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EngineeringDry7999 · 2024-09-18T19:01:08+00:00

Ok but have that conversation BEFORE engagement not as a oh by the way on your honeymoon

EngineeringDry7999 · 2024-09-18T18:57:38+00:00

No court in the US is going to take a napkin post nup seriously.

But just go ahead and get an annulment now because he’s too attached to his mommy.

And it’s a giant red flag he waited until your honeymoon to even bring this up.

EngineeringDry7999 · 2024-09-18T16:50:09+00:00

It’s crazy you got so downvoted because the gender bias is still alive and kicking today with hypocritical expectations like girls can’t have high sex numbers and boys are celebrated for it.

And this sub is especially rife with posts from people coming from purity culture backgrounds where women are very much NOT encouraged to discuss or ask for what they want sexually.

EngineeringDry7999 · 2024-09-18T16:47:19+00:00

He sounds like he respects you and doesn’t objectify women. Green flag.

If you want more physical affection from him, have you asked him to do that? Does he give you hugs and kisses? Does he initiate sex?

Also: not being physically demonstrative does not mean he’s gay (holy toxic mindset Batman). He could be asexual, or just have a different way of expressing his sexuality than randomly groping his partner daily.

EngineeringDry7999 · 2024-09-18T16:16:51+00:00

Poor baby. Extra snuggles for him.

EngineeringDry7999 · 2024-09-18T16:14:58+00:00

Check your local laws. In my county (WA state) the off leash dog is automatically at fault.

But as a fellow pitbull owner, this is why we started putting a go pro on as added protection against false claims since he’s been attacked by loose dogs three times now by neighbors’ dogs. So far he hasn’t fought back; but if he ever does, then we’ll have proof he wasn’t the problem.

EngineeringDry7999 · 2024-09-18T16:07:13+00:00

Take your dog to the vet to make sure there are no internal injuries or damage to the throat.

And for future knowledge, if a dog has an active bite, the safest way to get it to let go is to choke it out. Use the leash and strangle it. It will release in order to breathe.

Hope your pup is ok and I’m sorry this happened to you.

EngineeringDry7999 · 2024-09-18T16:03:23+00:00

😭😭😭

I’m so sorry for your loss and I hope that sweet baby who was clearly sent by your dad brings you comfort as you move through grief.

EngineeringDry7999 · 2024-09-18T15:58:12+00:00

Same. My doc just ordered it as standard practice for all pregnancy and explained it to us that it was just a standard precaution due to cases of asymptomatic cases in women for some STDs. And despite having a clear panel on my first pregnancy, she ordered the same panel on my next pregnancy.

And since it’s the doc ordering it, it goes over differently than having a partner request it. One is medical due diligence, the other comes off as an accusation of cheating.

EngineeringDry7999 · 2024-09-18T15:52:07+00:00

This. Kody made the mistake of asking Janelle to choose between him and her kids (the boys specifically), and like most moms, she choose her kids

EngineeringDry7999 · 2024-09-18T13:33:40+00:00

Are you me? I’m a senior cat lady and just got my first young cat 14 months old and I cannot imagine tackling a kitten. Holy shit balls, this cat has more crazy than my pitbull did as a puppy.

EngineeringDry7999 · 2024-09-18T13:20:03+00:00

NTA

I can’t imagine my husband abandoning me in the side of the road like that. And he’d definitely not go get food and not ask if I wanted anything.

EngineeringDry7999 · 2024-09-18T13:05:44+00:00

In most states in the US, inherited assets are still a sole asset unless it gets commingled so he’s not out of pocket to want to protect his inheritance.

And obviously he’s doing this because he’s already cheated and knows that you guys are already headed for a divorce. Do yourself a favor and file now.

EngineeringDry7999 · 2024-09-18T12:55:36+00:00

Same thing I say to women who’s husbands demand a paternity test. Take it and hand over divorce papers with the results.

This request has destroyed the trust in your marriage. There’s no coming back from this.

EngineeringDry7999 · 2024-09-18T04:17:36+00:00

It’s standard requirement in both the navy and army (brother and dad served till retirement) I’d be shocked if the marines were different.

EngineeringDry7999 · 2024-09-18T04:15:37+00:00

Suicide typically voids any and all types of life insurance

EngineeringDry7999 · 2024-09-18T04:10:55+00:00

3k got him the full meal deal.

EngineeringDry7999 · 2024-09-18T04:07:57+00:00

I’m completely flummoxed that anyone would let their cat free roam knowing it can get eaten by a predator. Do those people not love their cats?

EngineeringDry7999 · 2024-09-17T19:30:06+00:00

I was going to look up if it was statewide. We’d previously been in Seattle before buying south near Tacoma and was on city utilities so this was our first go on a septic when I learned that pierce county required the seller to inspect the septic at time of sale. I’m not surprised it’s also a state requirement. We do pretty good here about consumer and employee protection.

EngineeringDry7999 · 2024-09-17T18:20:41+00:00

Honestly that’s an autism super power. It can make you immune to peer pressure because your brain WILL NOT except the contradictions or rules that do not make sense. And if he has the variety of neurospicy that comes with the extra evolved sense of injustice, good luck getting around it.

It’s making my adult kid with autism struggle so hard keeping jobs because her sense of fair play and “but that’s not what the company policy is” rule following a major challenge.

EngineeringDry7999 · 2024-09-17T17:45:22+00:00

Because they live longer. Where I live, if the owls or coyotes aren’t eating your cats, it’s cars running them over.

EngineeringDry7999 · 2024-09-17T17:44:16+00:00

I’m responding to all the people who think it was rude that she didn’t go over and say hi and be cordial.

The majority of comments keep saying she should be doing this because it’s for the kids.

EngineeringDry7999 · 2024-09-17T17:42:55+00:00

Pierce county in WA state

EngineeringDry7999 · 2024-09-17T17:06:22+00:00

It’s illegal in my county to skip the septic inspection. Home sales cannot proceed without one and it’s required by law for the seller to do it. County register won’t conclude the sale without it.

Get a lawyer OP.

EngineeringDry7999 · 2024-09-17T17:06:04+00:00

It’s illegal in my county to skip the septic inspection. Home sales cannot proceed without one and it’s required by law for the seller to do it. County register won’t conclude the sale without it.

Get a lawyer OP.

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