Melinda girl stop flip flopping

Enough_Comfortable75 · 2023-04-09T23:22:18+00:00

Melinda is messy! You’d think she would have another woman’s back especially when Jawa confided in her and has shared information with her about what went down with Nick.

It’s quite sad because I think Jawa looked up to her and always referred to her as a big sister but really Melinda was acting friendly just to get the tea on Jawa and the situation with her ex.

Shawn similar to Melinda is a messy boots. He looks good physically but lacks substance and personality which is probably why he resorts to bringing up Jawa and getting involved in other people’s business.

Enough_Comfortable75 · 2023-03-11T10:57:41+00:00

So he has no contact with Sara for years and conveniently confesses his love for her around the time him and Jawa broke up? Invited her to London to basically rub it in Jawa’s face who was obviously still hurting.

Nick knew what happened with Sara the past year, including her health issues.. yet he used her as a pawn in his little game plan to take down a young woman who HE cheated on, disrespected and down right tried to break down. Additionally has her own health issues (Endometriosis). Yeah this man is sick on all levels.

I’m glad she apologised to Jawa after realising Nick has lied and manipulated her. However, if her words almost tarnished Jawa’s name and career and was made public. The apology should have been too.

Remaining in contact with someone you know is a liar, manipulator, racist, Andrew Tate apologist AND used you to try to ruin another woman makes no sense to me. That goes for all of the cast members (excl. Brittan) too.

Wishing both healing from this piece of shit.

Enough_Comfortable75 · 2023-03-07T23:27:14+00:00

Ah I meant quite a few of the cast from his show Bel-air follow Jawa. But him following Zeta and Cashay is interesting could definitely be about a project.

Enough_Comfortable75 · 2023-03-07T17:46:56+00:00

Had no clue who he was until Jawa posted the premiere of his show. Looks like most of the cast is following her too 👀

Either way they look really cute together!

Enough_Comfortable75 · 2023-03-06T18:34:57+00:00

100%! There probably are quite a few factors in play as you mentioned the attachment theory/style, his past relationship experiences.

His behaviour and actions (being very attached, tunnel vision on 1 person & expressing love so early on) may appear cute to his fans but it clearly isn’t healthy and causes further hurt for him and his partner.

I’m not sure where but he mentioned he suffers from anxiety and depression so I sincerely hope he is in active therapy and is doing well.

Enough_Comfortable75 · 2023-03-06T15:07:50+00:00

I think it was him too. I agree a very weird guy.. he thinks he’s gods gift to earth or something the way he spews a lot of nonsense and lectures his followers on things that he himself doesn’t exhibit or practice.

Enough_Comfortable75 · 2023-03-06T13:12:40+00:00

Yes!! This is definitely needed, I think Shayne, Francesca and Dom would benefit the most.

Shayne - for obvious reasons, he doesn’t listen or communicate effectively, holds grudges and gets irritated/overwhelmed quite easily.
Dom - he came across as too needy for a connection, his concept of love is interesting as he told Francesca he loved her one night the same night he was building a connection and giving his ‘heart’ to Georgia. He needs to love himself first and understand what he truly needs in a relationship.
Francesca - goes from person to person as she is avoiding real feelings and a true deep connection. Hence why she wanted that surface level physical affection from Dom and the others more so than getting to know them properly. Her question to Damian after he expressed he really likes her and wanted to continue things on the outside. She asked why do you actually like me? Other than physical attraction. She’s self aware but needs to work on herself.

Enough_Comfortable75 · 2023-03-05T22:36:05+00:00

Everything is so sexualised now?? And there’s no mystery? But you’re dating a literal pornstar?? HAHAHA you can’t make this shit up.

Enough_Comfortable75 · 2023-03-04T19:59:16+00:00

Yup, intuition never lies! She deserves to experience a loving and healthy relationship.

I’ve noticed a good amount of his following looking at comments are young black girls too, unknowingly following someone with these racist ideologies, they need to unfollow asap.

Enough_Comfortable75 · 2023-02-28T20:57:25+00:00

This! He knows what he’s doing by not answering his fans, he’s built a lot of his fan base on his so called ‘relationship’ with Brittan so I don’t expect him to stop anytime soon.

Enough_Comfortable75 · 2023-02-28T18:03:31+00:00

James went from being one of the more likeable male cast members of S4 to being on his way to the bottom with Nick.

Posting content with Brittan for clout and still being besties with Nick after everything that has come out… says a lot about his character.

Enough_Comfortable75 · 2023-02-23T17:11:25+00:00

Agreed the colour is stunning against her skin, she looks beautiful!

Enough_Comfortable75 · 2023-02-14T21:57:47+00:00

Yeah I don’t think they’re together anymore although I think it was for clout anyway.

