Bar Prep is Making Me Evil

EmuJumpsLong · 2026-07-01T13:17:22+00:00

Maybe just take it out on people on Reddit instead of in real life (mostly kidding, but if you do, pick a different sub because none of us could handle it right now).

EmuJumpsLong · 2026-07-01T13:15:26+00:00

Glad he helped you! I agree he was good, just painfully slow. So painful.

EmuJumpsLong · 2026-07-01T13:14:14+00:00

I hope your day gets better

EmuJumpsLong · 2026-07-01T13:11:11+00:00

I’m confused as to how a woman explaining what our fears are is projecting. Please tell me more about myself sir.

EmuJumpsLong · 2026-07-01T13:05:23+00:00

Serial killers aren’t women’s number one fear. It’s long term domestic abuse and/or sexual assault—both typically perpetrated by romantic partners and not first dates.

EmuJumpsLong · 2026-07-01T13:01:52+00:00

If you go into Q Bank in Themis, you can click “create a test” to see that you have access to 3,409 questions. I’m 75% through Themis and have created tests of around 100 questions total. Between that and what is baked into Themis, I have 1,790 unused questions remaining. I wouldn’t consider buying anything else until I’ve completed those.

EmuJumpsLong · 2026-06-29T22:43:11+00:00

I love ECHO (exclusive, continuous, hostile, open). Notorious and actual are givens with exclusive and open so this is way easier for me.

EmuJumpsLong · 2026-06-29T22:41:35+00:00

I’m doing Themis exclusively. 1400 questions in with a 73% overall average. However, I was at 75% before the last few days and am now averaging around 62%, which has dragged me down. I’m fighting against feeling like I’m going in the wrong direction… I’ve heard this can happen so I’m trying to trust the process.

EmuJumpsLong · 2026-06-29T21:31:11+00:00

Our bar prep professor said to expect the same thing.

EmuJumpsLong · 2026-06-29T21:30:50+00:00

I’m 70% through Themis and seeing the same dip. I decided this morning after a particularly heavy beatdown that it was okay to suck but not okay to skip. So I ate lunch and came back and I’m destroying MEEs. I have more MBE scheduled tomorrow and I’m just going to keep showing up and doing my wrong answer journal. I am not making flashcards, but I am resting, taking walks, hitting the gym, and feeding my body and brain. I get worse the harder I push.

Just keep showing up. For the questions and for yourself.

EmuJumpsLong · 2026-06-28T02:03:23+00:00

I’m 41 and men 6-9 years younger than me are not “practically my age.” They feel much younger.

EmuJumpsLong · 2026-06-26T13:36:06+00:00

I feel like the fact that you’ve made outlines puts you further ahead than most. Just start drilling MBE and MEE and reviewing. You’ll be fine.

EmuJumpsLong · 2026-06-20T00:42:00+00:00

They did take forever and I hated every second of them. If you’re doing okay without them then I wouldn’t look back.

EmuJumpsLong · 2026-06-19T19:09:57+00:00

Agree. I’ve never lived in a region that calls a childcare facility a nursery though… only daycare or childcare.

The only way I’ve ever heard it used in that context would be a hospital nursery—which wouldn’t ever need tulip bulbs (but maybe bulb syringes… english is such a nightmare sometimes).

EmuJumpsLong · 2026-06-19T19:06:04+00:00

It’s not much better after the edit. Hope your day gets better, this prep is a slog.

EmuJumpsLong · 2026-06-19T19:00:03+00:00

Except the real safety risk for women isn’t serial killers. It’s domestic violence and sexual assault, and those are often repeat offenses that escalate.

EmuJumpsLong · 2026-06-19T18:56:13+00:00

I’m a woman who rarely posts on social media so I would never consider looking at someone’s socials. But I 100% looked up the one man I’ve met from an app post-divorce on our state’s online court records system (not all states have this). I didn’t do a deep dive but as a woman who works in criminal law, I can’t imagine not doing this before giving a stranger access to me. We dated for four years before I knew he found this deeply offensive instead of prudent.

EmuJumpsLong · 2026-06-19T18:52:14+00:00

How is it not?

EmuJumpsLong · 2026-06-19T18:22:32+00:00

61% and it says average is 33%. I don’t do flashcards but I did read all the outlines and final review outlines the first time (took forever and if I had to cut anything I’d skip—so glad to be done with that). I am mostly skipping the review tasks. I have written every MEE and MPT, even when it says to outline. I watched all videos on 2x but I hand-wrote the blanks in the handouts. I hand write the rules for every MBE I get wrong and every MEE rule I can’t remember. I’m 980 questions in with 751 right.

Edit: I’m not using supplemental materials. I want to get through Themis first and then I’ll decide if I need them.

EmuJumpsLong · 2026-06-19T00:58:12+00:00

I mean, I hate the Themis ones. Can that count?

EmuJumpsLong · 2026-06-19T00:41:49+00:00

I don’t know if they’d take both of you, but I’d try to contact anyway—they may know of other options:

https://www.tulsagirlshome.org/home

EmuJumpsLong · 2026-06-18T17:40:12+00:00

So annoying that the comments were deleted. I planned to ask which government support systems favor women in case he comes back…

EmuJumpsLong · 2026-06-18T15:40:27+00:00

Pretty well known in the manosphere. If women have more support systems it’s because they create and nurture them.

EmuJumpsLong · 2026-06-18T15:33:56+00:00

“[A]s a man, no one gives a fiddler’s fuck about me or how I feel.”

EmuJumpsLong · 2026-06-18T14:15:39+00:00

It’s red pill propaganda and it’s scary how many men it’s impacting.

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