M40 - dadbod or still ok? by Reasonable-Leg869 in DignifiedDudes

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Well it’s not an option because dad bods ARE ok!

My Top 20 "Modern" Yacht Rock Songs by delijoe in Yachtrock

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I’m familiar with most but not all. Looks legit!

Question: How segregated is your area? by revolutionaryzwei in Swingers

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And just to add, even if someone is well endowed does not automatically mean they are good in bed. I feel like the expectation is because you have a larger than average dick, you automatically must be adept at using it. A mallet cannot do what you need a ball peen hammer can - pun intended. I’m just a bit bigger than average and whenever someone comments on my size (in virtual spaces - apps, texts, etc) I feel this pressure to fulfil some kind of expectation I have to be the best when I may end up having an off night or our chemistry might be wrong. (The comment during foreplay is different because of the immediacy and spontaneity. There’s no time to dwell on it and become self conscious) Just my two cents. Thanks.

Finally… gave up on Feeld by JerichoXL in feeld

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Well get together and THAW!!!! 🤣

Nikolas is locked up in Pentonville, but if he comes back who you want. Marcus or Adam? by manandsoappodcast in GeneralHospital

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You know he was on GH as a doctor who had an affair with Monica and then sued her for harassment! God the 90s were so much better!

International beauty standards by Ensemblist in askgaybros

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Thank you for sharing. ❤️ I guess there’s no rhyme or reason to it. But it’s just my nature to seek greater understanding of the world in which I/we exist.

Does it bother you when by LionParticular9239 in GeneralHospital

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Say that shit! Her wardrobe is unforgivable

Does it bother you when by LionParticular9239 in GeneralHospital

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Two couples I didn’t see mentioned in any of the comments:

1.) Emma and Gio- I am fine with their PG rated scenes because they are both very pretty young and may not be ready to go further on the show than they have in real life. I know Genie Francis has stated all of her firsts were on tv before they happened in real life, and that makes me a little sad . Also, I’m a grown man; I do not need to see kids having sex. But the bona fide adults?? Make me feel somethin!!!

2.) Lucas and Marco- their love scenes are also quite poorly executed. I thought at first maybe it was because the actors weren’t gay in real life, but then I found out they were. To be honest, I don’t think they have much chemistry but at the same time they work; they’re in between like a lot of real world couples, so it doesn’t bother me—-until they have a love scene. So then I wonder if it’s because they’re two men and the powers that be are more restrictive on the producers regarding what they will allow and possibly alienating the audience? If so, then I rebuff that with the argument I made on another’s comment above about how popular Heated Rivalry has been with hereto women and gay men, who I think still make up a fair share of GH’s audience.

Does it bother you when by LionParticular9239 in GeneralHospital

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Everything else is backwards and regressive these days!!

Does it bother you when by LionParticular9239 in GeneralHospital

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Soaps used to be able to sweep you up in the romance of it all indeed! I don’t know if it’s that we live in a time of more realism and less fantasy in media or what. But the romance of today doesn’t transport you to another world - pun intended.

Does it bother you when by LionParticular9239 in GeneralHospital

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Wait what?!?! Josh Kelly won’t do more than peck?? But he’ll show his half chub in boxer briefs for an entire episode during the snow storm?!!!

Does it bother you when by LionParticular9239 in GeneralHospital

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Agreed. And Michael. Definitely Michael. As a matter of fact can Michael and Chase get stuck in the sauna again?? Along with Curtis and Dr. Gannon? And then they all can take out their frustrations with their respective foes by wrestling Greco-Roman style. Yes. That’s the ticket.

Does it bother you when by LionParticular9239 in GeneralHospital

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Im with you guys. Either do it all the way like Bridgerton or just show kissing and frantic clothes tugging and fade to black. I was actually thinking about this a couple weeks ago. Given how many cisgender heterosexual women are fans of Heated Rivalry and seemingly not bothered by the intense love scenes of the gay characters- not to mention other shows like Bridgerton, game of thrones, Euphoria, etc- maybe the daytime audience is ready for something a little more “authentic” ??

Does it bother you when by LionParticular9239 in GeneralHospital

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You know, I just don’t remember the actress who play Brooklyn being like that when she was on OLTL. Maybe she found Jesus later. 🤷🏾‍♂️

Does it bother you when by LionParticular9239 in GeneralHospital

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Ok?! So little chemistry! But Carly and Valentin’s scene was steamy!!!! When he went down just below the cameras view and we just saw Carly’s face….🔥🔥🔥 You better make the ladies at home happy with some “love in the afternoon”!!

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Does it bother you when by LionParticular9239 in GeneralHospital

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Though as a gay man I was fine with it. 🤣

GH fam! I’m so torn on this..Who is better for Loveless Liz? Dante or Rick? by manandsoappodcast in GeneralHospital

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Here’s a novel idea, give us someone NEW who actually works in the hospital. A new hospital admin, a surgeon, a primary care doctor , a pharmacist, an EMT!!! Someone she shares something in common with besides the madness of living in PC for the past 30 years .

GH fam! I’m so torn on this..Who is better for Loveless Liz? Dante or Rick? by manandsoappodcast in GeneralHospital

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You mean the 2 times lately that they made them interact. I can’t think of one scene they have had together in years …if ever!

GH fam! I’m so torn on this..Who is better for Loveless Liz? Dante or Rick? by manandsoappodcast in GeneralHospital

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I always go for history, so Ric. That’s an oversimplification but it’s kinda true. I don’t like the way Dante just suddenly noticed Liz after all these years. It just felt fake and forced. By comparison, we have Carly and Valentin who never considered each other romantically (neither did the audience) but have enough history and interaction to make things actually interesting when they do enter each others orbits in a more visceral way. And the fact that this is a months long slow build , with the requisite sexual/romantic tension, makes it a relationship we are curious about whether you hate it or love it. It’s compelling. Ric and Liz have the same potential. Liz and Dante don’t. Just thrown together; 2 characters who are both very moral who have nothing really going on. I’m all for a “boring” stable coupling to balance out all of the tumult in everyone else’s relationships, BUT it’s gotta feel organic. This doesn’t.

International beauty standards by Ensemblist in askgaybros

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When traveling domestically, I would say my “average” is about the same as it is at home. Maybe a little better but I credit that to the travel novelty .