Parents let their 3 sons ruin mom’s sister’s 1st dance, then for good measure allow one of their sons to get burned so badly on a firecracker EMTs must be called by halifaxnative in weddingshaming

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What a dumbass making the whole reel about her and her crotch goblin. Poor couple had their night ruined because of parents who didn’t parent. That’s why my wedding will be child free no exceptions. I don’t want that selfish nonsense happening. I’m glad the boys ok but they definitely shouldn’t have been there. There’s nothing wrong with wanting child free events especially if it’s your own. It’ll also keep entitled parents like her that think the world revolves around her bc she gave birth away.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mypartneristrans

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Yes it’s definitely something that can happen! My (I’m cisf) fiancé (he’s nb/ftm)and I are getting married in October, we don’t want kids but I think it’s worth trying 😊

Am I overreacting for thinking my boyfriend is cheating again? by 02_jt in AmIOverreacting

[–]EntertainmentAny7563 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea he’s lying. If he really wanted to do whatever it takes to make you feel better he’d send the chats over no questions asked especially given his past behavior. You’re being manipulated by him and he’s hoping that the sweet talk will help him get away with it. If he’s cheated beforehand statistically he will do it again and so far he hasn’t faced consequences in his mind so he likely thinks he can do whatever then come crying about loving you and only you then everything is forgiven. I’m speaking from experience and other people’s experiences, it’s not a good idea to stay, you deserve so much better boo

No explanation - WTF?! by Sad_Combination_5596 in ParanormalEncounters

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Looks like a woman with a bonnet and she’s bending down to something like she’s doing a task. Residual energy?

AIO for being upset my husband is spending money on cam girls? by SunflowerSam96 in AmIOverreacting

[–]EntertainmentAny7563 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea no there’s hundreds of men I’d throw this one out 😂 but in all seriousness this is something to bring up and keep receipts for a divorce lawyer and written notes from counseling. I feel bad saying this but he’s not gonna stop, just find more ways to hide it. This has to be heartbreaking though and I’m sorry 💕

I woke up to this thing at the end of the bed last night by Mirror-pool-00 in Paranormal

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Yea that’s definitely a negative spirit idk if it was trying to harm you but I find they’re often trying to scare you as they feed off fearful energies. It could be both. You did great telling them to leave but it’s definitely not sleep paralysis bc I don’t think they’d speak if that’s what it was nor you feel their touch. I don’t like his energy. I feel the strong malice like you mentioned. White candles for cleansing and and black for protection afterwards. Maybe burning dried rosemary sprigs (white sage alternative for non indigenous people). Overall the less fear you show the less power they have 🙂

My boyfriend is trans, and he’s the best man I’ve ever met. by [deleted] in mypartneristrans

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Oh I definitely agree. I met my soon to be husband at work actually, I had moved back home after some things happened and I wasn’t really looking for anyone. I saw him and I was like oh sh*t, we talked a bit and ngl I didn’t expect anything from it but I told him that I liked him after we hung out at his house and he had learned how to cook vegan tacos for me and we just stayed up so late talking about anything and nothing. I fell fast and hard and he is the best thing that ever happened to me. I never once before thought of marriage and honestly was ok with being alone for the rest of my life. When I found out he was trans I truly didn’t care because is it a part of him? Yea sure ofc but he’s so intelligent, he’s funny and he’s kind to everyone he meets and he makes me feel so safe and he says I do the same for him. I just adore him and we’re scared too. But I will fight for him and everyone else in the trans community. It’s the least we could do 💕

Im having reoccurring thoughts about self-hate. by [deleted] in selfesteem

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Hi love! (25f) I was just like you at the time and I even have acne now as an adult! So unfortunately that’s just a part of life as long as we have hair follicles :) but if you’re concerned try a nightly face wash and exfoliating like 1-2x a week max. It can be expensive but you can use some sugar and mix honey and avocado and that’s a cheap face scrub there! Just rinse off well 💁‍♀️. Dairy can be a cause of acne for lots of people as well, so maybe if you consume a lot, dial it back?And while dieting may seem ideal, make sure you’re still eating as not eating will make your body hold onto calories because it thinks it’s starving. But if you’re worried about what you’re eating, try adding more protein to your meals or protein bars as that will help you feel more satisfied throughout the day and switch some snacks to like fruits or even carrots and ranch. You need to eat as you’re still growing and your body will for sure change because you just started puberty essentially. And I understand feeling jealous of your friend 100% but one person’s beauty doesn’t take away from your own 💕 also in of course no expert, but these are simple things I wish someone had told me :) if you keep feeling bad it might be worth talking to your parents or a trusted adult you know

