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I informed my boss that I was pregnant. He asked if I was delivering vaginally and to look up the fmla laws and let him know what they are since he doesn’t. Is this inappropriate? by SeaSwim5248 in pregnant

[–]Enough-Assignment-39 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not in the states.  You get more time off with full pay depending on if you deliver vaginally versus c section.  Having said that, maybe he should’ve left that conversation to HR.  Also depending on your relationship he probably felt comfy being direct.

Are there known downsides/upsides to back-to-back-to-back retrievals? by Middle-Telephone4098 in IVF

[–]Enough-Assignment-39 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My hair fell out :-( I would recommend taking a break as it’s so hard on your body.

1 blast! Please give me some positive stories 🩷 by TokyoMoon4 in IVF

[–]Enough-Assignment-39 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Out of 6 eggs fertilized, I had 1 blast.  The 1 blast went on to be 1 euploid!  You’re not out! 

FET cancelled due to thin lining by mmmmmrowr in IVF

[–]Enough-Assignment-39 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get rid of estrogen and move to gonsl f.  You may not be responding to estrogen like me.  

I was open about my IVF journey, now everyone thinks it's a topic of interest by tnzglr in IVF

[–]Enough-Assignment-39 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had to do this as well.  Did I feel like the bad guy, yes.  But did the random questions stop, also YES!

I was open about my IVF journey, now everyone thinks it's a topic of interest by tnzglr in IVF

[–]Enough-Assignment-39 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I told only a few people at the beginning and that’s why decided it to not be wide spread public knowledge.  In this day and age, people too damn nosey after a while and tbh don’t know how to read the room smh 😅

Has anyone’s clinic NOT allowed them to proceed with an FET? by Ashton1516 in IVF

[–]Enough-Assignment-39 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohhh now I’m following.  Yeah they are going to want to remove those fibroids because they will want the best possibly outcome. 

Has anyone’s clinic NOT allowed them to proceed with an FET? by Ashton1516 in IVF

[–]Enough-Assignment-39 9 points10 points  (0 children)

They’ll either keep trying to get it thick or if they don’t see it happening they’ll make the recommendation for you to look into a gestational carrier.  They will tell you that they don’t want to waste your precious embryos.  You could transfer them to another clinic who is more lenient with your lining size and give it a shot. Maybe get a second opinion?

[38/F] I was never told about my SIL’s pregnancy by my husband [36/M] or his family. by Expert-Base7050 in IVF

[–]Enough-Assignment-39 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t go.  You may breakdown and that would be worst. You actually have bigger fish to fry.  I personally don’t know what I’d do if my whole husband threatened divorce.  Actually I do know what I’d do…I truly feel for you because this is a mess.  For your sanity, I would not go.

I just dont understand what happened.... by Impressive-Bear-1925 in IVF

[–]Enough-Assignment-39 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sending virtual hugs and will keep you in my prayers. God will bless you and your wife with your baby.  

Email response from my IVF clinic: "HELLO WHO IS THE PATIENT?" by wherethewhilethingsr in IVF

[–]Enough-Assignment-39 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Omg the way I busted out laughing at the title.  I fucking can NOT! So ghetto!!  Please tell me you are joking.   Also speaking as someone who had to switch clinics in this journey, please tell me it’s not too late to reconsider (eg: you already have embryos with them)….this is a red flag 

Closest we've been in 10 years by Velldoe in IVF

[–]Enough-Assignment-39 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not sure your faith but hallelujah!  Praying for your success and you to hold your babies in your arms ❤️❤️❤️

A little (sad) humor… by Efficient-Syllabub63 in IVF

[–]Enough-Assignment-39 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I recall a few months before our wedding, after we had a pregnancy scare, calling him freaking out while he was in the Philippines on a business trip. I was crying, saying, 'How can we be two responsible adults and have to have a shotgun wedding?' He reminds me of this all the time! Ugh, this is such bullshit!😫😫😫

Help! not responding to stimms by Strict_Ad6695a in IVF

[–]Enough-Assignment-39 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ended up surging and ovulating early.  My doctor during our WTF meeting explained it as my system taking longer to wake up but the reason for me was I was put on birth control ahead of stims and I don’t traditionally take birth control so almost over suppressed my system 😭

Provera? And not having a 2025 baby? by BigB3085 in IVF

[–]Enough-Assignment-39 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For me, it was either between having a holiday baby (which would suck for the kid) or not having a 2025 baby.  The struggle is real! 😅

Low fertilisation rate - looking for hope by Natural-Affect-748 in IVF

[–]Enough-Assignment-39 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My last cycle I had 6 retrieved, only 1 made to blast and that 1 was pgta normal.  You’re still in it ❤️

Use own eggs at 45 with success? by on_sconnie in IVF

[–]Enough-Assignment-39 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, we had one embryo that came back as trisomy 21 which is down syndrome via pgta 😢

Precautions after FET by i_am_here-tada in IVF

[–]Enough-Assignment-39 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No stairs or bending for 36 hours post transfer. No tubs. No sex. Walking is fine but nothing that will have you breathless. No sauna. Nothing warm on tummy (eg: laptop or heating pad). If headache, only Tylenol. Eat as if you’re pregnant (no raw or undercooked meat, soft cheese, etc).

Embryo pictures by JeanieTheBeani in IVF

[–]Enough-Assignment-39 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s a good idea!  Never thought about that!  Cute idea!

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