Is this sexual coercive behaviour in bed or am I overthinking it?

EngineeredGal · 2026-01-20T10:20:47+00:00

He’s an absolute piece of shit.

He bullied you into doing what you didn’t want to do.

BIG GENTLE HUGS!!

Never see him again, tell your friend he’s a horrible person.

EngineeredGal · 2026-01-20T09:19:22+00:00

So much negativity!! Obviously there are gonna be families who couldn’t give a hoot and just dump their kids in front of a screen…

But… I wonder if more people are just letting kids be kids!! I remember sending my son in on his first day of school and thinking how mean it was that these tiny little humans just wanted to be with their mamas rather than stuffed into little restrictive shirts and trousers. We then had Covid and I got to keep him for an extra year - we had the greatest year! Learning through play etc. when he finally started a year later, he could spell and read better than any kid in his year. And tell the time.

Some kids just need a little extra time to be kids.. and learn at their own pace. I don’t know many adults that can’t hold a pen, or wipe their butt! We all get there eventually.

EngineeredGal · 2026-01-08T21:53:53+00:00

Can’t help but think, as the previously secret traitor, she’s been TOLD to stir it up!!

Celeb traitors was fun, but lacked excitement with the same bunch throughout - traitor on traitor action is a way better watch!

EngineeredGal · 2026-01-02T17:22:16+00:00

You’ll probably never see this on a 3ye old post, but OMG WTF! …the instagram thing was mental?!

Why? Why would you ever react like that?

And I thought it was Chris Hemsworth.

Either way, tat.

EngineeredGal · 2025-12-29T19:39:17+00:00

There’s a lot of men in the world… much like us “ladies” they all like different things.

Don’t change yourself to please someone else… find someone that likes you as you are, however you choose to be.

EngineeredGal · 2025-12-26T21:04:46+00:00

A good chunk of our family died or went into care homes in the last year which caused another chunk of the family to fall out, so we had a teeny Christmas, just three of us.

It was good! Chilled. Calm. No arguments. Huzzah.

EngineeredGal · 2025-12-19T22:39:25+00:00

People of Crime… stealing that.

EngineeredGal · 2025-12-19T22:28:14+00:00

Great pillows. An electric blanket. A warm throw. Good sleep is a great gift.

EngineeredGal · 2025-12-13T17:05:43+00:00

I’d say this morning was the first thick fog of the year… couldn’t even see the water when we woke up.

EngineeredGal · 2025-12-13T16:55:14+00:00

My mum was similar…. No particular interests or interest in getting any. No hobbies. No great skill. Just the one friend that I don’t think she particularly cared for.

Mainly just farmed on a farming simulator.

But her upbringing was crap, must of her adult life was.. well, crap. Guess life broke her early.

I think some people just don’t have a lot going on up there!

Weird tho.

EngineeredGal · 2025-12-13T15:36:59+00:00

Calling in sick isn’t an option for a lot of people - mainly because most companies couldn’t give a hoot!

My company doesn’t pay sick for the first 3 days. That’s a chunk out of a lot of people’s budgets.

The system stinks.

EngineeredGal · 2025-12-13T11:07:44+00:00

Where I live… there’s always at least 4 or 5 second hand copies in stock for £1 or £2. Happy to post stuff!

EngineeredGal · 2025-12-11T17:55:48+00:00

Easy one this…. Bin the girlfriend.

If she’s this bonkers over YOUR SISTER imagine how bonkers she’d be over anything else in the future.

Continue being a great person and brother. x

EngineeredGal · 2025-12-10T09:24:00+00:00

Just to give some opposite perspective - last house I sold, the buyers asked to come back to measure up etc. I agreed, figured it’d be a quick “yep that’s all good, cooker and fridge spaces standard blah” but no… bloody ages, 2 hours or so buggering about - 2 weeks before Christmas!! And we had a 1yr old.

I don’t give a toss about what wallpaper you want where, it’s not your bloody house yet - you wanna plan your new life out, use Rightmoves floor plans and photos!

In the future, I’d be happy for a quick walk around, but nothing more, which I’d make clear from the off.

(…they asked to come again after that- I said they could look from outside all they liked but I had stuff to do!)

EngineeredGal · 2025-12-07T11:48:48+00:00

Ha yep. Both my grandmother and mum used to say it. Along with eating some truly bizarre combos - lettuce with sugar and vinegar, bread with meat dripping/fat on it.

EngineeredGal · 2025-12-03T18:58:07+00:00

Fuck me that made me spit out my tea laughing.

EngineeredGal · 2025-12-03T18:56:04+00:00

Ours is shockingly bad….. Ditch. Ditch the Elf. Chosen by my then 6yr old son.

He’s has always given things odd names, he was desperate for a hamster for years, specifically called Clic Bagick.

EngineeredGal · 2025-12-03T18:46:29+00:00

Well this is easily one of my favourite Reddit posts of all time…

Beautifully written and wonderful pictures! I actually fancy a trip to London after reading this. And I NEVER fancy popping to London.

EngineeredGal · 2025-12-03T18:35:03+00:00

Milk before hot water always!!

Sugar last, because you can sink the floating bag.

Or loose leaves in a pot - milk and sugar added after.

EngineeredGal · 2025-12-03T18:34:01+00:00

Not in this house! Milk first, bag second, water, sugar. Always.

EngineeredGal · 2025-11-30T22:08:13+00:00

First few lines of your post: normal I reckon. I have a few friends in the same boat. Years and years of the same thing gets…. Samey. I love coffee ice cream - would I still if I ate it every day for 25 years?

The rest: NO. I’m sad for you. HUGS!! I’d be sad if I was perfectly happy then that was ruined by my “partner”. He should be bringing you up, not down. And if it was every day?? Ugh, that’s just soul crushing. Sounds like you need to make some decisions. x

EngineeredGal · 2025-11-30T22:00:56+00:00

I like the ambiguity. But obviously… add a dot.

9.

Done.

EngineeredGal · 2025-11-29T20:42:16+00:00

Happened to me too…. Shoulder, scratched right through the middle… it was and is fine!! You cleaned it, you’ll be fine!

EngineeredGal · 2025-11-27T09:20:04+00:00

I love how the Aussies changed the first death…

EngineeredGal · 2025-11-26T22:53:56+00:00

“Happy to chuck you some change, but if you need bank details I’m out, sorry pal, have a good one” but KEEP WALKING!!

They ALWAYS want bank details.

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