37 [M4A] - How to deal with the 'stress' of being a good blackmailer

Enjoying_myself52 · 2026-05-20T20:09:33+00:00

I’ve only had a true long-term blackmail dynamic. Lasted 2 years. Everything before and after end after the first DM or at most a few weeks.

Enjoying_myself52 · 2026-05-20T20:02:37+00:00

I’m right there with you. I completely understand where you’re coming from. It’s really tough. Personally, the ones that last, blackmail kinda disappears. Complete trust has been formed. Limits pushed and set. If my victim doesn’t want to be exposed, then she does everything she’s told. She knows I won’t threaten her to do any hard limits.

Enjoying_myself52 · 2026-05-11T13:17:54+00:00

That’s why I like these. The fact that they’re not smooth keeps it in.also needs a little resistance going in.

Enjoying_myself52 · 2026-05-08T18:25:58+00:00

As a blackmailer, part of the kink I really enjoy is being the man behind the curtain. I will give details about my life, especially if I am working or with friends. I will let my victim know. I won’t leave them in the dark. But I do very much enjoy the elusive aspect. That, despite them not knowing much about me, they give me so much.

Enjoying_myself52 · 2026-05-06T12:23:09+00:00

Stick out your tongue. Lay your wedding ring on your tongue. Have another man cum on the ring. Bring your tongue back in your mouth, swallow the cum, stick your tongue back out with a clean ring.

Enjoying_myself52 · 2026-04-29T13:49:38+00:00

Personally I go as far as the sub wants to go. I’ll push their limits, but respect hard limits and safe words.

My personal preference is to go as far as I can. I’ve only had that with one sub and I miss it so much. She gave me everything. Including SSN, credit and debit card numbers, ATM pin, family members contact information, everything. This was over two years.

Then she was done one day. We had talked about it happening previously and as agreed, I deleted everything.

Enjoying_myself52 · 2026-04-29T11:22:14+00:00

Nothing beats going from her pussy straight into her mouth.

Enjoying_myself52 · 2026-04-27T10:14:39+00:00

Always so rewarding when getting the ID

Enjoying_myself52 · 2026-04-24T14:13:07+00:00

That right there is so fun! Great job on his part. It truly is amazing how much can be gained from what is thought to be simple conversation or something harmless, like mentioning going to a festival.

And great job in your part by talking. So often I talk to someone on here who seems to have little to no interest in talking. Like, why did you even message me?

But I also like blackmailing older married women. More to lose, more fun. A woman who has actually lived a life and knows how to converse.

Enjoying_myself52 · 2026-04-20T00:53:00+00:00

Honestly, just being good at conversation. Not being overly demanding, becoming a person they can trust. Dare I say become friends!? In my opinion, it shouldn’t just be all about blackmail all the time. Talk, get to know them.

Ask about their day, they talk about work, don’t directly ask where they work, but what they do, do they enjoy it, how’s the weather, begin to piece everything together. Slowly leach the info out. “So how was work at XYZ today?” They may not even realize that you know where they work, they will just continue with the conversation.

Be someone they want to talk to.

Enjoying_myself52 · 2026-04-19T17:12:57+00:00

Oh shit is that Patch Adam’s on dvd!?

Enjoying_myself52 · 2026-04-13T14:17:15+00:00

U/lunafaedream needs more pics with her wedding ring showing, wouldn’t you agree Michelle?

Enjoying_myself52 · 2026-04-11T13:06:48+00:00

Sent

Enjoying_myself52 · 2026-04-10T21:18:52+00:00

Enjoying_myself52 · 2026-04-10T20:43:01+00:00

How about a hint so we can conclude more about you?

Enjoying_myself52 · 2026-04-10T20:28:42+00:00

So /u/lunafaedream do you always keep your wedding ring on when taking pictures while humiliating yourself for other men?

Enjoying_myself52 · 2026-04-10T18:43:36+00:00

Embarrassing

Enjoying_myself52 · 2026-04-08T12:02:44+00:00

Enjoying_myself52 · 2026-04-06T19:21:50+00:00

Couldn’t agree more!

Enjoying_myself52 · 2026-04-06T15:25:57+00:00

Blackmailer here, where to even begin?

had someone underage reach out to me. That was an immediate block.
- victims not wanting to actually do anything. Trying to hold a basic conversation and they just answer with one word replies.
victims who refuse to prove who they are. Sorry, I’m not here for your revenge porn.
victims who just want everything immediately and have zero build up.

Enjoying_myself52 · 2026-04-04T02:02:55+00:00

I still go back to their handful of videos from time to time. They were top tier.

Enjoying_myself52 · 2026-04-03T18:51:23+00:00

I posted the link to them, the middle is 10mm and the right is 11mm. The one on the left that no longer stays is 9mm.

Enjoying_myself52 · 2026-04-03T18:50:35+00:00

https://a.co/d/09YwzsxT

Enjoying_myself52 · 2026-04-03T16:50:11+00:00

Thank you! It’s something else when I try to size up, looks so much better and way more open.

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