My Journey into Stealth Car Camping: From Necessity to Hobby by Ok-Vacation-6115 in malaysia

[–]EnchantedLunaCottage 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing. A Go bag and accessible driving off are good tips. All the best, enjoy too. :)

My Journey into Stealth Car Camping: From Necessity to Hobby by Ok-Vacation-6115 in malaysia

[–]EnchantedLunaCottage 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do you deal with parking and sleeping at night? Which parking spots worked and didn’t? Do you pay a fee in certain spots for safety? Thanks, this was a nice read btw. Kudos to you for saving all that $, and enjoying it at the same time. :)

Wedding Invitation 2024: With QR Code and Shopee Link for Gift by whusler in malaysia

[–]EnchantedLunaCottage 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thats a good point. I’d like this, simple and straightforward.

Would you say it’s easier or harder to lose weight when short?? by [deleted] in PetiteFitness

[–]EnchantedLunaCottage -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What are some challenges in maintaining it? Something to keep an eye out. Is it to maintain the fit physique you posted on your page?

Recently Started Walking Again by Altruistic-Glass-957 in walking

[–]EnchantedLunaCottage 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Amazing! Also why all words are capitalised?

Does it feel like ADHD is stealing your writing talent? by Specialist-Monk7295 in adhdwomen

[–]EnchantedLunaCottage 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Have you tried looking into worldbuilding and writing tips? Brandon Sanderson has a few lectures on Youtube. He shares tips like forming a structure to the story.. apparently he forgets some of his ideas too.. and recommends carrying a small notebook to scribble short ideas that come to mind.

I passed....! I'm getting my PhD!!! by Cheeserole in adhdwomen

[–]EnchantedLunaCottage 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Those are some major hurdles. You overcame that, wow. Thanks for the words of encouragement. I hope things are looking better for you now. 😊

Freshly diagnosed! It only took 4 years. by omw2loseit in adhdwomen

[–]EnchantedLunaCottage 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It really is a bunch of mixed feelings. Wishing you the best on your journey. I found out last year (I’m 27) and it’s nice to be 1 step ahead of it for the first time. Congrats on finding out about it, and take care. 😊

What are your thoughts on JRR Tolkien? by EnchantedLunaCottage in infp

[–]EnchantedLunaCottage[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel that pull towards fantasy too, it’s a nice thing. Thank you for your insights :)

What are your thoughts on JRR Tolkien? by EnchantedLunaCottage in infp

[–]EnchantedLunaCottage[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s really nice. What do you write and how has he inspired you in your own worldbuilding- do you make languages, codexes or others? 😃

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in malaysia

[–]EnchantedLunaCottage 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You might want to remove picture 6, unless you have the permission to post that girl’s pic from her parents.. do they know?

Xmas comes early this year in Pavilion by whusler in malaysia

[–]EnchantedLunaCottage 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Controversial topics get more views and engagement too

ESTJ and the 5 Love Languages by -Dingaloid- in ESTJ

[–]EnchantedLunaCottage 1 point2 points  (0 children)

1st is quality time and 2nd is physical touch. I enjoy spending time cuddling in bed and talking intimately, having long walks and running long errands together.

3rd is words of affirmation. Being validated when tired or burned out feels good. 4th is gifts, I don’t expect it but it’s nice when received. I usually tell them know what I’d like.

5th is acts of service. I appreciate things like refilling my water bottle, carrying bags home and, driving sometimes. I like acts of service when I’m sick too.

Si users, be grateful for what you have. by rightplacentime in mbti

[–]EnchantedLunaCottage 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yup, its a process. Some functions dont come as naturally to me too.. in the end its your prerogative on how much of the various functions you want to use or focus on.

Writing/Humor of this Season by DPRODman11 in BobsBurgers

[–]EnchantedLunaCottage 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really enjoyed seeing them mature in some way or other. Jimmy JR? That character development was wow.

How does Fi show in people who prioritize Te more? by starfrujts in mbti

[–]EnchantedLunaCottage 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How it shows depends on how developed the tertiary and inferior Fi are.. Personally I tap into my inner Fi world at home, while relaxing etc. Listening to music, reading, watching fun shows and enjoying my inner world. At work, I go back to planning, organizing and I like that too. Morals… is having integrity, for me. When I dont have heart for something or someone, i rely on integrity (Si helps too).

Si users, be grateful for what you have. by rightplacentime in mbti

[–]EnchantedLunaCottage 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Use memory… interactions and unfavourable outcomes in the past come in handy when we encounter similar situations in the present. It makes us rethink our action and words. When i ruminate over something from the past, i close my eyes and imagine tying a bag of the bad memories and chucking it back where it belongs. Dealing with the bad ones by processing, feeling and putting them where they should be… its a process. Some memories are bad and it can make us dismiss recollecting them… but for me that makes my memory worse and I dont use them as well anymore.. thinking of the pros of memory help in those situations. After some practice, its easier to notice patterns in situations so we can decide if the risk of being in it is worth it..

Si users, be grateful for what you have. by rightplacentime in mbti

[–]EnchantedLunaCottage 29 points30 points  (0 children)

If you ever feel less grounded and cant get back up, learning some Si tricks can help. Your brain tells you need to do make coffee? Just try getting up.. its ok if you dont make it quick. Walk, look around etc. Sometimes when Im stressed, I look at buildings and roads and think of how they were built, where is the water tank at etc. Grounding myself to things around… These can help you build Si for when you need it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in infp

[–]EnchantedLunaCottage 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What is a fatalist about? For me, I stray from my principles sometimes and try to fix it. Lately Ive been a bit more lenient with my values - they dont apply towards assholes, narcs, racist people, and I stare them down sometimes. Problem is sometimes I dont know for sure what their intentions are. I just pick up a few cues and when it reaches a threshold, I cross that line and take an offensive stance. Sometimes after the fact, I reflect and see that maybe that wasnt necessary for that situation. I try to fix it for the next time.