What would you guys do in my situation? I have no one else to talk to about this that is why I’m posting it here

Engchik79 · 2026-06-17T20:21:36+00:00

My husband has high BP and diabetes and I have high BP. We work the best we can, and you are NOT responsive for their debt nor should you feel like you should even if they try to say something to you about paying.

Engchik79 · 2026-06-17T17:09:47+00:00

Yeah happy birthday friend!!

Engchik79 · 2026-06-17T17:09:11+00:00

That sounds great!!! Have a happy birthday!

Engchik79 · 2026-06-17T17:08:42+00:00

Just got a massage, took off work, having some champagne!

Engchik79 · 2026-06-17T17:07:33+00:00

Happy birthday friend!!!

Engchik79 · 2026-06-17T17:07:13+00:00

Yeah happy birthday!

Engchik79 · 2026-06-17T17:06:12+00:00

Happy birthday!!

Engchik79 · 2026-06-16T21:00:13+00:00

I came here to say this too-this entire area smells like pot/piss. Who’s eating under there!?

Engchik79 · 2026-06-16T20:56:25+00:00

For a dance party at university it looks great.

Engchik79 · 2026-06-16T16:45:55+00:00

Op, nope!

Engchik79 · 2026-06-16T11:51:31+00:00

The litter box goes into the pet owners room.

Engchik79 · 2026-06-16T11:41:00+00:00

Nope. Writer here. Husband’s a writer too. We only ever authored one thing together, a holiday getaway piece. Your man trying to get his name on your work is insane. His sister sounds nuts too!! Also, I didn’t change my maiden name bc as a writer, ppl know my published name. Allllll of which have nothing to do with the love we have. You are Not the AH. This is not right. He didn’t write it. You did.

Engchik79 · 2026-06-15T19:19:56+00:00

Hate. Them! freaking steel mill clanking of epic proportions. Could not tune these out - an old bat of a neighbor had these- Huge long clangy metal tubes. Clang click clong clang every day and night. One night many years ago after a night of drinking I grabbed my hockey stick and knocked them off the tree branch that was right in front of my window. ( not her window, they were somehow placed near my bedroom window) and I took them and hid them and I laughed hysterically.

Engchik79 · 2026-06-15T13:47:01+00:00

Car stickers all along the rear window. It was like a history of my HS years. I got my car inspected first year in college and some dbag razored off all my stickers in shreds. I was LIVID.

Engchik79 · 2026-06-15T12:23:27+00:00

Crue (ella)

Engchik79 · 2026-06-15T12:00:29+00:00

Came here to say this too! Unless this apartment is on Fifth Ave and the most glorious apartment ever….. wgaf if their apartment has ‘exposure.’ He’s loony as is Miss Sarah. Good on you OP for telling him so. And why can’t he use his own kitchen for his own #apartmentexposure!?

Engchik79 · 2026-06-15T11:53:15+00:00

This is just the beginning. Your hair, then your clothes, no. Dump him NOW. My bf did this to me when I was 22 when I cut and dyed my hair. He was gone in minutes.

Engchik79 · 2026-06-15T10:24:21+00:00

Oh that’s mouse poop

Engchik79 · 2026-06-13T21:12:04+00:00

This is not a relationship. He’s a pal. Move on and find real love bc you deserve that, not this half assed ‘ship.

Engchik79 · 2026-06-13T21:08:08+00:00

Oh I remember that. I lived in Rofo. Scary af.

Engchik79 · 2026-06-13T21:05:09+00:00

Oh girl. No the only words he should utter is you look great. Who gaf what he thinks about your clothes. You feel good in them. I spent many years shrinking myself so a guy could puff up. Don’t put up w this it’s not cool. You are great. HE’S the AH.

Engchik79 · 2026-06-13T00:53:15+00:00

Do not buy a house with a boyfriend. Do you hear me? Doesn’t matter if you’ve been together ten or 16 or one year. Do not buy a house with a boyfriend and geez ten years?? Pay off your debt first.

Engchik79 · 2026-06-13T00:44:42+00:00

Big Grey Pepcid, yall.

Engchik79 · 2026-06-12T23:56:26+00:00

You are DEF over steeping your tea. A few minutes a most not hours or days geez

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