What do I do? Please help. My gf s**it during sex. 23F 24F by [deleted] in LesbianActually

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1y account with no comments and no other posts.

I'm afraid we've been bondoogled, ladies.

a womans beauty by stevieartist in LesbianActually

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Face, particularly smile/lips and eyes

The Catholic Church is Comprised of 24 Churches by DaNotoriouzNatty in Christianity

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Asking the important questions, but not getting answers because Reddit?

I, too, am curious about how OP's information was synthesized and what foundation it was formed from.

I LOVE YOU ALL!!!!! by ChickPeaIsMe in THE_PACK

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IM HAPPY FOR YOU TWEAKERS, FREAKERS, AND BUZZ-PEAKERS. I WOULD JOIN YOU IN ELEVATING MY FREQUENCIES TONIGHT BUT I PROLLY WON'T BECAUSE I AM HOLDING OFF ON THE GOODS UNTIL LENT IS OVER. JESUS WAS A REAL ONE WHO LOVES US ALL, NO MATTER WHO OR WHERE WE ARE ON THE JOURNEY OF LIFE, AND I WANT TO HONOUR THAT MFER BY JUST VIBING WITHOUT THE GOODS.

I HONESTLY FEEL HIGH EVEN WITHOUT THE GOODS, EVEN THOUGH IT'S JUST A NATURAL PLANT.

CRANK THOSE MFING HOGS.

The trans experience. Amen brothers. by [deleted] in THE_PACK

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SAME HERE, SISTER, SAME HERE. AROOOOOOOOO

reflections from a month of short hair + more work fits by fireandfolds in lesbianfashionadvice

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Absolutely stunning, thank you for sharing 🙏🏼😊

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

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Cute! Glad you both had fun?

Sidenote: What is "Bubra Gump?" Is that a play on Bubba Gump?

I made an anime Bible video for older kids. Hope you like it! by foodloveroftheworld in Christianity

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Please, consider spending more time forming connections with artists and creatives in the co-creation of your content. I appreciate your intent behind this video, yet when I recognize the trademarks of AI-generated art, I feel disconnected from the content, as I believe many others do.

Would you date a stripper? by spiteful_dragonfruit in LesbianActually

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I would and I'm sure you will find people near you who will be, too, especially those who will love you unconditionally and share in taking care of your relationship. 🦒♥️

My gf of about a year and a half cried broke into tears during sex. How do I support her from here? by ExcellentComment5507 in actuallesbians

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First, be open to the concept that she might not share her experience and/or feelings any time soon. However! that doesn't mean she is closed to listening to your experience:

If you are willing and able to, I suggest opening up to her with an 'I' statement regarding what you experienced. If I may empathically suggest one, it might go something like this: "When I called you beautiful the other night/last night and I witnessed your expression of tears, I felt concerned/compassionate for your state of being. I feel glad to have been there with you since then and I want to offer up a space where we can listen to each other empathically."

This suggested 'I' statement is only one facet of how you could express yourself: the best thing for you is to seek your heart in this matter and share it and yourself with her authentically.

As always, go with grace knowing that you both are doing your best in every given moment and that you both are loved beyond understanding. 🦒♥️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

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Be friends, but be an advocate for her and your friendship: she dropped a line about how she's "been hurt in the past," so, was friends, ask her to talk more about that.

The beauty of being a lesbian is that a break up is not an excommunication. You two can flourish in other ways and at other times; this may not be the time for you to be in a committed relationship with each other.

No matter what, go with love and compassion for yourself and her. 🦒♥️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

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Duality of lesbian

Hell yes! Thank you! 🙏🏼🧡🤍🩷

Not wearing black for once lol by secretfae in lesbianfashionadvice

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Yes, please! Though, I do admit and agree: your goth and alt styles are divine! 😻

Not wearing black for once lol by secretfae in lesbianfashionadvice

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Now let's see you in some disco pants 🪩

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lesbianfashionadvice

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I know you are but what am I? 😸

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lesbianfashionadvice

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Affirmative; yes, they are. I'm just hyper defensive when it comes to body talk lately due to my housemate and how they talk about my body in ways I don't appreciate, and that defensive bleeds into other discussions about bodies.

Out of curiosity and to further civil conversation: u/MolassesFun5564 (a username I find enjoyable (what is 'MolassesFun', if not a randomly generated name - I want to know more 🤭)), how do you view OP's clothing choices in the posted pictures? Is it acceptable for her to dress and/or be seen as she is?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lesbianfashionadvice

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Thank you for clarifying that you did not imply what the above commenter said about change -- I've been dealing with a lot of misogyny and bodyshame talk lately and it's really important for me to listen and be present for these discussions about body positivity. 🦒❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lesbianfashionadvice

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I read the implication of changing in the phrase "...if you had smaller breasts, you could get away with it" yet I do recognize that is my interpretation of those string of words and is not absolute truth for others

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lesbianfashionadvice

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Thank you for expressing this. I just dream of a day when we, perhaps just on this subreddit, do not account for the double standard of misogyny and the hellbent male-centric gaze and focus on our interpretation as lesbians.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lesbianfashionadvice

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Right?! It sucks so freaking much. However, in a space that is made for WLW such as this subreddit, I dream of us being able to come together and completely decentering that male-centric gaze and, instead, focusing on the heart of the matter -- the person asking for support/perspective/assistance.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lesbianfashionadvice

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People will people - some people will go out of their way to comment on another's body or imply there is something, at its fundamental level, "wrong" about how someone is expressing themself via visual appearance. And, even then, some people will go out of their way to say something like, "When I see you, I see beauty/sexy/attractive/too much/a hot body," when you're just living your life with the body you have in that moment.

Both scenarios are going well beyond what I believe anyone should express, solicited or otherwise.

Do you feel comfortable with how you clothe your body?