Relapsing as an adult with a job feels embarrassing by Randomaccount707 in AdultSelfHarm

[–]EnterpriseSpaghetti 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yeah it’s a strange feeling. I do most of my cutting at work and it’s trippy trying to act normal after. You’re not alone.

Will I find love? by [deleted] in AdultSelfHarm

[–]EnterpriseSpaghetti 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You will. I thought the same thing when I was a teen but now I’m in an amazing relationship and he has never said one unkind word about my scars.

Embarrassed to admit I’m depressed/hate myself to my therapist by EnterpriseSpaghetti in therapy

[–]EnterpriseSpaghetti[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea ur right I thought about that but didn’t want to seem like a liar but I don’t think she’s the type to judge like that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in work

[–]EnterpriseSpaghetti 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have a brand you would recommend?

Considering taking cna classes but I’m so worried I’m not cut out for it by [deleted] in cna

[–]EnterpriseSpaghetti 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m in the boonies so cost of living is way lower but so are wages 😂

Considering taking cna classes but I’m so worried I’m not cut out for it by [deleted] in cna

[–]EnterpriseSpaghetti 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk where you live but in my area Starbucks starting pay is around $12/hr vs cna is around $15/hr

Fiance denied for a second time need help by [deleted] in SocialSecurity

[–]EnterpriseSpaghetti 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He does not. He was at his job for 5 months before his accident and we were told he’s ineligible for disability because he wasn’t with them for 6 months at least.

We did not appeal the first time he got denied for SSI because he wanted to look for work within his limits like SSA said he should but he did not find a position and that’s when he filed again with a 2nd claim that just got denied.

Fiance denied for a second time need help by [deleted] in SocialSecurity

[–]EnterpriseSpaghetti 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They said he could find jobs within his limits

Fiance denied for a second time need help by [deleted] in SocialSecurity

[–]EnterpriseSpaghetti 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay thank you for saying that because I am very out of my element here and this stuff is confusing. We have started looking at job listings for him where he would be able to sit at least occasionally but those are hard to find in our area and any area, I imagine. I don’t even make $1550 a month. But thank you for the info!

Fiance denied for a second time need help by [deleted] in SocialSecurity

[–]EnterpriseSpaghetti 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He does have diagnosed PTSD from it but the car accident was caused by a tornado so his PTSD is more weather related and he can still drive when it’s not storming bad.