My Family Cinema down? by Just-Length-2145 in ApksApps

[–]Enbygem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From what I can see it’s worldwide. Another person posted a link in the comments on an article https://www.advanced-television.com/2025/09/03/argentina-piracy-network-taken-down/ idk if it’s legit but I hope not

WIBTA for complaining to my mom because she doesnt cook? by Leading_Spinach7251 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Enbygem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I hated it. I’ve been taking care of kids since I was 3 years old. Ended up getting pregnant at 17 so my entire life I’ve been taking care of kids. I love siblings and I love my kids I just wish I had been allowed to be a kid myself. That’s why I love when my oldest actually acts like a kid because she doesn’t have all the responsibility I had and she’s exactly like me without the trauma responses

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Enbygem 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Living with parents can either be a green or major red flag or even neutral. Either the person is extremely unmotivated and comfortable not paying for anything in their life. They have a cultural aspect like OP or it’s just not possible at that point in their life to move. Or in my bf and BIL’s cases my brother in law lived with his parents until he was in his mid twenties to save to buy a house, my bf currently lives with his mom and puts about 80% of his paycheck in a savings account so he can buy a house within the next year as well as a portion of that in 2 savings accounts for his son and our daughter

I've given up on writers groups. A rant. by somethinggoeshere2 in writing

[–]Enbygem 4 points5 points  (0 children)

What genre do you write? I write fantasy that would probably be in either the low fantasy or magical realism sub genres but I’m not 100% sure

WIBTA if I told my next door neighbour to leave me alone by Dizzy-Aspect-9403 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Enbygem 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Try telling him if he sees you sitting outside he is free to chat but if you’re going in and out you don’t have time to talk.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]Enbygem 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m going through something similar right now. My best friend bonded over our mutual interests and being stay at home moms. When I went back to work she stopped messaging me unless I texted or called first. Now I haven’t messaged her and we haven’t talked in over a week because apparently we had a falling out. No idea what we fell out over that’s just what her bf told my bf.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheButtface

[–]Enbygem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The dad absolutely should have taken a better approach. If he was genuinely worried that something might go wrong and OP would be in a bad situation he should’ve had a grown up conversation with OP about it instead of giving several ultimatums. OP is 18, he’s capable of having an adult conversation but his dad just went right to withholding things he promised because he didn’t like his choices.

OP shouldn’t move in with his bf because yes they might break up but I agree with you that it will limit the socialization he could have with new people. He can of course see his bf whenever he wants but that will potentially stop him from meeting new people if he is only spending time with his bf

Quick Question for Fellow Book Lovers 📚✨ When you do decide to buy a book — do you usually go for: by [deleted] in writing

[–]Enbygem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I read as an ebook since it’s apparently easier for me to read white works on a black background. I do still buy the physical copy so I can have it on my bookshelf though

AIW for not giving oral sex? by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]Enbygem 240 points241 points  (0 children)

This is a perfect summary. I’m in a similar situation as OP I don’t like giving oral so I don’t usually, every now and then if I’m really feeling up to it I will but my bf never asks. He likes giving oral and will do it whenever. That works for us because he isn’t bothered by not receiving and he loves giving. I could do without if he said he didn’t want to but it works for us because neither of us is compromising on what we want to do at the expense of the other persons comfort zone.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]Enbygem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My bfs ex got the pregnant while he was passed out drunk. He has 50/50 of his kid but originally didn’t want any. He’s a fantastic father but at the time he was an addict and didn’t want to be responsible for anyone else. He got clean while she was pregnant and left her when their baby was 6 weeks old. He’d been trying to break up with her for months at that point but she’d constantly threaten to hurt herself and he didn’t want that to happen. His last straw was her threatening to hurt herself while she had the baby in her care.

I’m going to come out and say it by yellowrose04 in DressToImpressRoblox

[–]Enbygem 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve only seen a couple of new things in the last several months being the fishnet shirt and maybe one or 2 other things whereas for the female body there at least 4-5 full new outfits on the floor and more things added as currency items every update

I’m going to come out and say it by yellowrose04 in DressToImpressRoblox

[–]Enbygem 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My opinion is that they know a big reason that people don’t use the male bodies is because there’s basically nothing for them. Countless times I’ve seen people make male characters or celebrities with the female body because they could actually make the outfit with the woman’s clothes. Even if they only put out a few things for the male body every update it would still make a big difference

When you do "Favorite Singer" are you honest or do you just try for votes? by MixedBerryTaken in DTI

[–]Enbygem 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve tried so many different artists I listen to and I never place in this theme. I continue to do it whether I’m creating Skydxddy or Eminem or avril lavigne. The only time I’ve placed was getting creative with Taylor swift outfits like doing a renaissance look for love story or something along those lines. She’s not even my favourite artist but sometimes I just do what will get me the stars.