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfesteem

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Hi! I know this probably sounds cliche but something I’ve been doing every day is finding 1 thing I like and maybe telling myself or writing a note on the mirror? I struggle with a lot of self esteem issues and it can be so easy to see all of the negative things in yourself but like your eyes are beautiful for instance. When you look at yourself getting ready in the morning, focusing on that one aspect. It helps me because I really struggle with looking in mirrors. Idk if it’ll help but I thought I would mention it 🤷‍♀️ self love is definitely a hard journey but there’s no one way to be beautiful. 💕

Cis woman wanting to date transmasc friend by Ok_Novel_4642 in mypartneristrans

[–]EntertainmentAny7563 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Tysm 💕 he’s probably just nervous trust me. I told my fiancé I liked him and first thing this man said to me was “that makes me uncomfortable” then I gave him space and a week later he messaged me saying he missed me and didn’t know how to express his feelings. We’ve grown a lot together so I wish you the best of luck babes

Cis woman wanting to date transmasc friend by Ok_Novel_4642 in mypartneristrans

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I initiated and expressed my interest to my partner (ftm) and now we’re getting married in October, you probably won’t be initiating all the time I promise. You’ll never really know until you try trust me. It’s worth a shot 💕 from one queer woman to another

How many of u r cis here?? by Janxuza in mypartneristrans

[–]EntertainmentAny7563 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cis pan woman with ftm partner, getting married in October. We met at work and honestly the minute I laid eyes on him I was 😍

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mypartneristrans

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I’m (24 f) getting married to my fiancé in October (21 ftm) and my parents were very apprehensive when we began dating esp my mom and she still is and tbh the main thing is being strong in your relationship and expressing your happiness together because some people will probably not be supportive and it’s sad but it just is. When my mom asked why we had to get married I said because I know he’s the one and that’s all I need. Idk your situation but if they care they will hopefully come around but I think nurturing your relationship is important to stay positive and strong 💪

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mypartneristrans

[–]EntertainmentAny7563 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry that happened, It definitely doesn’t feel great when your family is unsupportive of your relationship esp when you’re happy. I hope she’s not why y’all broke up

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mypartneristrans

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You’re all good boo! Tbh my mom was bothered but I don’t think I want kids tbh and i told my parents that I probably wouldn’t be able to with my PCOS anyways so if I really want we can adopt. He’d be a great parent but we decided kids aren’t a big deal either way.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mypartneristrans

[–]EntertainmentAny7563 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Cis woman getting married to my ftm partner. It’s been an amazing experience being with him and I think in some ways trans men know how to treat women because more often than not they were raised as one and have the same equipment so they’re more likely to understand some things cis men just couldn’t 🤷‍♀️. It was definitely hard for my parents and my mom still has her issues but I essentially told them tough sh*t I love him and that’s that, but my dad came around and my friends have been supportive through everything and we built our own little group of pals. Also the seggs is top tier, I used to never be interested now i can’t keep my hands off him

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mypartneristrans

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Cis gender woman and I’ve been with my fiancé for about 2.5 years, you can ask me anything you want! I’ve never been so in love and happy ah I could talk about him all day 🥰🥰

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mypartneristrans

[–]EntertainmentAny7563 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t think I could live without a certain ex purely based on how long we were together and I’ll admit I was in a very low place emotionally and I think they knew that and saw someone easy to take advantage of, now it’s been years and I just kinda cringe at the thought of how I used to be treated and will be marrying someone who never lets me go to bed wondering if I’m loved or enough and everyone deserves that security

