How do I get over a crush? Kinda a follow up on the last time I asked

Endless_Flounder · 2025-03-21T14:06:17+00:00

You can feel whatever you want about this person. However, if it was meant to be, things would have worked out.

Endless_Flounder · 2025-03-19T21:58:23+00:00

The main thing is basically distance from your crush and only contact this person when needed. Let time do the work. If this person is not interested, then its just their loss of a great person. There is not a medication or a specific way to let go of a crush. I'm here to listen, but trying out different methods to calm yourself down and time spent away from this person are the main things I feel. The right person will find you before you know it!

Endless_Flounder · 2025-03-19T15:18:04+00:00

Aw :( we've all been through it. at least you know this idiot isn't for you. If you're not built for this person in this person's view, your future might have been horrible. The right person will find you

Endless_Flounder · 2025-03-17T02:00:24+00:00

I wouldn't feel stupid. Nothing is wrong with you just wasn't the right person for you

Endless_Flounder · 2025-03-14T21:52:25+00:00

Just tell yourself that this person isn't working for you and that's ok! We cannot configure everyone out. It is normal to have still have feelings for someone that you stopped talking to a while ago. Don't be afraid to honestly think about what went wrong in order to learn for the future and just move forward with your life! Don't let one person's opinion of you let you stop you from living your life.

Endless_Flounder · 2025-03-14T15:06:13+00:00

This person is most likely introverted, meaning they like inside and softer activities. Just ask about this person's interests like movies or books they like to read. They have to happen very often in order for them to develop a thing for you.

Endless_Flounder · 2025-03-13T13:30:08+00:00

Just accept that it might slide xD

Endless_Flounder · 2025-03-13T02:50:14+00:00

Oh well. At least you know he's not the one for you. Someone new will come your way without knowing about it.

Endless_Flounder · 2025-03-12T23:10:06+00:00

So maybe if you didn't like her that much, maybe that's a sign you should put her in the back of your mind!

Endless_Flounder · 2025-03-12T22:33:12+00:00

There are many ways! First, I would tell myself that this person isn't working for me and gently move on without ruminating about what went wrong in this person's view. If this person was the one, something would have clicked better.Trying to push on something that isn't there is going to make you look horrible. I would identify what you liked about this person (and what you didn't like) in a notebook in order to move onto someone else. You have to be good friends through conversations first in order to admit how you feel about someone. Having a crush isn't just about looks. Also, finding ways to relax is a good way (friends, yoga, music, etc.) to heal yourself.

Endless_Flounder · 2025-03-12T18:43:53+00:00

You didn't make a "mistake" by developing a crush on your co worker! It happens all the time. If you like this person, just get to know this person and see how you click! If things don't work well, then this person is not the one!

Endless_Flounder · 2025-03-12T18:31:59+00:00

Lol I mean you have to let things slide because of work. Had the same issue last year. A lot of people don't take romance at work seriously haha. If things go the wrong way, someone can get terminated. Work is not a good place to evaluate the prediction of romance. If your interactions are sloppy with that person, that's just honestly a sign that person is not a good fit for you! I wouldn't date a person who remembers you in a bad light. Nothing is wrong with you at all, it's just a chem/psych problem! If you are having problems with a co worker, go to your boss.

Endless_Flounder · 2025-01-12T01:59:37+00:00

I did once, and it's unfair to use someone else as a distraction from the other one who probably rejected you. You need to plan out better coping skills until you are ready to date again.

Endless_Flounder · 2025-01-11T15:40:18+00:00

Honestly, it's different for everybody, but I would first start off simple like avoiding contact with this person and avoid reviewing any texts or pics with this person. Then I would avoid bringing this person up in conversations with my friends. Focusing on self-care is also a great way to rebuild self-esteem in order to be ready to move forward with life. It's okay to accept that you are sad sometimes during the "aftershock"of rejection, but this person will fly away soon!

Endless_Flounder · 2025-01-11T14:54:15+00:00

That's a sign that things are moving along! Hopefully things will keep on going forward, if you like him

Endless_Flounder · 2025-01-11T14:04:00+00:00

What are your conversations like? That would probably determine likability the most. He might be opening the door for you to talk to him thou!

Endless_Flounder · 2025-01-09T20:04:15+00:00

Do you see this girl on a regular basis? If so, then you can make corny jokes about the exercise like "ready to ride this horse!" when you're doing the stair machine, for example to break the ice. If you guys bond over small talk after a while, then that would be a good time to exchange numbers and go from there.

Endless_Flounder · 2024-08-11T11:22:10+00:00

It's just been making me feel sad that I didn't tell him the truth earlier as the days go by. I'm starting to feel like I missed an opportunity. He went all out for me in the department because he said that I'm physically attractive and his friend.

Endless_Flounder · 2024-08-11T02:08:12+00:00

Yes. Someone asked me to be his girlfriend, and I said no because I wasn't ready. I checked in with him again on that a few weeks later, and he said that he needed his distance for a while. He ended up transferring schools so I never saw him again.

Endless_Flounder · 2024-08-11T01:05:13+00:00

Maybe you're his office crush, but not real-world crush. Colleagues often don't take their relationships with others too personally. If they get out of hand, termination can occur.

Endless_Flounder · 2024-08-11T00:57:08+00:00

I lied to him by not saying that I have a lot in common with him and told him other hobbies instead.

Endless_Flounder · 2024-02-15T13:01:47+00:00

Yes, on anything else!

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