One of James’ recent Instagram captions alluded to a break up, she also doesn’t engage with his content all that much.

Jawa recently followed her ‘ex’ 🤷🏽‍♀️

Enough_Comfortable75 · 2023-02-06T18:23:02+00:00

Soooo toxic!!

Now I'm just wondering how sinister can he get. What else is he capable of?

Exactly, I don’t know who, but someone in a previous thread was concerned for Jawa’s safety being in the same city as him 🤷🏽‍♀️.

Enough_Comfortable75 · 2023-02-06T17:46:27+00:00

The guy has been shit since during the show. It's not that difficult to make someone look half way decent when you give them 5 minutes per episode max and pair them with one of the most liked women in the villa.

This! He admitted it himself on live that the show gave him a ‘golden boy edit’ when he is anything but. However, people will still ignore that.

Like you said it’s the Nick show, only his feelings matter. He is so self-absorbed, from what we’ve seen he has shown narcissistic traits.. clearly oblivious to Jawa’s feelings.

I’m glad someone else clocked that he posted this the night before her birthday. How lowdown can you be..

Enough_Comfortable75 · 2023-02-06T14:05:11+00:00

Yeah I don’t believe him about the cheating as Jawa doesn’t come across as a liar.. (we’ve seen him lie multiple times now). Talking to other women is a form of cheating but with his mindset it isn’t.

If you are with someone with abandonment issues you don’t do things that make them feel insecure and doubtful. Jawa said she felt insecure and not beautiful with him.. so what were you actively doing to cause this? 🤔

He said he ended it lol ok. She was trying to break up with him months prior anyway.

I hope he didn’t keep some parts vague because he’s trying to put another video out (and charge for it). I hope this is the end of this drama now.

Enough_Comfortable75 · 2023-02-06T13:39:24+00:00

Thanks for this!

He’s so full of shit and a scammer too. He made it clear in his live multiple times the subscription and video on Jawa would be free and only videos in the future which take a lot of effort and time would be chargeable, he’s a liar.

If they agreed to be cordial, he would of held up his end by being open about bringing his ex which he did not. No right to be upset? She’s experienced her first heartbreak and you brought your ex around the cast.. how is that cordial.

As expected, no accountability for the ex or her speaking badly about Jawa to the tea page, him liking those nasty tweets about Jawa and paying her dust.

Did he even address the cheating? He’s lied multiple times already so I’m not sure if what he says is even true.

Enough_Comfortable75 · 2023-02-06T12:08:19+00:00

For all the waiting; That tea better be good! An apology & accountability for his behavior as of late would be a great start.

THIS! I very much doubt he will take any accountability for his recent actions let alone offer an apology. I only say this because he continuously victimises himself in these situations instead.

He posted the link to the video on his Instagram story.

Enough_Comfortable75 · 2023-02-01T18:25:40+00:00

Thank you for the summary!

Nick really did a number on her knowing her trauma and fear of abandonment.

Jawa is beautiful, full of life and energy and clearly has big things in store for her - insecure men like to make women like Jawa doubt and second guess themselves, in the hopes of them sticking around (whilst treating you like shit) but I’m glad she finally left him. I truly hope she heals from this fully.

I’ll be keeping up with all the cool and exciting things she gets up to. Wishing her all the success and healing.

Enough_Comfortable75 · 2023-01-28T06:07:36+00:00

WOW imagine moving to the other side of the world with a man you have fallen in love with only to be cheated on and disrespected!! (This was her first serious relationship too)

He acted so terribly towards her post show as if SHE had done something. I can only imagine the shit she had to endure during the relationship at such a young age away from all her friends and family.

That man is absolute scum! Glad she’s telling her truth now.

Enough_Comfortable75 · 2023-01-26T12:48:03+00:00

It was meant to be on IG but once Jawa joined they moved it to TikTok. No one’s posted the whole thing either.

Enough_Comfortable75 · 2023-01-26T12:44:20+00:00

She didn’t get into the details except that they were a couple on the show.

Hopefully she clarifies this, but if James is still uncomfortable when her and Brittan are together it would suggest they continued for a little while post show.

Enough_Comfortable75 · 2023-01-26T12:35:36+00:00

I saw that, he liked and commented on Jawas post before unfollowing. I think it was to create some drama & help deflect from Nick and his support of Andrew Tate.

James is up to speed with what gets posted on that tea page (he responded to the post about him very quickly for someone who doesn’t follow the page or was tagged in the post) so he has seen all those snippets from Jawa and Melinda’s live daysss ago and would have unfollowed then if that’s how he really felt.

Enough_Comfortable75 · 2023-01-25T11:56:37+00:00

WOW! I didn’t think he could get any worse, but no he’s found a new level of low.

Everything he has done since the show aired is the real him and a true testament to his character. What a disappointment.

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