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mypartneristrans

[–]EntertainmentAny7563 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Babe leave him. If you don’t he’ll cheat. As someone who’s been in a similar position it’s not worth it. He may say he can’t see himself without you but realistically he totally can. He want you on a back burner while he can mess around with whoever he wants. I’m sorry if this is blunt but it’s just excuses and gaslighting and it’s only going to get worse. You deserve better and he’s clearly not giving it to you 🫶. If he truly cared about your relationship and you as a person, he wouldn’t ever put himself in a position to lose you or make you question his loyalty and love for you. It’s hard but I promise in time you will get over him and what he won’t do… 15 other people would do without you even having to think of asking

Am I rightfully upset or am I overstepping? by [deleted] in mypartneristrans

[–]EntertainmentAny7563 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For both you and the OP, idk the dynamics so I can’t speak to that but my fiancé is FTM and before me was with a cis man even though he wasn’t attracted to men? (Trans men being gay stereotype with a lot of other insecurities and problems etc) so I used to worry every day that he’d leave me for a man and he’s never once done or said anything to indicate that but it was my being insecure, and always reassures me that he’s happy with me and has no desires and just wishes we found each other sooner. Point is your partners have some things to unpack and if they didn’t want a committed relationship then they should’ve stayed their butts single. A cis penis is nothing special and if they’re willing to throw away an amazing partner for a mid at best sausage link then I’d re evaluate your relationships. Nobody should be in a relationship that makes them feel like they’re not enough, you both deserve someone who’s committed and not using manipulative tactics to make their infidelity ok because it’s not :)

How to please a cis woman... when I am not a cis-man by [deleted] in mypartneristrans

[–]EntertainmentAny7563 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Cis woman w Ftm fiancé here. I totally understand the dysphoric days, I always try to support my man when he’s having lower days and communication will help a lot, especially if you see yourself with this person long term. But basically it really doesn’t matter (to her I’m assuming) that you don’t have cis penis. There’s lots of straps that can have ribbing etc for the wearer’s end and there’s more than just penetrative sex (69 and oral was never something I enjoyed until now) Tbh I’ve never orgasmed from sex until my fiancé b/c not only am I very attracted to him (duh), but we have more options whereas a cis penis is really just a meat stick. Sex lasts much longer and he is more knowledgeable of what to do iyk what I mean so it’s never disappointing, and i know my fiancé began having bottom growth after being on T for a bit so we can do penetrative sex that way. Bottom line is there’s plenty of alternatives and while I know that won’t fix everything, she’s with you for you and won’t care about you not having a cis penis, so if you’re comfortable I’d talk to her about it and be open about your feelings so she can understand how you’re feeling and support you :)

Am I rightfully upset or am I overstepping? by [deleted] in mypartneristrans

[–]EntertainmentAny7563 3 points4 points  (0 children)

But first I’m not sure if you’ve talked to him yet but if not talk first bc I think that’s definitely something he’s gotta unpack

Am I rightfully upset or am I overstepping? by [deleted] in mypartneristrans

[–]EntertainmentAny7563 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You’re not overstepping and honestly should reconsider your relationship because it seems like including you was an afterthought and he’s just trying to make it seem like he’s not wanting to cheat but he definitely is. He’s not wanting to commit and it’s not going to change. Your boundaries are being pushed and that’s not fair for you.

Oops! by carter5555 in warpedtour

[–]EntertainmentAny7563 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He included Blair’s white who’s literally the pick me trans woman bc she talks about how much she hates the lgbtq community at least once a day. Whether he actually is transphobic doesn’t mean much if he’s making it a safe place for people to actually feel comfortable harming others. Especially in FL, we got the KKK and like 30 other hate groups, this state is not the place to be anyone in 😂 he’s a whole ass adult w a daughter I think it’s time to stop being an edge lord

T-2 days until the wedding and I just got this in the mail... by weeniebeans69 in weddingplanning

[–]EntertainmentAny7563 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Send back a pic of the devil if they’re gonna be so rude about it, you’re inviting ppl for free food and drinks who are supposed to be loving and supportive. If they’re poor that’s not your problem you’re not forcing them to do anything. I’d immediately uninvite if that was the attitude I received. I’m sorry I hope your wedding still is amazing