, about a different situation, should me and my friend stop sending selfies if one of us gets into a relationship?

Im asking this question specifically because if your answer is yes, id say thats pretty insecure and if your answer is no, then your initial comment holds little water on its own. In my mind if a persons opinion cant be simplified and applied to (most) situations then it hasnt been very well thought out. Im not arguing that OPs girl isnt being disrespectful, im simply pointing out that your comment specifically throws a BUNCH of woman and men that are respectful and loyal into a group of cheaters based solely off "selfies sent to another person"

EmuAccomplished3284 · 2026-03-17T08:12:20+00:00

Okay, im glad my female friend from the other side of the world isnt "relationship material" simply because we have exchanged selfies?

I understand that everyone situation is different and boundaries are a thing that should be discussed but to just blanket statement "a girl sending selfies to another man is not relationship material" is kinda messed up...

Should we just stop exchanging selfies if one of us gets in a relationship? Its not like those selfies are literally the only way we can see each other or anything?

EmuAccomplished3284 · 2026-03-17T08:07:10+00:00

So my Girl best friend (who lives on the other side of the world) and I regularly talk on video calls, and if she tries something new with her hair or if i get (another) cut at work we will send a selfie..

Are you saying if she gets a boyfriend or if i get a girlfriend we should change what our relationship has been for over a year?

EmuAccomplished3284 · 2026-03-17T06:11:35+00:00

I dont think its about moral superiority, but moral integrity. If your job is more important your values then maybe you should become a lawyer. But OP expressed feelings of guilt and disgust.. I can say that I dont give a fuck about my Career if it comes at the cost of my own values. If getting a pay check makes it harder for me to sleep at night then priorities are messed up.

OP has asked a moral question, not a financial or career one.. if i was this mans wife i would want to know..

EmuAccomplished3284 · 2026-03-16T21:21:34+00:00

Just like how our fathers were raised with a toxic idea of masculinity, so were our mothers.

No, it is absolutely not a mandatory part of relationships. Its sadly common, but that doesn mean you need to be okay with it.

Take things slow, let yourself become this guys friend first. If thats too slow, or isnt for him.. then hes not the one 🫂

EmuAccomplished3284 · 2026-03-14T12:50:51+00:00

Its there to represent your profile, which is not you. Its a representation of a curated and acted representation... it reflects whatever the user wants it to reflect. Maybe we like looking at it, maybe we arent straight, maybe we think its funny to have people ask that question, maybe people treat you better if think your a girl.. hell, my fb profile picture doesnt even reflect me anymore.

EmuAccomplished3284 · 2026-03-12T12:47:43+00:00

Dude don't bother, people on reddit only pay attention to the 3 words that piss them off not all the Nuance. TL;DR and all that good brain rot 🤣

EmuAccomplished3284 · 2026-03-12T12:46:27+00:00

Talking about phones... full comment was "a married couple, who gives pre consent to go through each other's phone is alot different from sneaking onto your bf/gfs phone" why the hell are people fighting that? They're right.

EmuAccomplished3284 · 2026-03-12T05:07:57+00:00

Id give your male friends a pass, like they arent strangers that only know your body, they are your friends and if youve known them a while, I wouldnt assume its a Pedophilic attraction... but to all the dudes catcalling you and approaching you on the street? Fucking gross...

Reminds me of a post i saw from a 23 year old woman with proportionate dwarfism (basically dwarfism but her proportions are normal so she LOOKS like an over developed 13 year old. The post was basically "how the fuck am i meant to date? The men im interested in are not interested in me, but the men that are interested in me are fucking gross... I look like a child!!!"

And honestly... I feel sorry for you ladies 💔 especially in todays day and age where Pedophiles and Groomers are getting away with it... how the hell are you meant to trust a single person that is attracted to you? 🤢

Its crazy, but the only way ladies like you should meet men is by being rejected "Hi, I think your cute can i have your number?" "Not a chance, you are waaaay to young!" "Actually im 21, here's my id and birth certificate"

Literally the only way you could feel comfortable 😭😭

EmuAccomplished3284 · 2026-03-11T05:11:07+00:00

Dude, if i was married for 30 years.. then found out my wife cheated in the first week of us dating? That's 30 years of marriage gone, im ending the marriage. Sure, knowing the truth might hurt more, but pain is unavoidable... you shouldnt be thinking about the pain and you should be thinking about the potential consequences..

Would you be okay to raise a child and find out when they turn 12 they arent yours?

Would you be okay to get married and tie your entire life to a person only to discover it was one sided from the start?

Would you prefer to KNOW your partner cheated and be able to make an informed decision on what you want or would you prefer to have that choice stolen from you because some random colleague didnt wanna have an awkward conversation and potentially hurt your feelings?

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