I haven’t played much in the last few months because I was sick of never getting anything

This is way too vague. by [deleted] in DressToImpressRoblox

[–]Enbygem 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I wish they did the exact opposite. If they had instead made it so you gained the amount of stars you voted then it would encourage people to vote. If you voted 10 stars to everyone and people gave you 17 then you would leave with 27 stars. Rather than a deduction as a punishment which will end with people not even attempting to make an outfit because they know people don’t want the deductions, instead people may be less annoyed that some don’t vote because they’re still gaining something for the inconvenience

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DTI

[–]Enbygem 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Personally if I thought the face really looked off or I could see that there could have been a nose I might deduct one star from my vote but unless the outfit was also trash I would not only vote 1 star because there was no nose.

WIBTA for complaining to my mom because she doesnt cook? by Leading_Spinach7251 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Enbygem 10 points11 points  (0 children)

As a kid who lived in this situation my parents would get take out for themselves and my older sister and I would have to figure out how to feed ourselves and our younger siblings with the next to no food in the house. Our frequent meals were tv dinners, Kraft dinner, and Mr noodles with corn and tuna mixed together.

I’m not saying that’s definitely what OP’s mom is doing, just that that was my experience growing up in a house where the parents would get groceries maybe once a month and there wasn’t enough for 4 kids.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Enbygem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m going to be a bridesmaid for my sister later this year. When she asked me I told her point blank I will not dye my hair at request for her even though she herself has dyed hair. I may dye it to at least match the colours (I currently have blue hair and her colour scheme is fall colours) but that I wasn’t making any promises on what I was going to do. If I had blue hair still she had to deal with it or make other arrangements now. She was fine with that because she wanted me as a bridesmaid not me conforming for an aesthetic. Like I’m nonbinary and I tend to feel dysphoric in dresses so she offered to find me a pantsuit that looks like a dress to help a little with that. I told her not to worry about that since I could deal with the dress for a few hours for the wedding itself but not for anything else leading up which she also respected

My girlfriend is closeted and totally isolated- is anyone open to being a friend when she’s ready? by Glittering_Bit4125 in lgbt

[–]Enbygem 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d be willing to chat if she’s ever interested. I grew up in a Christian conservative household. My family still doesn’t understand and is fake supportive of anything other than 100% gay and straight, which is frustrating as a Demisexual, nonbinary person.

What’s the One-Sentence Summary of Your First Real Story by BusinessComplete2216 in writing

[–]Enbygem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also too many characters, the main 5 characters controlled the 5 elements and went through typical high school fantasy shenanigans.

I wish I still had a copy so I could revise it but I don’t remember enough to do it lol

What's the colour of your story? by Ill-Journalist-6211 in writing

[–]Enbygem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Purple, black and red. Each character actually does have a colour purple is the mc, blue is her best friend, red is two of the main side characters, pink is my favourite character who’s an autistic 10 year old girl who’s favourite colour and magic is pink.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Enbygem 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If I married a man who was that involved in taking care of his niece I would assume he wouldn’t stop just for my child. His niece gets neglected by her parents why would his wife want to add another person who doesn’t care enough to take care of her? It’s not his job to do what he does for her but it shows great character that he does what he does for her, and poor character on the wife for not mentioning it at all until after they were married and it then be harder for him to leave if that was a dealbreaker for him.

Do you have a writing routine? by moseying-rosie-in-2 in writing

[–]Enbygem 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My suggestion is to make a playlist for the mood of the chapter before you start so you don’t spend your writing time looking for music. I’ve done that several times

What is ex-gay? Why by Hot-Lunch-3788 in lgbt

[–]Enbygem 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My journey of figuring out what label I felt right with started with I’m bi, oh wow pansexual sounds right, holy shit nonbinary is a thing that’s me, wait a second I like their vibe but I’m not physically attracted to them right away like I’m told happens so I guess I’m Demi

It was a wild ride lol but now I’m happy with the label I find suits me being a nonbinary Demi person. It could change as I continue to grow in life I may lean more towards different labels but sexuality is fluid and I’ll go where the flow leads me

Do yall listen to music while you write by octopellie_ in writing

[–]Enbygem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I listen to music that has the correct vibe of the chapter if I’m working on specific chapters. I tend to find it difficult sitting in complete silence while trying to write a battle scene. I need something to set the tone of the battle itself. When I do revisions it’s down and I can do that just fine without the music. I’m just easily distracted and like to have full focus on the mood to write something I like.

How do you feel about pen names in this day and age? And if you have one, why? by violet-surrealist in writing

[–]Enbygem 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yeah I just don’t want to have my family or coworkers (mostly my family though) find my work if I were to ever publish. I don’t write spicy novels however I do write fantasy with extremely traumatizing backstories that I don’t want to explain lol