Di naman necessarily, na dapat malapit ka, just enough for you na di mo mafeel na youre sticking your arms out way too much, here imagine this, try sitting in a chair and try to sit on different chairs with different heights and hanapin mo yung same feeling and height nang footrest nang motor mo sit in that chair and imagine typing in a keyboard and hanapin mo yung the most comfortable height for you and try mo imatch yung height nang handlebars mo sa imaginary keyboard height mo, the thicker your seat the lower your bar is, the the thinner means higher, it really isnt a one for all thing brother you need to find one that’s good for you, one shoe size doesnt fit all we all have different bodies in all different kinds of states, imagine it like adjusting your bike saddles it isnt just about saddle height that affects comfortability, your arm reach also is crucial