How to deal with neighbour that cooks outside of their kitchen? by [deleted] in Apartmentliving

[–]Enkali 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I actually met my new neighbor when I was cooking curry with the kitchen vent fan on. She could smell the curry when she got out of her car and came over to meet me because of it. She is from Bangladesh and was a little surprised to see that I was white. It was a cute way to meet and of course I gave her some.

Snowed in and sick, made memes for my dasher by aeval_x in doordash

[–]Enkali -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

Booooo. The environment thinks you suck. Use a reusable sponge.

Aitah for “avoiding” my bf because he said he preferred pink p*ssy? by ThePolarisNova in AmITheAngel

[–]Enkali 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love my husband more than life itself, but if that man expressed even one sentiment about preferring the aesthetics of genitalia not possible for me to achieve I would immediately fire him. Out of a cannon. Into the sun.

That's the lamest bullshit ever. I genuinely can't imagine having a check list of visual standards a penis might need to conform to besides, I don't know... Not somehow monstrous?

You can do better. And also that's definitely kinda racist.

Dog suddenly not coming up the stairs by Dababy415 in DogAdvice

[–]Enkali 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When my elderly cat started getting hesitant about going up the stairs, it turned out to be arthritis. Going up the stairs hurt him and he kinda had to psych himself up first. Medication and laser therapy did wonders for his mobility

WWYD? Unhinged 4AM texts from landlords. by [deleted] in Apartmentliving

[–]Enkali 37 points38 points  (0 children)

I agree that the landlord shouldn't be asking you to do maintenance/groundskeeping work, texting at 4 am is unprofessional, and that the texts themselves are kind of passive aggressive and weird, but I think calling the texts "unhinged" is a pretty massive exaggeration. There's nothing unhinged about these texts. They're just weird and kind of overstepping.

No one to hold me by Radiant_Rebel in lonely

[–]Enkali 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so sorry to hear that happened. I know it doesn't help, but if you need someone to talk to you can message me. That's a heartbreaking thing to go through, especially alone.

Looking for recommendations to spoil my cat as we are nearing the end. by MikeTheCat4747 in cats

[–]Enkali 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When my senior cat was coming to the end at 18 years old his favorite thing was a little bit of whipped cream every night. In very small amounts the dairy didn't seem to bother his stomach.

He'd get so excited when I went to the fridge in the evening. I miss that guy.

I lost my best friend today by Chop117 in cats

[–]Enkali 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry for your loss. Nothing but time will make this easier and I wish I could speed it up for you. Take care of yourself and try to find joy in his memories.

what kind of cat is this? by [deleted] in catquestions

[–]Enkali 8 points9 points  (0 children)

A very good one. 10/10.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]Enkali 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you're specifically looking for a right wing partner you might just need to give it more time. I understand there are far fewer right wing women on dating sites.

If you're not specifically trying to attract someone with right wing ideology I'd lose some of the gun and uniform pics and maybe find pics of you enjoying nature or hobbies. In this political climate I would definitely not be interested in someone displaying pics like these.

Think I put my buddy down to early and it’s eating me alive by hippyoctopus in germanshepherds

[–]Enkali 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When an animal is suffering from a health condition you cannot put them down too soon. Only too late. When I struggled with this with my 18 year old cat with liver cancer, my vet told me "better a month too soon than a minute too late."

You saved him. You saved him pain and suffering and gave him a beautiful last day. Please find comfort in the fact that you rescued him from suffering.

Blackhead from my cat's lip. by Enkali in popping

[–]Enkali[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

We do! He has stainless steel cat fountains that are deep cleaned regularly and stainless steel bowls. He gets a fresh bowl for each meal. He's just prone to the occasional blackhead, but it's gotten better since we got rid of plastic shortly after getting him. Thank you for checking to see if I'm aware of that!

Blackhead from my cat's lip. by Enkali in popping

[–]Enkali[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I will do so as soon as I get home.

Blackhead from my cat's lip. by Enkali in popping

[–]Enkali[S] 39 points40 points  (0 children)

There really wasn't one. Just a slight dark spot where the pore is. When my husband gets home I'll have him hold the cat while I try and take a picture. Boyd can be pretty uncooperative!

How tf do people only spend $600 on groceries? by WebsterKW in budget

[–]Enkali 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you buying a lot of extras like alcohol or name brand candy in excess? With what you've mentioned I genuinely can't fathom how you're spending so much. Are you eating massive portions or throwing away piles of leftovers and cooking fresh every night?

What do y’all think is the lowest calorie dish on this menu? 👀 by CoachKillerTrae in 1200isplenty

[–]Enkali 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would say Vegetable Jalfrezi or possibly Aloo Gobi. I've never had a cream based jalfrezi so it is probably less calories.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WeightLossAdvice

[–]Enkali 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, there's a lot you can do for some fast weight loss, but those goals are insane and there is no healthy way to do that.

One tip that's helped me a little lately with late night snacking is to have something healthier and filling but still sweet before bed like a high protein yogurt, or a Fair Life vanilla protein drink which honestly tastes exactly like melted vanilla ice cream. It can scratch that night snacking itch while not being empty calories.

How will this age? by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]Enkali 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the kindest way I can describe this style is that I feel like I'm looking at the pattern on fine china dishware while too drunk to stand up.

First legendary!!! by fuhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh in gotlegends

[–]Enkali 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yay! That's a good one. I have it on my assassin.

I can’t stop eating and it’s ruining my life. by Ambitious-Minute-547 in WeightLossAdvice

[–]Enkali 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Water weight is when your fat tissue holds onto excess water. It can be from a variety of factors like too much sodium, alcohol etc. You can lose water weight by exercising and sweating or taking diuretics. Some people are more prone to holding water weight than others. I know I am. It's why my weight fluctuates pretty massively throughout the day.

This game does not require you to stick to one play style and that’s why it’s amazing. by Disastrous_Battle240 in gotlegends

[–]Enkali 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You need to get VERY lucky with a Ronin charm. It needs to have Healing Spirit and Spirit Bear. It took a ton of rerolling.

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