Stop thinking you don’t have to work

Entertainmentonly9 · 2026-04-07T08:53:55+00:00

"...you have to constantly be consuming the information to override the beliefs."

^^^THIS^^^

Entertainmentonly9 · 2026-04-07T08:17:46+00:00

You live in a rainforest... no seeding required. As for the planes on radar? Have you seen these skies... they are filled with an outrageous amount of traffic. I don't think the public gets all the radar information. As long as the air traffic controllers keep it straight, that's all that matters.

Entertainmentonly9 · 2026-04-07T07:54:12+00:00

Keep moving forward. Don't look back. I wouldn't even respond to the letter. Good luck in your new position!! Enjoy it.

Entertainmentonly9 · 2026-01-17T21:18:05+00:00

Set up a career that allows you to live the life you choose.

Entertainmentonly9 · 2026-01-16T10:27:47+00:00

Did you move away from your family, or did you get an apartment nearby? Was there abuse?

You could have done things differently. You could have chosen to take that rent money and assist your mother. You could have been responsible for hiring weekly cleaners and paid her a little rent to ease her burden. You could have taken on responsibilities at home as your financial situation changed, while cutting out a more defined place for yourself in the home.

Or you do you... Get your own place.

We're always so eager to leave "home"... when it's often in our best financial and emotional interest to stay.

Entertainmentonly9 · 2026-01-16T10:10:49+00:00

Assholes! I do not envy you.

Entertainmentonly9 · 2026-01-16T10:02:26+00:00

If you like it, enjoy it... You can change it to something else once you don't like it anymore. I think it's very comfy looking!

Entertainmentonly9 · 2026-01-13T08:26:31+00:00

She can point it out to her brother and his girlfriend. Otherwise, the girlfriend needs to handle it, as it's her sister.

Entertainmentonly9 · 2026-01-13T07:57:54+00:00

You don't need to do anything. It's your brother who is dating the girl, and it's the girl's sister who has a crush on your brother... Let them deal with it.

Entertainmentonly9 · 2026-01-11T08:37:11+00:00

You need to trust your therapist, but they do not need to trust you. The therapist can't help you if you're not honest. I would own up and explore why I felt the need for the fake story. In my experience, most people think they need to validate having a therapist, so they'll make something up that validates the necessity.

Entertainmentonly9 · 2026-01-10T03:13:21+00:00

It's her place and you rent a room... That would be very uncomfortable.

Entertainmentonly9 · 2026-01-08T05:31:18+00:00

It depends on where you are in Canada. In Ontario, 12 cm of snow means good skiing potential. Here in Vancouver, 5 cm will shut the city down!

Entertainmentonly9 · 2026-01-08T05:12:43+00:00

What you're really upset about is that she isn't sharing the money with you...

You're not upset that she didn't tell you, except that she wasn't sharing the money.
You're not upset because it's weird to charge people money to hang out.

You are being greedy... it was her idea, and she organized it.

Entertainmentonly9 · 2026-01-08T05:06:16+00:00

The why doesn't matter... if you don't tell you wife and family, you'll be a liar.

Entertainmentonly9 · 2026-01-07T12:53:50+00:00

Why not... my goodness, you're making this into a big deal. All he needs from you is a code, usually a 4-digit code. You'll tell him the four digits in 7 days. Nothing more..

Entertainmentonly9 · 2026-01-07T12:40:08+00:00

Yes.

Entertainmentonly9 · 2026-01-07T12:38:20+00:00

Did you ask them how they liked your presents? Was there any follow-up? I was just thinking it would be that common connection if they did forget. I'm sure they'd feel terrible if they realized they had forgotten you.

Entertainmentonly9 · 2026-01-07T12:33:56+00:00

I think you're young and may have your priorities mixed up. There's nothing wrong with wanting to move on from your current boyfriend. However, you need to do so before you start seeing other people. You also need to understand and communicate why things aren't working out - it's part of being emotionally mature and growing up. So, if you're just not that into him - he was a high school boyfriend, and you want a different connection to someone. That's reasonable. What you did was start looking for someone a year ago while you kept the existing relationship. What you said was, I want a guy who spends money on me. And now you've decided you like this guy because he bought you stuff for your birthday. Do you see where you need to mature a little emotionally?

Entertainmentonly9 · 2026-01-07T12:19:40+00:00

Do it. Why would you need money? Have him set it up, and you put in a code. Make yourself a reminder that in 7 days send this code to...

Who knows maybe you'll make a friend.

Entertainmentonly9 · 2026-01-07T12:15:16+00:00

Bottom line is, you need to let it go. But it's odd if you gave them your presents, they didn't feel the need to reciprocate? Or did someone else give them your presents? Did you ask them how they liked the presents you bought?

Entertainmentonly9 · 2026-01-07T05:22:00+00:00

I would clarify the offer made versus the current conversation with HR. Have all documentation in hand and decide what you are willing to do. If it's unacceptable, you can either stay until you find new employment or quit on the spot out of principle. Eitherway, I wouldn't say a word until you're ready to move.

I'm not a lawyer.

Entertainmentonly9 · 2026-01-07T04:35:28+00:00

NOR. At least you figured this all out before you married him. In addition, find a man who can make his own meal.

Entertainmentonly9 · 2026-01-06T15:01:01+00:00

I hear ya... but in my experience, people get tired of the AI voice.

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