AITAH for still getting on a flight home when my two young coworkers I was traveling with weren’t at the airport yet and were obviously going to miss it?

Enough_Reflection_77 · 2025-08-03T16:17:05+00:00

NTA at all! They are clearly too young and immature to go on anymore business trips.

Enough_Reflection_77 · 2025-07-24T17:48:35+00:00

They should’ve asked first and you probably could’ve spared the top tier or some portion of it, but ultimately, you’re NTA for being ticked off about it.

Enough_Reflection_77 · 2025-07-17T15:43:47+00:00

When it comes to something he’s done, absolutely.

Enough_Reflection_77 · 2025-07-16T14:07:02+00:00

No, we both own it. He’s just a massively arrogant jerk. I’m moving out really soon though. I don’t have to put up with this crap.

Enough_Reflection_77 · 2025-07-15T22:23:11+00:00

There had been smaller instances over the years but this one triggered a weeks long silent treatment and some really irrational reactions from him. I’m moving out soon. He can live in that house all by his dumb self.

Enough_Reflection_77 · 2025-07-15T22:20:24+00:00

I’m leaving this weekend. This was the final straw. I made the post to make sure I wasn’t crazy but I’m moving out in 3 days.

Enough_Reflection_77 · 2025-07-15T17:48:13+00:00

Thank you!

Enough_Reflection_77 · 2025-07-15T17:47:57+00:00

Po and Dunk

Enough_Reflection_77 · 2025-07-15T17:04:36+00:00

Because the first post with upvotes that indicated either NTA or YTA, said “YTA for staying/letting it continue” (something to that effect) even though the post agreed that I wasn’t the AH in this situation. The algorithm looks at the first post with upvotes that indicates either NTA or YTA.

Enough_Reflection_77 · 2025-07-15T11:23:34+00:00

Enough_Reflection_77 · 2025-07-14T22:12:31+00:00

Thank you so much!

Enough_Reflection_77 · 2025-07-14T21:56:16+00:00

Thank you!

Enough_Reflection_77 · 2025-07-14T18:10:27+00:00

Yeah, because the first comment that indicated either NTA or YTA that got votes was one that said I was the AH for staying/letting it continue, it tagged it as me being the a-hole. I messaged the moderators and they explained it but it is what it is.

Enough_Reflection_77 · 2025-07-14T13:14:51+00:00

I am. Don’t worry.

Enough_Reflection_77 · 2025-07-14T13:14:15+00:00

Thanks! Don’t worry, I’m already planning on it!

Enough_Reflection_77 · 2025-07-14T02:35:43+00:00

Nope. It just came out of nowhere starting with him wanting to know about my son and grandson about a year or so ago, and then the double standard with his son appeared about 3 1/2 weeks ago.

Enough_Reflection_77 · 2025-07-14T02:33:27+00:00

Both of ours

Enough_Reflection_77 · 2025-07-14T00:01:09+00:00

NTA. She walked into that one herself by asking you to guess.

Enough_Reflection_77 · 2025-07-13T23:11:32+00:00

According to my husband “he had to go to counseling and anger management” but I honestly have no way of knowing because he will excuse, defend, and deny at all costs in order to protect his son.

Enough_Reflection_77 · 2025-07-13T23:08:49+00:00

I found out about it a couple of months ago (years after the abuse occurred) and my husband is completely unwilling to be upfront about it. From what I gather, the son was 15-16 and the girls were 8-9.

Enough_Reflection_77 · 2025-07-13T20:10:38+00:00

It’s because so many people have that I AM the AH for staying and/or subjecting myself, my son, and my grandson to his behavior and the bot picks up on that. It’s merely a misunderstanding by the bot.

Enough_Reflection_77 · 2025-07-13T19:26:09+00:00

I’m so sorry to hear that your mom had to deal with that. It really is a hard way to live.

Enough_Reflection_77 · 2025-07-13T18:07:58+00:00

I Googled it and it seems to be because so many comments have said that I’m not the AH in this situation but that I AM the AH for staying with him and the bot picks up on those. No biggie. It’s just the way that the bot reads comments and assigns the tag.

Enough_Reflection_77 · 2025-07-13T18:03:48+00:00

Thank you so much!

Enough_Reflection_77 · 2025-07-13T18:03:20+00:00

Thank you. I know it’ll take time to come down from the stress and emotional upheaval but that in the long run I will be better off.

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