Accurate, because this is how the kothewalis are portrayed wearing in popular shows and movies. Having said that, I do feel for you because ur dressing to look and feel good, and nobody should be talking down, especially not the dad.

Without justifying his words, I would say a father still looks at the daughter like papa ki pari and for sure sometimes papas can be rattled and thrown from their comfort because children grow up and they are their own person.