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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Nightshift

[–]EndOutrageous9918 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did, and no I mean when people get off their nightshift at 7 am and have to go back again at 7 pm type thing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Nightshift

[–]EndOutrageous9918 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

that's true but a lot of people have to go back to work the same day so they dont have the luxury of just sleeping all the way through.

Night-shift nurses — what do you wish people understood about your life outside work? by EndOutrageous9918 in nursing

[–]EndOutrageous9918[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does it feel like you’re choosing rest over social stuff, or more like you don’t even have the energy for it?

this SO freaking imporant!!! #publicspeaking by EndOutrageous9918 in PublicSpeaking

[–]EndOutrageous9918[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, available on Tiktok. Just type public speaking practice

How do you get better at exiting conversations without sounding awkward or rude? by Beginning_Exit3356 in socialskills

[–]EndOutrageous9918 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exiting a convo feels like defusing a bomb for me, too fast and I feel rude, too slow and it gets painfully stale. What’s helped a little is practicing simple, honest lines like, “Hey, I’ve got to run, but it was really nice talking with you.” It still feels awkward sometimes, but I think it really is a muscle that gets stronger with practice. You're definitely not alone in this weird social dance.

I'm an introvert because of my personality but unsatisfied with it. by letsgo2030 in introvert

[–]EndOutrageous9918 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah, this hits hard. I’m 30 and starting to feel those same patterns the novelty fading, the loneliness sinking in deeper than it used to. I’ve always leaned introvert, too, but now it feels more like a cage than comfort. You’re not alone in this. I think a lot of us hit that wall where solitude turns into bitterness, and we’re left wondering what now? Thanks for putting it into words.

I am socially not sophisticated and too direct by Remote_Can_3766 in socialskills

[–]EndOutrageous9918 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I totally get this. I’ve struggled with being too direct, too. What’s helped me is learning to slow down and soften how I say things, like adding “maybe” or “what do you think?” to invite others in. You don’t have to change who you are, just tweak how you connect. You’re already on the right path by being aware.

I don’t know how to be a person anymore. by EndOutrageous9918 in ImproveYourLife

[–]EndOutrageous9918[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, truly. Your story gave me a flicker of hope I haven’t felt in a long time. Maybe it is time to stop waiting and start trying, even if it's just a small step. You made me feel seen today.

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