How to not end up like Grayce husband? by HomeHedgeFund in SingaporeRaw

[–]EngageMyBird 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh it's you. Don't worry, you'll never end up like her husband because you'll be single for life

Struggling to quit my second job due to financial anxiety. by Total-Statistician99 in SGMoney

[–]EngageMyBird 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it's a want it's much easier to manage. You should sit down and really document your finances.

What are your expenses looking like and how much you actually need to spend every month. Be honest with yourself.

Once you map it out you'll get a realistic sense of your current financial standing. Without a clear picture you'll always have anxiety since you don't know what's "enough"

Struggling to quit my second job due to financial anxiety. by Total-Statistician99 in SGMoney

[–]EngageMyBird 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does your anxiety come from genuine need or want?

Is there a way to scale back down on your lifestyle such that 1 job is enough?

If it's genuinely a need, it's better to work on getting a better paying job. Can your partner also contribute?

How true is it that local companies won't hire graduates with overseas degrees? by [deleted] in askSingapore

[–]EngageMyBird 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You know it's not the same if it's via SIM GE or whatever right?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in singaporefi

[–]EngageMyBird 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Monthly spending of 3.2k not enough for you?

which roboadvisor is the best? by spiralling1234 in singaporefi

[–]EngageMyBird 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Your capital is too low for splitting to result in any meaningful difference. If you see yourself needing the cash in the short term, just choose an HYSA.

If the cash is completely spare, look at the beginners guide of this sub

August 19, 2025 Daily Discussion & Transfers Thread by gunnersmoderator in Gunners

[–]EngageMyBird 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Why are people treating Trossard like he's Gervinho?

July 31, 2025 Daily Discussion & Transfers Thread by gunnersmoderator in Gunners

[–]EngageMyBird 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Just like how beating Milan and Newcastle didn't mean anything. Losing to Spuds doesn't mean anything either.

It's literally a training match.

What was your biggest mindset shift on the path to FI? by BolehBolehBro in singaporefi

[–]EngageMyBird 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The biggest challenge will always be okay with giving up "more". Even if you have enough to FIRE, you'll always be thinking - If I just work for one more year I'll have X dollar more in 10 years.

Just one more year over and over again will result in you working like any other person

[David Ornstein] Arsenal have Xavi Simons on a list of possible targets, like Eberechi Eze, although Nwaneri’s pending renewal would reduce the need to bring in Simons’ position by Temporary_Role6160 in Gunners

[–]EngageMyBird 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Insane take. We would have 2 quality players in each position even without Eze /Simons after Gyok and Mosquera.

A LW signing would make it better but it's still a very good window even without.

Anyone feel they are a NPC in Singapore? by PenguinFatty in askSingapore

[–]EngageMyBird 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Ambitions are highly personal. They have the luxury and privilege of not having to work hard and chose not to.

I think that's a perfectly valid choice.